Ienkwenkwezi zazihlala ziheha umntu. Kubani umntu unelungelo lokufunda into entsha malunga nomhlaba wonke, kodwa kwabanye kukho into enhle enokuyithanda ngayo iiyure. Yintoni ekumele ilindeleke kwikamva, ukuba ubone iphupha ngeenkwenkwezi, ngoku uzama ukufumana.
Kutheni iinkwenkwezi ziphupha?
Ukuba ngephupha ubheka esibhakabhakeni kwaye ubona inani elikhulu leenkwenkwezi eziqhaqhaqhazelayo, ngoko ngobomi bokwenene ukhethe indlela efanelekileyo kuwe, eya kukunceda ukufezekisa injongo efunwayo. Ienkwenkwezi ezandleni zazo zixela ikusasa elivuyisayo kuwe ngaphandle kweengxaki kunye nemixhala. Kwakhona iphupha elinjalo lingathembisa ukufumana ubutyebi kwaye into ebalulekileyo kukuba akuthatheli amandla okwenza oku. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba ubone iinkwenkwezi ephuphayo uphawu oluhle lokuvuselela ngokomoya. Into ephambili ayikukuphelelwa ixesha lokutshintsha ubomi bakho. Phakathi kwamafu ukuphawula iinkwenkwezi eziqaqambileyo kukubonakalisa ukuba unethemba elincinci lokuba zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo ziza kusombulula ngokulula kwaye yonke into iya kulungiswa. Iphupha apho iinkwenkwezi zasebhakabhakeni zibonakala zibonakala ngesivunguvungu, zibonisa ukuphazamiseka kwexesha elibi, eliya kubachaphazela kakhulu ubomi bakho. Ukuba ubona izidalwa zasezulwini eziza kukhanya, ziphuma-oku luphawu lotshintsho oluya kwenzeka ngengozi. Ukuze uphuphe iinkwenkwezi ezimbalwa eziqaqambileyo, ngoko, kungekudala uza kuba nothando oluqotho.
Ephupheni, ukubona iinkwenkwezi eziwa, kuba umfazi ongatshatanga ulungile ukuba ulindele utshintsho kwimicimbi yothando kwaye oku kuya kuba ngcono. Kwixesha elizayo elizayo, unokuhlangana nomntu oya kuba sesigxina sesibini sokuphila. Enye iphupha ngeenkwenkwezi eweleyo, uthembisa ulonwabo, oya kuthi, ngelanga, lube lukhawuleza. Ukuba, ngokuwa kweenkwenkwezi, unokwenza isifiso, ngoko unako ukulahla iintshaba kunye nabahlobo bokulala.
Ngomntu, iphupha ajonga ngayo iinkwenkwezi, lifanekisela ukuqhubela phambili kwekhondo lomsebenzi. Iingcaciso zephupha zicebisa imizamo ephezulu yokufezekisa injongo efunwayo.