Namhlanje umtshato ovuyayo awunanto. Oku kuya kugwetywa ngokusekelwe kwimibare yokuqhawula umtshato, echaza ukuba ukusuka kuma-60% ukuya kuma-80% emitshato yonke ekugqibeleni idibanisa. Kungoko kukufanelekile ukucinga ngendlela yokwenza umtshato ujabule, ukususela ekuqaleni, ukugcina ubudlelwane obuhle.
Ngaba kukho imitshato evuyayo?
Impendulo yalo mbuzo ayinakulinganisa - ewe, kwaye iziseko zomtshato ocolileyo zilula kwaye ziyaqondakala kubo bonke abantu, ngexesha nje abantu beyeka ukucinga ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba babambelele kubo.
Ngokwenene, i-psychology yomtshato ovuyayo ifana neengqondo zezobuhlobo obonwabileyo: inhlonipho, ukuqonda ngokuvisisana, inkxaso kunye neentlobo ezahlukeneyo zifunekayo, ngenxa yokuba yonke into iyakhazamisa, kwaye ukudibanisa "ukumbamba ukungaphumeleli" kuqala, kunye, ukuze , sibheno kwiimfanelo.
Izimfihlelo zomtshato ovuyisayo
Umendo oya kumtshato ovuyayo uvela ekuzaleni iimpazamo zomntu. Emva koko, ukuba ekuqaleni into yonke "yayibi," awuyi kutshata lomntu. Ngako oko, ukuba sibuyela kwimvelaphi, sinokubuyela kubuhlobo obuninzi kwizinto ezisele zilibalekile, kodwa ngokusoloko zikholisa.
- Umgaqo wokuqala womtshato ovuyayo kukuhlonipha! Ungalokothi ukhulume kakubi ngezinto ezibalulekileyo kwiqabane lakho. Ungafungi kuluntu. Ungazivumeli amagama okuhlambalaza kunye nezwi lokukrakra. HLAWULISA iqabane lakho kuyo yonke into yegama.
- Imibare yemitshato evuyayo ibonisa ukuba abantu abaneemfuno ezifanayo okanye umsebenzi oqhelekileyo baneliseke kakhulu ngomtshato wabo kunabo bonke. Umsebenzi wakho ukuwufumana. Izifundo zoDaniso? Ukwenza imidlalo? Inkqubo yamandla? Ukuhamba ngokuhlwa? Ubuchule bokudibanisa? Kufuneka ube nesizathu esifanayo, esikunika uvuyo oluninzi.
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- Ukuthintana noTactile. Zama ukuchukumisa rhoqo. Khangela ngaphambi kokuba ushiye kwaye ekubuyeni kwakho, udibanise ngoxa ukhangele iTV. Ezi ziqhelo ezidibanisa ngokwenene.
- Gwema ulwaphulo olude. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka udibanise yonke into kwisiqingatha. Khangela nje indlela eyakhayo yokuphuma kwimeko - musa ukusilalisa ngeveki, kwaye uhlale phantsi kwaye uxoxe ngokukhawuleza ukuba uphume njani kule meko, fumana ukulungelelanisa.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba umtshato wesibini ovuyayo unomdla ngakumbi kunokuba uyonwabile kuqala, kodwa oku kusebenza kuphela kwiimanyano ezagqitywa ngobutsha, ubuwula okanye ukukhulelwa-oko kukuthi, ngaphandle kokuhlolwa kokuqala kokuhambelana nezinye iimpawu ezibalulekileyo.
Sinokufumana njani uvuyo emtshatweni?
Ukuba ubona ukuba umtshato awuhambisani nawe, kungenzeka ukuba ucinga ngesimo sakho sengqondo, kungekhona ezinye iingxaki. Qala ngokuhlalutya, ukuthatha iphepha kunye nepeni:
- Yintoni engafanelekanga kumtshato?
- Ungayitshintsha njani le nto?
- Kuya kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ngeli xesha?
Umzekelo, awuthandi ukuba indoda ihleli phambi kweTV okanye ikhompyutha yonke imini. Ukuze utshintshe oku kwaye umtsalane kwixesha lokubambisana, kufuneka umnike enye into enomdla: ukubukela i-movie, ukuhamba, ukuya kwiteyaterari okanye i-movie, ukuya kwiphathi, njl. Ixesha le phantse lingafunwa, kwaye lingasetyenziselwa phantse nantoni na, xa kunomnqweno onjalo. Ingxaki ixazululwe. Ngokufanayo, unokusombulula iinjongo ezininzi emtshatweni, ngokuqhelekileyo zilungele ukulungiswa.