Igama elithi "umtshato" lenza nje iimvakalelo ezintle, njengoko zifanekisela ukuqala kobomi obutsha, obonwabileyo. Iphupha elinjalo lishiya emva kwendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuze ufunde ulwazi olungakumbi, kufuneka uqwalasele ezinye iinkcukacha zokulala.
Kutheni uphupha umtshato?
Iphupha elinjalo luphawu olulungileyo oluqikelela ukuba utshintsho oluhle ebomini. Ukuba iphupha lomtshato liyabonwa ngabantu abakhulileyo, ngoko kufuneka balungiselele ukufika kwezihlobo. Ukuphupha umtshato okanye ukuthetha ngawo, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza uza kufumana isipho esilinga. Iyakwazi ukubonakalisa utshintsho lwehlabathi jikelele. Ukuba utshatile ephupheni, kufuneka ulindele ukuphuka kobudlelwane, oko kuza kwenzeka kuphela ngephutha lakho.
Iphupha apho ufumene umnikelo womtshato, uqikelele ukuvela kwengxoxo ebalulekileyo malunga neyorhwebo enenzuzo okanye izicwangciso zekamva. UDreambook uphinde uxelele ukuba lo mntu ebomini bokwenene awuyi kuba nobudlelwane obunzulu. Ukuba ephupheni unokungabaza ukuba uyayamkela isiluleko somtshato, ngoko ebomini bokwenene, abantu abakujikelezayo bakucinga ukuba ungumntu onobuchule. Umtoliki wephupha, apho umtshato wakhe uphupha khona, uguqulelwe njengenguqu ngokukhawuleza emsebenzini wakhe. Kuba abantu abavame ukuphonsa imali emoyeni, iphupha liyisixwayiso sokuba kungalungile ukuba ugqibe.
Kutheni intombazana iphupha ngomtshato?
Ngokwesondo esilungileyo, iphupha elinjalo luphawu oluthelekileyo oluthembisa ukufumana ulonwabo kunye noshintsho olukhulu ebomini. Konke oku kuya kushiya ezininzi iimpawu kunye nemizwa emihle. Kumfazi otshatileyo, iphupha elinjalo lifanekisela ukuqhubeka kwentsapho, kwaye ukukhulelwa akuyi kulungiswa, kodwa uyavuya.