Ukuqwalaselwa kokungabikho

Khumbula umfundi, i-Komsomol kwaye, ekugqibeleni, nje ubuhle, i heroine yefilimu ethi "iCaucasus Captive"? Kungenxa yokuba wayenenhlanhla embi, ukutshata ngokunyanzeliswa, ngaphandle kwemvume kwaye engenalo uthando. Kodwa inhlanhla iselungile, yahlangula uShurik wayo onesibindi, kwaye kungekhona loo nto ... Nangona kunjalo, kwaye yintoni eyenzekayo? Ewe, wayeza kutshata, kwaye emva kwexesha wayeza kufaka inkundla enkundleni, ngoko bathi, kwaye ke, phantsi kokunyanzeliswa kwesi siganeko kwenzeka, kufuneka kulungiswe ...

Ubomi - into engaqinisekanga, kunye nomtshato - nangakumbi. Omnye utshata ngothando, umntu ngokubalwa, kwaye umntu ukhohlisiwe, wanyanzeliswa, wathi: "Kwakunjalo!". Okokugqibela, ewe, ihlaya.

Kodwa yintoni enokuyenza kwimeko apho omnye womtshato esafuna ukuqonda umtshato njengento engavumelekanga, makhe sibone. Okokuqala, inkqubo yokuqaphela ukungabikho nto ihluke ngokusuka kumtshato (umtshato). Nangona kunjalo ukuba zombini le nkqubo iqhutyelwa enkundleni, inkqubo yokwenza izigqibo zenkundla kunye nemiphumo yomtshato, okanye kunoko, "ikhefu" layo liya kuhluka. Okwesibini, kulula ukuhlukanisa umlingane kunokuba ufumane ubungqina obuyimfuneko bokungabikho komtshato, ubhale ngokuchanekileyo ingxelo yesibango, ungalibali malunga nemali yeburhulumente kunye nexabiso "elijikelezayo" olinike kummeli kwimicimbi yentsapho, ngaphandle kwayo, .

Ngaphambi kokuba uqhubeke nale nkqubo, kubalulekile ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba uyafuna oku, kwaye nokuba kuya kuba kuhle kuwe. Kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba ufumane indlela yokuqonda umtshato njengengavumelekanga.

Kwaye, ngokwenene, isiseko ..?

Ukuba usagqiba kwelo nyathelo, ke izizathu zokubona umtshato njengento engavumelekanga. Kukho iimeko ezithile, ukugcinwa okuyimfuneko ngexesha lomtshato. Ukuqatshelwa kwento engenakwenziwa kuqhutyelwa isigqibo senkundla xa kwenzeka ukuba le miqathango yaphulwa.

Imimiselo yokuqaphela umtshato njengento engavumelekanga ingaba ngale ndlela:

Into ephambili kukukhumbula ukuba awuyi kukwazi ukuqonda umtshato wakho njengento engavumelekanga kwiminqweno yeemali. Umthetho ujoliswe ekunciphiseni iimvavanyo ezinjalo. Oku kuhlawulwa kwaye akunakunqunqwa. Ewe, ukuba usenqwenela ngokwenene, zama - ungathuthuli, uthathe ithuba. Kodwa musa ukuthetha kamva ukuba awuzange ucetyiswe ...

Ukuqulunqa

Xa umtshato uthathwa njengongento kwaye zonke iingxaki zalo mgaqo sele ziphelile ngokwabo, lixesha lokucinga ngemiphumo. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwemihlaba kunye nezitya eziphukileyo, kuya kuba neminye imiphumo yokuqonda umtshato ongenanto. Makhe sicinge ngale miphumo ukusuka kwindlela yokujonga ubudlelwane bomthetho:

Nantsi le nto, ixesha elide elindelweyo xa umtshato wakho ususwe ngokupheleleyo. Emva kokuba inkundla ifumene ingavumelekile, unokuphefumula ngokuthula. Kwaye kamva, xa ugcwalisa nawaphi na amaxwebhu, kwikholam "isimo somtshato", unokubonisa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba awusatshatanga. Nento esikuvuyisayo. Kwaye, ungayifunanga nto?