Ebomini, akukho konke okugqibeleleyo njengokuba abaninzi bethu banokucinga. Xa sithetha ukuba ekugqibeleni sifumene uthando lokwenene, esinye isiqingatha, kwaye oko kukubomi bethu bonke - iimeko ziya kuthetha ngenye indlela. Uthando lusebenza ngokumangalisayo, kodwa kukho imithintelo enokuthi ibe yindlela yokuphuhliswa kwayo.
Ukuthanda ukuwa ngaphandle kothando? Umntu ozivakalelwa ngayo, akabukeli kwinqanaba lakho okanye uthanda omnye umfazi? Ngaba ufuna ukubuyisela umyeni wakho okanye ubophe indoda engakukhathaleli? Oku kuya kunceda ulwalamano oluqinileyo.
Kodwa, njengoko sonke siyazi, ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva ubuya njenge-boomerang, ungasebenzisi umlingo omnyama, ngakumbi ukuba awuqondi into eninzi ngayo. Unokulimaza kuphela, amaninzi amaninzi omlingo omnyama aholela ekufeni, amaxhoba anokuba ngawe.
Kungcono ukusebenzisa intando yothando lomlingo omhlophe. Azinako ukusebenza, kodwa zikhuselekile. Kulabo abangakholelwa kuyo yonke into engacacangayo kwaye uyisibindi, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba inceba iyakuchaneka kwindlela yesayensi. Oku kuyimpembelelo yamandla enamandla.
Imizekelo yothando lweqhinga
Ezi ziqendu zinokuba yiyiphi na, eziqhelekileyo zilandelayo:
- Ngomsi, umlilo ngumnye wezinto zethu zangaphakathi, ukuthetha nomsi, oko kukuthi, "ukutshisa umlilo," sitshisa iphosa phakathi kwethu kunye nentanda. Indlela yokwenza ngayo: bhala kwisiqwenga segama: "Ndiza kunyuka, uhlambe iphosi emhlophe, phuma waya kwintsimi eqaqambileyo kwaye ujonge ukusa. Kukho iifutha ezintathu: isitena, insimbi kunye nobhedu. Batshisa ngeqabunga elithambileyo, kunye neentliziyo, umzimba, uhadi lomkhonzi kaThixo (igama) lingaphezulu kwelililo elithambileyo malunga nam, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama) uvutha. Isitshixo, ukhiye, ulwimi. Amen. " Ukutshisa iqabunga, funda icebo phezu komsi.
- Inceba yothando enamandla kakhulu yenziwa yigazi. Etaweni okanye ngekhofi, gxobhoza amaconsi ambalwa egazi lakho leenyanga ngegama: Kwiimvumba zomkhonzi kaThixo (igama) ligazi lam, kwaye yena ngokwakhe ulola njengale gazi. Andiyi kuthatha igazi (igama) kwi-khoboka. Amen. " Nika lo mnqweno.
- Uthando lulungiselelo lwamanzi luphakathi kweyona nokhuseleko. Dlulela kwisitya esikhulu samanzi kwaye, ujonge ngolu hlobo, uthi: "Njengoko ndikhangele emanzini, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama), kwaye ndibona ngokucacileyo, ngoko ke umkhonzi kaThixo makangandibukele aze abone kum uthando lwakhe. Yiba njalo. Amen. " Phala amanzi kumhlaba, apho kukho into ekhulayo.
Yaye khumbula, utyumba kunye neengcinga zizinto ezinamandla, cingisisa ngaphambi kokugqiba.