Abazali ngabantu bethu abaluleke kakhulu, kuba basinike ubomi. Ukusuka kubo umntwana ufumana amava aphezulu kunye nolwazi, izithethe, ukholo, ziyimithombo yakhe yolwazi, ukuziphatha, ukuziphatha.
Abaninzi abanombulelo kubazali babo. Endleleni zihlambalazo, ukwesaba, ukungakwazi ukuyiqonda, amagama angatshitshiyo. Kwaye le ilitye elikhulu emphefumlweni womntu. Inkqubo yoxolelwaniso inokuhlala iminyaka. Kodwa omnye kufuneka aqhubeke, kwaye ngokukhawuleza aphephe ukucaphuka kwaye angenakuthethelelwa. Ngokuhamba kwexesha, ungazibona izizathu kwaye uziqonde iimvakalelo zabazali. Mhlawumbi babenomdla obunzima okanye babengenalo ubudlelwane nabazali babo.
Zama ukudibanisa nabazali bakho, ukuphucula ubudlelwane, ukufumana ixesha elihle, kunye nento enokuyibulela ngayo abazali bakho, umzekelo, kubomi bakho, kodwa oku kungaphezulu koko bangayinika.
Ukubulela kubantwana kubazali kunokubonakaliswa ngeendlela ezininzi:
- Ngamazwi . Khumbula kuphela iimpawu zabo ezilungileyo kunye nezenzo. Ukulinganisa izidima kunye nokudumisa, nangona abanye bengavumelani nale nto. Ukucinga ngabo kulungile kuphela.
- Amazwi . Thetha ngabazali nabazali ngesisa kunye nothando. Banike intlonelo kunye neentlonelo ezikhoyo.
- Izenzo . Ukwenza ngokufanelekileyo nangokunyanisekileyo, kuba abantwana abanjalo banokuba kunye nabazali abafanayo. Kufuneka uncede abazali bakho ngovuyo, ukukholiswa, ukwenzela ukuba bayakuvuyela ukunxibelelana nawe.
- Bhala incwadi yokubulela kubazali.
Xa ulahla ukungabikho komthetho kubazali bakho, valisa ukubonga kwakho, uya kumangaliswa xa uqaphela ukuba baninzi kuwe. Ukuba ungakakulungeli ukuya ekuxolelaneni, zama ukubhala ileta kubo.
Indlela yokubhala ukubonga ngabazali?
- Amazwi okubonga kubazali kubantwana kufuneka aqaliswe unyango lwethenda: daddy, mama, bathandekayo, bathandekayo. Emva koko, uchaza uhlobo oluthile lweembulelo ezifudumayo okanye isiganeko esihle, ungacacisa injongo yale leta. Bhala ngokunyanisekileyo, ukuba awuyiva into ethile, kungcono ukuyiyeka ngokupheleleyo kwisicatshulwa.
- Emva koko xelela into oyibongayo kubo. Kwimiyalezo, faka iimvakalelo zakho kunye neengcamango. Ukuba oku kukubonga kwintombi kubazali ekukhulisweni kwabantwana, ngoko kubhaliweyo kubonisa indlela abenza ngayo lula ubomi bakho, ukuze ulungise ngelo xesha indlu, okanye izifundo zakudala kunye nabazukulu bakho bancedisa ukuba ukhulise abantwana abafundayo, ngoxa ufumana imali kwintsapho . Nangona ukuba yinto encinci, phawula kulo mbhalo, abazali baya kuvuya.
- Khumbula isiganeko esicacileyo ebomini obuqhelekileyo, ezinjalo iinkumbulo ziyathandeka kuwo onke amalungu entsapho. Ngexa uzalisekisa, bonise ukuba yintoni na eli ganeko livelise kuwe. Siyabonga ngabazali bakho ngokubona ilanga, abathandekayo bakho, ukwenza okuthandayo. Kwizinto ezincinci maxa wambi zibaluleke kakhulu.
- Ekugqibeleni, bhala indlela evuyayo ngayo ukuba unjalo (bonisa isidima sabo) abazali. Bhengeza kubo amazwi othando lwakho nothando. Kungathiwa bayazisola ngokuba bazinike intlungu yokuba babengenakuhlala bencedisa, ukuba baqabile ukubabona. Kuya kuba ngumbono wokubamema kwidlophana encinci yentsapho. Ungalibali ukumbamba kunye nokubanga abazali bakho. Ukugqiba loo leta ngokusayinela ngegama lomnxeba wabantwana, abazali bakho ababizele ngalo. Beka okuncane kumbongi wakho. Ileta ayiyi kuthatha ixesha elininzi, kwaye abazali baya kuziva beyimfuneko kwaye baxabiseke kuwe.
- Khumbula, xa umbulelo kubazali ngoncedo okanye kwimfundo ebalulekileyo yabantwana ibonisa isikhungo semfundo,
Amagama abhaliwe kwiphepha elininzi kwaye ngokubanzi ifomu inefom ye-letters eyancomekayo apho kubhalwe khona oku kubhaliweyo: othandekayo ___ (igama labazali), ulawulo lwesikolo luzisa uxabiso lokukhulisa kakuhle intombi (igama, igama lokuqala) kunye nesinceda sakho esikolweni. Ngaphantsi kwesayinitsha, kufuphi ne-decryption (umlawuli, utitshala oyintloko, utitshala wesifundo) kunye nesitampu sesikolo. Mhlawumbi kufanele wenze okufanayo kubazali bakho?
Ukufundisa abantwana abanombulelo, nabazali kufuneka bababonge abanye, kuba umntwana ukopisha indlela abaziphatha ngayo abadala.