Ngethuba lethu abaninzi abantu abancinci abahluphekayo, ezinzima ukuchazela ngokweengqiqo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umlingo uya kuhlangula. Wonke umntu kufuneka aqonde indlela isiqalekiso esivela ngayo, kubakho phantse yonke into ingahlawulwa.
Izibonakaliso zesiphambano sesiqhelo
Ukuba sithetha ngeempawu zokuqalekisa, into yokuqala yokuqwalasela ubukho bezinto ezilandelayo:
- ezinye izalamane kwixesha elide lokuxabana, okanye ukuxabana ngezikhathi ezithile;
- ngaphakathi kwintsapho, abantu abanakubelana ngemali, ilifa;
- kukho izidakwa kunye nezidakamizwa ezidakamizwa kwintsapho, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba omnye waboyise wafa ngenxa yobunxila;
- Izihlobo azixubushelana (okanye azizange zithethane ixesha elide);
- Kwintsapho abenqaba ukutyelela izalamane ("Iinyawo zam aziyi kuba apha");
- Kwintsapho akukho mntu ubona abafileyo, akahambi emangcwabeni kwimini yeememori;
- Wonke umntu osapho uswele, akukho mntu unokufunda ukufumana imali eyaneleyo;
- izalamane zenqaba ukuzalwa ("Ukuba kunjalo, awusekho unyana wam!");
- kwintsapho kukho imitshato engenamntwana;
- Kukho abantwana kwintsapho eyazalwa sele ifile;
- ezinye iintsana zafa ziseneminyaka engama-3;
- Kukho abantu abane-scoliosis eqinile kwintsapho;
- kwi-genus ikhona okanye yayingaphambi kokuba i-dauny, i-delayed mentally, abantu abangenangqondo;
- Kwintsapho kukho abantu abangakholelwa kuThixo;
- Ngokuqhelekileyo umlingane okanye umyeni usweleka kakhulu kunesiqingatha sesibini, kutheni kunabaninzi abahlolokazi nabahlolokazi kwintsapho;
- kubasetyhini be-genus, kukho ukukhulelwa kwe-ectopic.
Ukwazi indlela yokucacisa isiqalekiso esiqhelekileyo, wena ngezibonakaliso zangaphandle unokwenza lula ukuxilongwa kwaye ufumane ukuba ufuna ukuthabatha isenzo. Ukuba i-genus yakho inemiqondiso engaphezu kweyesithathu, kufuneka uwasuse ngokuqinisekileyo ukuqalekisa.
Izizathu zokuqalekisa
Iimbangela zesiphambano sesiqhelo sinokusebenzisa izinto ezahlukeneyo, kungekhona nje kuphela
- Izono zokufa zenye yokhokho (ngokukodwa ukubulala, ukuzisela ukuzibulala);
- i-anathema ebekwe yicawa;
- isiqalekiso esenziwe ngumntu ngokwakhe (ngokusebenzisa i-samoedstva, ukuqalekisa);
- ngendlela engalunganga yobomi , engayinaki isazela.
Kukho nawuphi na, isiqalekiso sesiqhelo singasuswa kwaye siyimfuneko. Ukuba kunamandla, kwaye kukuchaphazela kakhulu, kuyakufanelekela ukubuyela ecaweni, ukuqala impilo yokulunga, ukuthandaza imihla ngemihla. Izenzo ezijoliswe kuphela ziyakunceda ukuxazulula ingxaki.