Ngokweziphakamiso zoogqirha, umlinganiselo ophezulu phakathi kokuzalwa kwintombazana iminyaka emithathu. Kodwa ubomi bubomi, kwaye izicwangciso zethu azihlali zizaliseka ngexesha. Omnye ujika ukukhulelwa ngaphambi kokubeka iminyaka emithathu, kwaye umntu ufuna, ukuba unabantwana-pogodki. Makhe sibone umehluko kwiminyaka emibini phakathi komntwana wokuqala nowesibili.
Impilo kaMama
Ukuba ufuna ukungafani kwiminyaka yabantwana bakho iminyaka engama-2, into ebaluleke kakhulu malunga noko kufuneka ucinge ngako - kufuneka ulungiselele ukukhulelwa komntwana wesibini, xa okokuqala kuya kuba ngaphezu konyaka. Ngaphambi kokucwangcisa ukukhulelwa, ungalibali ukutyelela ugqirha uze uthathe iimvavanyo eziyimfuneko. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuze kuqinisekiswe impilo yeenkqubo zabo zokuzala emva kokuzalwa kokuqala. Njengoko kuchaziwe ngasentla, umzimba wesibini ubuyiselwa emva kokukhulelwa iminyaka emininzi (cinga kwakhona ixesha lokuncelisa), kodwa, ngokubanzi, unokuzala ngaphambi. Oku kufuneka kube sisigqibo sakho somntu siqu, sithathwe emva kokubonisana nodokotela kwaye usekelwe kwiirekhodi zakho zempilo.
Ubomi obuthile
Abantwana ababini baninzi ngaphezu kweyodwa. Ngale binzana amaninzi amaninzi avuma. Amabini amabini (ngokukodwa ngokuhluka kancinane kwiminyaka yobudala) yenza isandi, udlale ujikeleze, ukhenkce ngakumbi. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuhle - bobabini bethu bahlala benomdla ngakumbi. Kwaye abanye - abazali banokufumana kunzima ukuphatha nabantwana. Kuyafana nakwiingongoma eziphambili zokunyamekela abantwana abancinci. Simele silungiselele ukuba kuyinkathazo ukuqokelela kokubili ngokukhawuleza, ngexesha elifanayo ukulala ukulala komhla, njl. Nangona kunjalo, oku kunzima ekuqaleni. Ngommahluko phakathi kobantwana babini kwiminyaka yabo irhulumente ingahlaziywa ngokupheleleyo, kodwa oku kuya kuthatha ixesha elithile.
Icandelo leengqondo
Kuvela ubunzima xa umama kufanele anike ixesha lokuzalwa komntwana, kwaye ngeli xesha unyaka wokuqala, oneminyaka emibini ubudala uqala ukufuna ukunakwa ngakumbi kunokuba ngaphambili. Isizathu salo -
Ukwenza oku, kufuneka uqonde ukuba inkunzi eneminyaka engama-2 ubudala, nangona ngokuzenzekelayo iba ngumntwana omdala, ayilungele ukufumana uxanduva olunjalo. Musa ukumbandakanya ekunakekeleni usana olutsha ngokuthanda kwakhe. Umnqweno wokunceda kufuneka ube yendalo kwaye uqhubeke nomntwana ngokwakhe.
Ngokweminyaka yobudala, umahluko phakathi kweminyaka engama-2 iqhutywe kancinci. Abazali baba lula xa abantwana bekhula kwaye baqala ukuba ngabahlobo.