Indoda yoshishino yanamhlanje inyanzelekile ukuba ibhekane nenani elikhulu lamalingani amasha, oogxa kunye nabaqhelana nabo. Ezinye ziphela ziqhagamshelo eziphakathi ekufezeni injongo ethile, kwaye abanye banokuxhomekeke kwimpumelelo yenkampani ngokupheleleyo. Ukukhawuleza ukuba izicwangciso ezinjalo zenzeke njani, zixazulula ukukwazi ukuqhuba intetho yezoshishino. Umntu ngamnye ozihlonelayo kufuneka abe nalo. Yaye nendlela yokufunda imigaqo-siseko, iya kubangela iingcebiso zethu.
Ukulungiselela nokuziphatha kweengxoxo zoshishino
Zonke iingcamango zanamhlanje zokuqhuba iingxoxo zoshishino zisekelwe kwimigaqo emininzi jikelele. Oku kubandakanya umzekelo wokunxibelelana, ukubonakala kunye kunye nenqaku elicacileyo leenjongo ezifunekayo ukuphumeza ngethuba lentlanganiso kunye nomdlali. Xa uthetha intlanganiso, mhlawumbi sele uyayazi ukuba yintoni isiphumo sayo esifanelekileyo. Ngoko ke, ukulungelelaniswa kwayo kufuneka kulungele kwaye kulungele ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Ungakulibali ukuba umnxibelelwano unokuziphatha ngendlela othanda ngayo kwaye kusengaphambili awuyi kuba nako ukuqikelela ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngoko ke, kusengaphambili, gcinani engqondweni zonke iindlela zokunxibelelana. Kuxhomekeke kwisiphumo esifunekayo, banokuba nzima okanye bathembeke. Khumbula ukuba isimboli asikho isimo sengqondo, kodwa yindlela yokuthintela umnxibelelwano. Ukuqhuba intetho kufuneka kuqhutywe ngentloko ebandayo kunye nokulawula ngokupheleleyo imeko. Ngoko, makhe sihlaziye iindidi eziphambili zeengxoxo zoshishino:
- Ukulungiselela:
- ukunyamekela imbonakalo yakho. Into yokuqala oya kuyijonga iingubo zakho. Ingcali yaseMelika kwiimfundiso zoshishino ithi i-ruffles kunye neendonga kwimpahla yowesifazane weshishini unceda ukuphumelela enkulu, kuba ngokutshintshela ngokungathinteli ingqwalasela yabachasi. Kwakhona iindlela ezahlukeneyo zeempahla zoshishino zivumela ukuba uxoxisane kwiingubo zokugqoka ngendlela eqhelekileyo. Oku kukuvumela ukuba utshintshe izibhambane kunye nama-turtlenecks, kunye nezicathulo ezinezithende eziphakamileyo;
- Ngaphambi kokuba intlanganiso ibaluleke ukucacisa inkqubo encinci kunye nenkqubo ephakamileyo ofuna ukuyifumana ngexesha lokunxibelelana. Ekusekeni izinto eziphambili kunye nokugqiba into enokubingelelwa ngenxa yeenjongo zabo, ubuchule bokwenene bokuxoxisana buyinyaniso;
- ukulungiselela imeko yeengxoxo. Zama ukubonelela ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuphuhlisa incoko. Indlela efanelekileyo kukuba udwebe umzobo ngendlela yomthi: "Ukuba kunjalo, ngoko ...";
- Olunye ulungelelaniso luyindawo yokuxoxisana. Ukuba wena njengowesifazane unikwe ilungelo lokuzikhethela ngokwakho, zama ukwenza loo nto apho uya kuziva ukhululekile kwaye uqinisekile.
- Iingxoxo zoshishino - isicwangciso kunye namaqhinga.
Xa bonke abaqhagamshelana nabo ekuqokeleleni nasekunxibelelweni bekhula, zama ukulandela imigaqo yokuxoxisana kwaye ugcine engqondweni ehamba phambili ehamba phambili:
- Ungabonakali ukuba unomdla kwisiphumo sencoko;
- Ukuba iingxabano zakho zinamaqondo abuthathaka, zama ukuzifihla. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, qwa lasela indlela yokubanxibelelana kakuhle nabo kwi-interlocutors;
- zizolile kwaye zingasebenzi. Funda ukukhupha. Ekugqibeleni, ihlabathi liphela isigaba esinye esikhulu;
- zama ukukholisa umthengi wakho ngaphambi kokuba uyithande. Vula, ubenobungane kwaye uhloniphekile. Eyona nto ingcono xa ukha ubuhlobo obuhle phambi kwentlanganiso yebhizinisi;
- benzise ilungelo lakho lemvelo ukuhlala uhlala ngumfazi. I-etiquette yeentetho zoshishino ivumela iinketho xa unokucela uncedo kwaye umzekelo, gcina iposta eneemifanekiso, njl. Nangona abachasi banokukunceda, baphazamiseka, oku kudlala ezandleni zakho;
- Ukuxoxisana nabalingani bezoshishino kuye kwimeko yakho, thintela imeko apho ukuthengiselana sele kusekupheleni kokugqiba, kodwa umthengi uqala ukubeka iimfuno ezingaphezulu. Ukuba awukwazi ukuzisa incoko kwintsimi yakho, sebenzisa indlela ephumelelayo njengoluhlehlisayo. Le yintlukwano kwingxoxo malunga nexesha elithile ngokuvumelana kwamaqela. Wonke umntu unethuba lokugqithisa amandla abo,
ukubonisana kwindawo ekhululekile kunye nokucacisa isicwangciso esitsha senkqubo.
Kuphela ukusebenza kuya kunceda ukuqonda indlela yokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo. Kunzima kunzima ukuqikelela isiphumo seziganeko kwangaphambili. Nangona kunjalo, ungakulibali ukuba ungumfazi kunye nendalo enikezelwa ngayo ngezixhobo ezinjalo ukuba abachasi bakho abayi kukwazi ukujamelana ncam: ngokukhawuleza, ubuhle, ukukwazi ukuzenza njengento eyisiphukuphuku kunye nokunciphisa ukuqapha kwintengiso, into encinane yesigcawu esiza kuphazanyisa kwingundoqo yencoko, e. Khumbula oku ngokuya egumbini lokuhlangana kunye nayo yonke incoko. Kwaye ke umphumo ophumeleleyo wenkonzo uqinisekiswa kuwe.