Ingqiqo yexesha akukona nje ukukwazi ukuhamba ngehora, kodwa kunye nekhono eliyimfuneko ukudala urhulumente ofanelekileyo wosuku, ngoko ke isibambiso sokuphila. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngeeminyaka ezintandathu okanye ezisixhenxe, abantwana banokwazi ukuba bafunde kakuhle ngaluphi ixesha losuku abangaphandle kwewindow. Kodwa ngezure zeeyure, ezininzi iintsana zinenkinga kunye nokudideka. Yingakho abazali bahlala bexhalabele malunga nendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba akhethe ixesha. Kakade ke, ngakwesinye icala kwiminyaka yethu yobugcisa bezobugcisa, iifolo ziye zatshintshwa ngokutshintshiweyo ngefowuni. Nangona kunjalo, ukuqonda ixesha kwixesha elidala kuyisakhono esibalulekileyo enoba ubani na kufuneka abe nayo. Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ngokukhawuleza nangentlungu? Kulo mbandela, siya kuzama ukuqonda.
Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba abukele
Into yokuqala ukuqala yilungiselelo lomntwana ngengqiqo yexesha. Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngendlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba aqonde ixesha, kufuneka akwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwentsasa nemini ukususela kusihlwa. Xoxa ngalesi sihloko naye kwiimpawu eziqondakalayo. Masithi, kusasa, uvuka aze atye isidlo sakusasa, emini udlala naye kwaye uhambe, kwaye ngokuhlwa uhlambe uze ulungiselele umbhede. Emva kokuba umntwana efunde ezi ngcamango, umntu kufuneka ahambe kumaxesha. Ngokomzekelo, unokuzicingela ngoncedo lwenkqutyana yokubambisana: ekwindla onke amaqabunga emithini aphendukile kwaye awa, ebusika ihluma, kwimifula yamanzi entwasahlobo kunye nemithi iqala ukujika, ehlobo, kushushu kwaye kujikeleze ezininzi iintyatyambo. Xa ezi ngcamango ziyazi kakuhle, unokunyuka kwiinyanga, uze emva kweeveki. Ukuba umntwana usemncinci, unokumthengela uncedo olubonakalayo kunye nemifanekiso malunga namaxesha kunye neenyanga. Xa kufika ixesha lokufunda iintsuku zeveki, ungazama ukuwachaza ngoncedo lweembalo ezihlukeneyo, apho umntwana ehamba khona. Ngokomzekelo, ngoMvulo ngowamaxesha eNgesi yesiNgesi, ngoLwesibini uya kwimidanso, njl.
Okubunzima kakhulu ekufundeni iinjongo ezifana nezolo, namhlanje nangomso. Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana adibanise oko kudala, ikamva kunye nekhoyo. Mxelele ukuba kusasa ntoni xa usukuma, namhlanje yiyo eyenzekayo ngoku, kwaye izolo zizaliswe ngeemeko ezikhunjulwe ngumntwana.
Emva kokuba zonke ezi ngcamango zingaphezulu okanye zingaphantsi kakuhle ngunyana, lixesha lokucinga malunga nendlela yokumfundisa ukuba aqinisekise ixesha.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba abukele?
Imbali yokubukela abantwana ingaba lula kwaye yenziwe nguwe ekuhambeni. Tshela umntwana ukuba abantu basebenzise ixesha elide ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo: isanti, amanzi, umatshini kunye nekhompyutha. Into ephambili okufuneka uyenze ngaphambi kokuqala uqeqesho ngumdla womntwana kwesi sihloko. Ngaphandle komnqweno womntwana, akunakwenzeka ukuba ufezekise nantoni na. Indlela yokuchazela umlindo womntwana?
Uqeqesho lwakho lube yinkqubo-nyi nyathelo. Musa ukunqumla ukuya kumzuzwana olandelayo de usana ufunde enye yangaphambili:
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi iinombolo kwaye uyazi ukuba uyaziqonda kwaye azibale.
- Yenza i-clock clock layout, apho iintolo zingasuswa khona, kunye neenkomfa zemizuzu zingabonakali inani lamaminithi. Kwakhona kulungile ukuthenga enye iwashi enkulu kunye nedala.
- Fundisa umntwana ngomzuzu, ngeyure kunye nesibini izandla. Qala nge sibini, tk. Uhlala ehamba, kwaye umntwana uya kuhlala ebona ukunyakaza kwakhe kwiwashi ye-alamu. Cacisa kwintsana ukuba le sibini yithuba apho ungawabetha khona izandla zakho. Slam nayo yonke yesibini. Xa ibhulobho igqiba isangqa sakhe, tshela ukuba kudlule umzuzu
- Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukusebenza ngamehlo. Uya kuba neenombolo ezili-12 kuphela kwi-arsenal yakho. Musa ukulayisha umntwana ngolwazi oluninzi. Ekuqaleni kuya kuba nokwaneleyo ukuba ixesha lihlukaniswe ngeyure eli-1, ngaphezulu kweyure, malunga neyesibini, ezimbini, malunga neyesithathu, njl. Cacisa umntwana ukuba yeyiphi isangqa, kwaye yiyiphi ikota. Qinisekisa ukuba uchaze ukuba uluphi utolo oluhambayo, kwaye ubuze umntwana ukuba aguqule.
- Emva koko, unokufakela isandla somzuzu kwisakhiwo. Bonisa kwi-layout isandla esincinci sisoloko sisexesha elide, ukusuka kolunye ukuya kutsho elilandelayo lemizuzu emi-5, kwaye isangqa esipheleleyo sotolo olude lure. Mayeke ixesha, lihlukaniswe ngama-3 iiyure 5 imizuzu, okanye iiyure ezimbini imizuzu engama-45. Ungasebenzisi amagama "ngaphandle kwetlanu" kwaye "ngaphandle kweleshumi elinesibini," musa ukukhawuleza izinto.
- Kwintsimi yomntwana ayizange ibenze buthathaka, gcoba intshukumo enkulu yewashi ye-alamu into encinane yelo lwanyana. Yenza okufanayo kwidijithi nganye. Ukuze ufundise umntwana ukuba aqonde ngeyure, unokumxelela ukuba xa isikhova siza kutyelela i-chanterelle, uya kujonga ikhathuni okanye uhambe ukuhamba.
Yenza ishedyuli yosuku nomntwana. Ukuchasana nantoni na, yinto yokuhamba, ukuhlamba okanye isidlo sakusihlwa, dweba ifowuni ngomfanekiso wexesha xa kwenzeka. Ngoko umntanakho uya kukhumbuza isikhundla seentolo ngokukhawuleza. Into ephambili akuyikukhawuleza umntwana wakho kwaye amvumele ukuba asebenze newashi eyedwa. Kwaye ke umbuzo wokufundisa umntwana wexesha uya kukuyeka ukukhathazeka.