Amaxesha amaninzi amaphupha lizwi okanye ukukhala kwesihlwele sethu esibonisa ingozi okanye sixwayisa malunga nezenzo ezingenangqiqo. Kukho nawuphi na umntu, kufuneka aphulaphule, zama ukutyhila intsingiselo ekhoyo kwiphupha, ukuze ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi into enokufuneka ithathwe.
Kutheni iphupha lomfazi eengubo ezimnyama?
Iingubo ezimnyama zibonisa ukuphazamiseka, ukulahlekelwa kunye neengxaki, oko ke, noko kunjalo, kuya kuba zifutshane kwaye ziza kusombulula ngokuzodwa okanye ngokuthatha inxaxheba encinci kwinqanaba lakho. Ukuzibona ephupheni ngengubo emnyama kukuphawu lokudumala. Ukuba uhamba endleleni, ungabanjwa kunye nabamelwane abangathandeki kwihotele okanye nabanye abahamba endleleni. Abo baqhuba ishishini labo, unokulindela iingxaki ezincinane kunye nokungaqondani kwishishini, okulula kumashishini. Ukuba ugqoka ngengubo emnyama ephupha, mhlawumbi, mhlawumbi, uya kugula kungekudala. Kodwa ukuba omnye umfazi ugqoke ingubo, ke kufuneka ukuba ulinde ukuxabana naye.
Kutheni uphupha umbala omnyama womtshato?
Ndiyavuma, akunakuzibonela ukugqoka umtshato omnyama, ngakumbi ukuba ufuna umtshato ngokukhawuleza.
Ukuba ephupheni ingubo yakho emhlophe iphendulela emnyama, ngoko iphupha elinjalo liyosongela ukugula okanye ingxaki kwi shishini. Kufanelekile ukunikela ingqalelo ngakumbi kwimpilo yakho.
Kutheni umtshakazi ephupha iingubo ezimnyama?
Iphupha elinjalo lingabonisa ukugula okukhulu okanye ukufa komntu othandekayo kwinto oye yabona kwengubo yomtshato. Kule meko, ukuba iphupha lizaliseka, kuyafaneleka ukunweba uncedo oluncedo olunzima kumzuzwana onzima kuye.
Kutheni uphupha umtshato kwimpahla emnyama?
Eli phupha linokuthi umntu osibonekile kakhulu kwaye engaziqinisekanga ngaye, kufuneka ahlawule ngakumbi ukunxibelelana kunye nezihlobo, ukufumana abaqhelana nabo kunye nezinto ezithandayo .