Bonke abantwana bathanda ukudweba. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali bayakuvuyela kwimisebenzi enjalo yabantwana babo, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha imifanekiso yomntwana inokubangela uvuyo, ngakumbi xa iyenziwa ngemibala emnyama. Ngaba kufanelekile ukukhathazeka ngale nto kwaye kutheni umntwana eqala ukupenda emnyama, siya kuchaza kweli nqaku.
Kutheni umntwana ehamba neentyantyambo ezimnyama?
Ukuhlalutya imidwebo yomntwana, izinto ezininzi kufuneka ziqwalaselwe ngokukhawuleza:
- umbala;
- umfanekiso;
- uxinzelelo, ukuba umntwana uthabathe iipenji eziziveleyo, ipenki okanye ipensela;
- isimo sengqondo somntwana kunye nesimo sakhe jikelele;
- ubudala bomntwana.
Ukuba umntwana udlala ebomvu okanye ukhetha imifanekiso emnyama imifanekiso yakhe - oku kudla ngokuba ngumxholo weemeko zakhe zengqondo ecindezelekileyo. Xa uxinzelelo lwengqondo, olubangelwa impilo embi yomntwana, alubonakalisi nje kuphela kumbala webala, kodwa nangomfanekiso. Abantu okanye izinto kwimidwebo enjalo abantwana bavame ukupenda ngexinzelelo oluqinileyo.
Umntwana kufuneka athole into ayifake ngayo, kutheni ukuba wasebenzisa imbala emnyama imidwebo yakhe. Mhlawumbi, ngentetho enjalo, umntwana uya kuthiwa imbangela yokuxhalaba kwakhe. Njengomthetho, ukuziphatha kakubi, inhlalakahle okanye ubundlobongela kubantwana abonakalwanga kuphela kumaphepha, kodwa nangokuziphatha.
Isizathu sokuthi umntwana udlala ngemibala emnyama ingaba:
- iphikisana nabantwana esikolweni okanye enkulisa;
- iingxabano kwintsapho;
- ubugwenxa ngaphakathi kwintsapho;
- ukuphelelwa ngumzimba okanye kwengqondo;
- isifo;
- ukwesaba komntwana, njl
Ukuba umntwana omncinci uhamba emnyama
Ukuhlaziya imidwebo yabantwana, kubaluleke ngokufanayo ukuqwalasela iminyaka yabo. Zonke izizathu ezingentla zingaphezulu kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-4 ubudala. Ukuba umntwana omncinci udweba ipenisi emnyama okanye imibala emnyama, ngoko ke isizathu sokukhathazeka, mhlawumbi,
Inyaniso yokuba abantwana ababonanga imidwebo yabo njengombonakalo wehlabathi elijikelezile, ngoko ilanga linokumnyama, kwaye ingca imnyama. Imibala emnyama ikhethwa ngabantwana abancinci ngenxa yokuba bahluke nephepha le-albhamu elimhlophe kwaye umfanekiso ubonakala ukhanyisa kubo.
Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, imidwebo eyenziwe ngokusebenzisa imibala emnyama ibonisa isimo sangaphakathi sezingane. Iingxaki zinokufana nabantwana abadala, kodwa ukuxhalaba, ukugonyana, okanye ukudabuka kubonakala ngokubonakalayo ekuziphatheni. Abadala okanye abantwana abancinci akufanele bavunyelwe ukudweba ngemibala emnyama. Ukuba umntwana unenkxalabo kwaye uxhalabile, unako, ngale ndlela, ukunciphisa isimo sakhe sengqondo.