Iipelesi ziyi-subcategory ekhethekileyo yokuthanda umlingo . Olu hlobo lobugqwirha lunamandla okubhubhisa - lonakalisa iziteshi zamandla ezidibanisa abantu abathandekayo ababini. Nangona kunjalo, kukho olunye udidi, oludla ngokubakho kwii-lapels. Yiyo imeko xa imilingo isebenza ngepell spell. Oko kukuthi, ngokuphathelele ukususa isipelo nge-lapel. Udidekile, kodwa uyaqonda.
Ukujika komyeni kumfazi ngumlingo omnyama wokudala, otshabalalisa. Kukho iintlobo ezimbini:
- Enyanisweni, i-lapel - isebenza kumntu oyedwa, "oshiya" kwintsapho.
- Ukukhutshwa xa umlingo uthinta iimvakalelo kunye nokuziphatha kwabo bobabini.
Ukuba i-lapel yenziwe ngokuphambene nesipelingi sangaphambilini (umthandi wachaza ukuba umyeni washiya umfazi wakhe, kwaye umfazi wenza i-lapel kwikosikazi), kukho ezimbini iindlela zokukhetha:
- Ukupholisa - akuchaphazeli ukuqonda komntu (umlingo omhlophe), ukunciphisa ukukhanga.
- Ukususwa kwesiphelo - kunciphisa imiphumo yomnye umlingo.
Imiqondiso yesipelo
Ngomlingo, njengokwamachiza, into ephambili kukubona iimpawu zokujika komyeni kumfazi wakhe ngexesha.
Izimpawu zokuqala:
- ukuguquka kokuziphatha kungekho sizathu;
- ukupholisa - ngokomoya nangokwenyama;
- ukunqongophala kwesifiso sesondo;
- iindlobongela;
- ukungakhathaleli;
- kulala;
- izinto ezingaqhelekanga ezifumana "ngengozi" - iinaliti, izikhonkwane, iileyili zeenwele, isanti, i-wax, njl njl.
Sibuyela kumyeni kwintsapho
Uthando lusinika amandla ekulwa nomlingo omnyama. Vumela ukuphumelela kokususa i-lapel yendoda kumfazi ibe bubungqina bemiva yakho yangempela. Uzakufuna izinto ezintsha, ezingasetyenziswayo:
- 1 ikhandlela;
- 3 iinaliti;
- isitya samanzi.
Umlingo wendoda yomyeni wakhe kumfazi uya kudutshulwa phakathi kobusuku ekupheleni kwenyanga.
Khanyisa ikhandlela, uyibeke ephakathi kwetafile. Emva koko, vumela isitya samanzi simele. Thatha inaliti nge-forceps, ubushushu kwaye uphonsa emanzini, ukuthetha amagama esiqendu. Phinda inqubo efanayo kunye nezinye iiliti.
Xa ugqibile, thabatha isitya kunye neenaliti kunye namanzi kwisitrato, umbe umgodi uphelele kuwo wonke umxholo wesitya. Isitya ngokwawo kufuneka sitshitshwe kwaye isilathiso sesibini sifanele senziwe.
Ngale ndlela ungasusa i-lapel eqineleyo yendoda kumfazi wayo, kwaye uya kuyenza kuphela. Ukungahambi kakuhle kwale ndlela uloyilo olubekwe ngalo luya kubuyiselwa kumthumeli, kwaye ukufakela komyeni kumtshabalali wentsapho yakho kuya kutshitshiswa ku-smithereens, njengekende.
Emva kweso siko, ngosuku olulandelayo, beka ikhandlela ebandleni ngenxa yendoda, ukuze imikhosi emnyama ingambuyanga kwakhona.
Inkqubo 1
"Njengoko inaliti yaqhoqha amanzi, yayivimbile ukushushu,
Ngoko isenzo segama elibi-lapel likhulile,
Ububi bubuyile ububi, ukusuka kumlingo omnyama usapho lwethu lukhuselekile.
Njengamanzi abilayo ukusuka kushushu,
Ngoko ilizwi lam liya kuba ngonaphakade. "
Inkqubo 2
"Njengoko indebe yeglasi yaphuka,
Ngoko lakho (igama lomchasi) owebileyo kunye nomthandwa wam uyahlukana,
Kwiingqungquthela zajika,
Wajika waya enothuli. "