Ubume bomntu ongatshatanga

Kuthatha umzamo omkhulu, umonde nokusebenza ukukhulisa umntwana ngokwakho. Ngesinye isikhathi, abantwana boomama abangatshatanga batyhutshiswa ngabaontanga nabadala. Umntwana ongenapapa wayebhekwa njengento ehlazo kumfazi, kwaye kwakungekho ncoko yokunceda abantwana baomama abangatshatanga. Kodwa, nangona amaxesha kunye namasiko ashintshile, kungekhona onke amabhinqa angakwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo ngobomi obuzeleyo. Urhulumente ngamnye unika uncedo kubantwana abangabantwana abangabodwa, ukuhlawula iingeniso zabantwana kunye nokubonelela ngezibonelelo.

Kodwa iingxaki ezijongene nabantwana abangamaqabane abangatshatanga azihlali zixhomekeke kwiimeko eziphathekayo. Kunzima kowesifazane omnye ukuba avelise inkwenkwe engenalo uyise, ngokuqhelekileyo oomama balimaza oonyana babo okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, bazame ukuphelisa ubuntu babo. Ekugqibeleni, ubudlelwane nabanye busekwe ngokusekelwe kumzekelo wokuziphatha, ukudala iingxaki ekuxoxaneni noontanga. Iingxaki ezinjalo zivela kwiintombi ezikhuliswe ngaphandle komama. Ukugcina umntwana kwiinkalo ezinjalo kuyimfuneko, ngoncedo lweengcali zengqondo, ukuhlakulela imodeli yokuziphatha nomntwana onokuhlawulela ukungabikho komnye wabazali. Inkathazo engaphezulu yinkxalabo yezemali ukuba umama ongatshatanga nabantwana bakhe bangabhekana nayo. Ewe, umyalelo unikezela uncedo nenkxaso yabantwana abangamama abangatshatanga, kodwa okokuqala, akubona wonke umntu owaziyo ngamalungelo abo, kwaye okwesibini, ukuze afumane isibonelelo esincinci, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka uchithe ixesha elininzi kunye namandla. Kodwa ke uyazi ukuba uncedo luni onokulithemba ngalo kwaye indlela yokufezekisa ngayo ayiyi kuba yinto engabonakaliyo.

Ngubani obonwa njengomama ongatshatanga?

Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba ubani obonwa njengomama ongatshatanga. Le ngongoma ibalulekile ekufumaneni uncedo lwamazwe kumama ongatshatanga.

E-Ukraine, isimo somama ongenamnye sifumaneka ngabasetyhini abakhulisa ngokuzimeleyo umntwana, ngaphandle kokuba umntwana engazange azalwe emtshatweni, ubaba womntwana ubhalisiwe ngamazwi kamama okanye ngenxa yokuhlolwa kwangaphambili. Ukuba umama ongatshatanga utshatile, kodwa umyeni omtsha akaqapheli ubuntwaba, ngoko imeko iyahlala. Abahlolokazi bafumana le meko.

E-Rashiya, isimo somama ongatshatanga sichazwa ukuba umntwana engatshatanga, okanye iintsuku ezingama-300 emva kokutshatyalaliswa komtshato, okanye ngokungabikho kokuzikhethela ngokuzithandela. Xa kwenzeka ukufa komlingane, isimo asibelwe, kwaye umntwana womntwana akahlawulwa omnye umntwana.

Ukunceda oomama abangatshatanga

Ukufumana uncedo lomama ongenamzali kuyimfuneko ukuqokelela amaxwebhu kunye nokufaka isicelo kunye namagunya okukhusela uluntu kwindawo yokuhlala. Ukususela kwinyanga yesicelo kuze kube yilapho umntwana efikelela kwiminyaka eyi-16 (ukuba umntwana ungumfundi oneminyaka eli-18 ubudala), umama ongenamzali uya kufumana inkxaso yenkxaso yabantwana kwaye ujabulele iintlawulo ezinikezelwe ngumthetho. Uncedo lwabafazi abangatshatanga abanezingane ezininzi bahlawuliswa ngabanye, kuxhomekeke kwimeko yemali kunye nenani labantwana. Inzuzo umama ongatshatanga kunye nabantwana ababini bavavanywa ngabanye.

Bobabini eRashiya naseUkraine kunenzuzo kubaama abangatshatanga kwi-kindergarten nasezikolweni. Imbopheleleko kukunciphisa intlawulo yenkxaso kwi-fund yeziko lemfundo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunokubonelelwa ngokutya okukhululekileyo, kwii-nursergens kukho imida ekhethiweyo.

Ukongezelela kuncediso lwemali, imithetho ihlinzeka ngeenzuzo kubomama abangabodwa kwi-labor sector. Okokuqala, umthetho we-Ukraine kunye neRashiya ichaza uxanduva lwabaqeshi ekuboneleleni ngemisebenzi kunomama ongatshatanga, nangona xa kuthengiswa ishishini. Ngokufanayo, umqeshi akanalo ilungelo lokunciphisa umama wendawo yokusebenzela engafanelekanga okanye ngenxa yokunciphisa abasebenzi.

Ukuqwalaselwa ngokwahlukileyo kwekhefu loomama abangatshatanga. ERashiya, ilungelo lomama ongenamzali linikezelwa ngeentsuku ezingama-14 ezingenakuhlawulwa kwekhefu elongezelelweyo kunyaka, onokudibaniswa nekhefu elihlawulwayo okanye esetyenziswe naliphi na ixesha. Usuku olungasetyenziswanga omnye unyaka aluqhubeki. E-Ukraine, oomama abangatshatanga banelungelo leentsuku ezi-7 zekhefu elongezelelweyo lokuhlawula. Ukuba ikhefu elongezelelweyo alizange lisetyenziswe ngaphakathi konyaka, lihlehliselwa unyaka ozayo. Xa kususwa zonke iintsuku ezingasetyenzisiweyo zekhefu elongezelelweyo zihlawulwa. Ukongezelela kuncediso oluchazwe ngumthetho kaRhulumente, kwisixeko ngasinye kunokufumana uncedo olongezelelweyo.

Oomama abaninzi abangamaqabane abanamava ngamalungelo abo. Ukuze ufumane uncedo lukarhulumente ngokupheleleyo, abafazi kufuneka bafunde imithetho ehlinzekela ukuhlawulwa kweenzuzo kunye nokubonelelwa kwezibonelelo. Kuya kuba luncedo kwiziko lokuncedisa uluntu kwindawo yokubhalisa ukufumana iingcebiso ngokubonelela ngoncedo kwiimeko ezithile.

Oomama abangatshatanga nenye yezona ndawo zingenakuvikeleka kuluntu, ngoko kufuneka bazi kakuhle kwaye bakwazi ukusebenzisa amalungelo anikezelweyo. Emva kwakho konke, kwiimfesane zabo ezincinci zentombi, zodwa zinoxanduva lobomi kunye nokufa kwabantwana.