Kuyaziwa ukuba ubuthongo abukho nje kuphela uhlobo lokuqhubeka kwenyaniso, kodwa kunye nokuzibonakalisa kweemfuno zakho ezifihlakeleyo, ukwesaba kunye nethemba, ngoko kuya kuhlala kuncedo ukuphulaphula amaphupha akho. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uziqonde kakuhle, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uya kukunceda ekuhambeni okungalunganga kwikamva.
Akukho mntu uye wabonisa ubungqina beemimoya kunye nemimoya, kodwa abantu abavumi ukukholelwa ubungqina babo, kodwa iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo, kwaye oku kunqabile ukubakhokelela.
Umoya womntu ophilileyo amaphupha
Nantsi omnye umzekelo wenene. Umhlobo omdala uqala ukuphupha indoda, ukumangalela ngezikhalazo zangaphambilini. Umntu emva kwamaphupha anjalo, uzive ehlelekile kwaye uzama ukufumana umngane wakhe omdala, ongabonanga iminyaka emininzi. Hayi, ukuhluleka ...
Kwaye umhlobo wayeka ukuphupha. Kwaye kwiminyaka emininzi kamva, kwafunyanwa ngephanyazi ukuba kwakuloo xesha xa umhlobo weza ephupheni ukuba wayefa esibhedlele (kwilizwe elikude!) Emva kwengozi yemoto.
Kutheni iifolo ziphupha?
Ukubona kwiphupha umoya womntu ngumzuzu obaluleke kakhulu kuwe! Nasi, umzekelo, yintoni iphupha lomntu ogqoke ezimhlophe - ukudakumba nokudakumba, ukuba kumnyama - kulindeleke ukuba ube ngumntu ococekileyo kwizihlobo zakhe. Ukuba ugoba ewindow ekufeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, yintoni umfazi wesimo saloo ndoda, ebonisa izinto ezintle kakhulu - ukukhula komsebenzi kulindelekile, kodwa akuyi kukunika uvuyo olukhulu. Ukubona kwiphupha umoya womntu ophilayo - qaphela, iintshaba zakho ziceba okuthile kuwe.
Ukufika ephupheni yomoya kuhlale kukukhathazeka ngokufa komntu, okanye ukwesaba ubomi kunye nempilo yabantu abasondele kuwe. IiMoya zihlala ziphupha ngenxa yokuba unomdla wesiganeko esithile esingathandekiyo esilindele kuwe okanye esoyikayo.