Ngobugcisa bendoda, unokufumana iziqulatho ezingenakubalwa, i-chastushki, amazwi kunye neengoma ngokuhlonipha umdlalo. Enyanisweni, isithethe sendlela yokumaketha kwakufanele sibe mnandi, sisityebi kwaye sihle, nangona emva koko, ngabazali bomtshakazi kwaye sibeke ematongeni epalaki.
Kwimihla endala, mhlawumbi intsipho enkulu yenkqubo yonke yayidlary - iifubhi kunye nemisebenzi yezandla zomtshakazi, ubutyebi obufunyanwa nguyise, izitya, imizobo, ifenitshala kunye nayo yonke into. Kwaye malunga neendleko zeentsapho zomyeni kunye nomlingani wakhe ocingayo, xa isicatshulwa sisicatshulwa kuyo, indlela umtshato oza kubanjwa ngayo. Emva kokuba ulawula ukufumana "iimpahla", omkhulu uya kuba ngumvuzo wabo olandelayo.
Umcimbi womtshato wamanje, xa umxholo womtshato womtshakazi ungathinteki, ungagxininisa kwiintlanzi, umthendeleko kunye nezakhono zokwenza ukuxoxisana kunye nokuhlawula ixabiso lentengo-mva.
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Mhlawumbi, ukulungelelanisa kakhulu umcimbi wokudlala umdlalo uqhutyelwa ngumyeni. Umyeni, abadlali bokudlala, kunye nabazali bomyeni kufuneka bafike kwindlu yomtshakazi. Ngabo, kufuneka bazise izipho, kunye nesonka kunye netyuwa ngokulandela isiko elidala.
Yonke into iqala ngemibandela engqalileyo kwaye idumisa umyeni ngokukhawuleza. Emva koko baphendukela kumbuzo malunga nomtshakazi: "Ngaba kulungile?", "Ngaba i-economic?", "Intelligent, ulungile, uthobekile?"
Kulo nxalenye yomtshakazi, imikhosi yokudibanisa, ngokuyisiseko, ithetha ukudumisa "impahla", oko kukuthi, abafazi. Abazali okanye abadlali bokudibanisa kufuneka babonise ukuba kwitheyibhile esityebi, yonke into enhle kakhulu ilungisile. Sifanele sibonise ukuba ubeka, udibanisa, ukhula, utywala, njl.
Kulo lonke ixesha, umakoti uhlala ngokuzithemba egumbini lakhe, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ekuhambeni kwayo. Ukufanisana nomtshakazi ugqoke kwixabiso elibi kakhulu kwaye elityebileyo, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo, kufuneka akhangele ngokungcolileyo. Kwimihla yakudala kwenzeka ukuba kuwo wonke umdlalo umtshakazi nomyeni abakwazi ukumbamba izandla, bebengenakuhlala phantsi komnye. Yintoni esinokuyithetha ngokubamba ngokubambisana kobusuku obulandelayo.
Xa abazali bambiza umtshakazi etafileni, kuthetha ukuba i-suitors's suitors icele ukuba ibonise "iimpahla". Ngoku umlingani womlingani kufuneka abuze imibuzo enzima malunga noko umtshakazi akwenzayo malunga nendlu, indlela aphila ngayo noko akuthandayo. Bona, ukuzalisa ixabiso, banokumcela ukuba enze isidlo sakusasa kwiindlela eziphuculweyo, uhlambe phantsi, upake i- pie , uyibeke etafileni. Kwaye, maye kulo mtshakazi ongazange ahlangabezane nezicelo zabalingani!
Mhlawumbi into emnandi kakhulu kumdlalo wamanqaku wamhlanje kukuba, kunye nokuxelisa kakhulu izithethe zangexesha elidlulileyo, umyeni, umtshakazi kunye neentsapho zabo bayazi ukuba zonke ezo zihlazo-udaniso, kwaye, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ikhekhe lomtshakazi liqhumisele kangakanani, i-pumpkin ayiyi kufika kwindawo .