Intsapho ebomini ibhinqa ihlala ihlala kwindawo ephakathi, kodwa uluntu lwantshintsho iziseko zokuziphatha zobomi bentsapho, kwaye utshintsho oluninzi kangangokuba ngisho nasezikolweni baqala ukufundisa isihloko esithi "ukuziphatha kunye neengqondo zobomi bentsapho." Ewe, abantwana bethu baya kuxelwa malunga nento yonke, mhlawumbi oku kuya kubanceda kwixesha elizayo lenza iintsapho ezivuyayo. Kwaye nokuba njani, ezikolweni zethu malunga nokuziphatha kunye neengqondo zentetho yokuphila kwentsapho ayizange iqhutywe, kodwa ulonwabo noxolo kwintsapho luyayifuna.
Amanqanaba obomi bentsapho
Ukuqonda indlela yokwenza ubomi bentsapho luvuyiswe, kulungile ukuthetha ngezigaba iintsapho nganye ezivalayo ukususela ekuqaleni kwayo. Imithetho yobomi bentsapho obonwabileyo kwinqanaba ngalinye.
- Isigaba sokuqala yintando yothando . Ngoku esi sibini asikhathaleli ngeemfihlelo nemithetho yobomi bentsapho obonwabileyo, yonke into iyamangalisa. Abatshatileyo bazama ukwenza konke ndawonye, ​​bengathandi ukuchitha ixesha elide. Iiplani ezicwangcisiweyo zenziwa kwixesha elizayo.
- Isigaba sesibini sobomi bentsapho kwingqondo-nkcazo kuthiwa yithuba lokuqaphela nokulutha . Uvuyo oluthuluba ludlulayo, abafazi baqala ukubukeka becala ngobomi. Eli nqanaba liba luvavanyo lokuqala olubalulekileyo ebomini besibini. Kwenzeka ukuba abantu abakulungele ukubonana ngaphandle kobubele bokuthandana. Kwaye endaweni yokuvuya, bafumana ukudumala kunye nokucaphuka. Okubaluleke kakhulu kule nkalo yobomi bentsapho kukuba ukulungelelanisa kunye nomnqweno wokuxoxisana. Ngaphandle kweengxabano kunye neengxabano, akuyi kubakho ubomi bentsapho. Oku kuqhelekileyo kwaye akuthethi ukuba ukhethe umntu ongekho. Elinye iqela lingakwazi ukubiza amagama abo kunye neengxaki zobomi bentsapho, kwaye okokugqibela kunokubaninzi. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha amaxesha amnandi angaphaya onke amancedo.
- Isigaba sesithathu singabizwa ngexesha lokwakha iintsapho . Ukuba iingxaki zesigaba sangaphambili sentsapho ziye zazisombulula ngempumelelo, abafazi bafumana ixesha lokuxolelana. Ngoku isibini sithintela ukwakhiwa kwezicwangciso zekamva kunye nokuphunyezwa komsebenzi ohlangeneyo. Kungaba ukukhuliswa komntwana, ukulungisa indlu, ukwakha indlu, njl. Zonke ezi zenzo zizisa uvuyo kubatshati kunye nokuzihlanganisa.
- Isigaba sesine lixesha lokuzinza . Intsapho inemisebenzi yonke, abafazi bayayazi uxanduva lwabo kwiindawo ezithile zobomi. Abatshatileyo sele befundane, baye baqhelisela ukubuthathaka amancinci kwaye baxolele ngokuzithandela. Ngoku abantwana sele belungiselelwe isikolo (ISIKOLO ESIPHAKAMILEYO), kuthengwa indlu, njengazo zonke. Ingozi ikhona kwinkqubo ebonakalayo ebomini bentsapho. Ngako oko, iimfihlelo zokugcina intsapho ngeli nqanaba zinokuthiwa yindalo, ubuchule babatshati kunye nomnqweno wokuthabatha umdla omnye. Ukuba awuvumeli ubomi bemihla ngemihla ukuba uphumelele uthando, ngoko intsapho yakho iya kuqhubeka novuyo lwayo. Ngaphandle koko, isinyathelo esilandelayo.
- Isigaba sesihlanu sisisigxina . Abatshatileyo sele benzima ukufumana indawo kwintsimi enye, belele kwisiqingatha sebhedi okanye kumagumbi ahlukeneyo, banxibelelana kuphela kwisidingo esikhulu. Ezinye iintsapho ziyaqhubeka ziphila ngale ndlela, ezinye ziphule,
kodwa ngandlela-thile ulawula ukuphuma kule nkampu. Oku kwenzeka emva kweengxoxo ezinzulu kunye nokubeka onke amanqaku angaphezulu kwe "i" okanye emva kwesiganeko esibalulekileyo (mhlawumbi sibuhlungu) ebomini bentsapho. Emva koko kuza ixesha lokubuyiselwa kwakhona, isibini siqala kwakhona ukwakha izicwangciso ezihlangeneyo zekamva kunye nethemba elona lifanelekileyo. Yaye isibini sinomsebenzi obalulekileyo kunye nomnqweno wokungavumeli iimpazamo ezenziwe ngaphambili.
Amabhunga ekulondolozeni ubomi bentsapho obonwabileyo unokunikwa kakhulu. Kodwa, mhlawumbi, eyona nto ibalulekileyo iya kuba yiminxeba yokuthanda, ukuhlonela nokuxabisa umlingane wakho womntu.