Uninzi lwezesondo ezilungileyo, ukuthanda othandweni lukulungele kakhulu, ukuba nje ukufumana indoda ayithandayo. Kule meko, ungasebenzisa umlingo, kodwa kulo mzekelo kuyafaneleka ukuba ukwazi ukutshintsha umntu ngaphandle kwemiphumo. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa imilingo kuphela yemilingo emhlophe, engayi kubangela ingozi, engenakutsholwa malunga ne-privorotah emnyama, kuba ichaphazela kakubi iibini zombini. Ukuba izithethe ezichazwe ngezantsi ziphosakele, aziyi kusebenza, kwaye iingxaki zempilo aziyi kuvela.
Indlela yokutshintsha umntu ngaphandle kwemiphumo kwisithombe kunye noncedo lomlingo omhlophe?
Kukholelwa ukuba isithombe siyingxenye yamandla omntu, ngokunjalo imikhosi eneemifanekiso ithandwa kakhulu kwaye iyasebenza. Kubalulekile ukusebenzisa isithombe esitsha, apho amehlo abubonakala ngokucacileyo. Ungathabatha umfanekiso kwifowuni okanye uyifake kwi-intanethi yentlalo. Thatha isithombe kunye nexesha elide ucinga ukuba umntu usekufuphi, uvuma uthando, njl njl. Ukubonakalisa kubalulekile ukudlulisela amandla othando kwisithombe. Ukujonga umfanekiso, umntu kufuneka athethe iqhinga elinjalo:
"Inkosi eyinyaniso, inceku (igama) ayikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwesithunzi sayo, inqwenela, inceku yakho (igama) ayiyi kunqoba. Hamba, ukhubeke, ngenxa yentlungu. Njenga ilanga esibhakabhakeni, ngoko unami, inceku yamakhoboka (igama). "
Iqhinga kufuneka liphinda liphindwe kusasa, kusemini nakusihlwa. Kukulungele ukuyifunda yonke imihla ngaphambi kokuba ukhulelwe.
Ungayifaka njani indoda yangaphambili?
Ngamanye amaxesha emva kokuhlukana, kukho ukuqonda ukuba iimvakalelo azizange zikhuphe, kodwa akukho nto yokubuyisela loo mntu, kwimeko enjalo unokuqhuba isithethe esilula. Imeko ebalulekileyo - umlingo unokusetyenziswa kuphela ukuba abakhethiweyo abanalo ubudlelwane obutsha, ngaphandle koko kuya kuba nemiphumo emibi. Ukuqala isithethe kuyimfuneko ngosuku lwesithathu lwenyanga ekhulayo. Thatha ikhandlela elibomvu uze ulikhanyise. Emva koko, funda isithombe ozobonakaliswa ngayo nomntu owayengumthandi kwithuba apho wonke umntu wayevuya. Beka umfanekiso kwitafile uze uyibeke isipho sakhe, esingafanele sibe sikhulu, umzekelo, kunokuthi kube yindandatho okanye nayiphi na i-trinket. Ukumboza into ekhethiweyo ngezandla zakho, vala amehlo akho uthi kathathu:
"Kwakukho ixesha, wathanda, wandinika izipho! Ndifuna ukuba nani, kwaye ndiya kukufumana! "
Ngethuba lexesha, kuyimfuneko ukucinga indlela ubuhlobo buye buya phambili ngayo kwaye wonwabile. Faka ifoto uze uyigcine kwindawo eyimfihlo.
Ngantoni na ngokukhawuleza ukutshintshela umntu ngokutya?
Olu khetho lufanelekile loo ntombazana enokuqhagamshelana nento yokudumisa nokupheka ukutya kwayo iya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo. Kunconywa ukuba ungeze i-coriander okanye i-parsley kwisitya esikhethiweyo, njengoko le mifino iya kuphucula umphumo wamagqirha wecebo. Ngexesha lokupheka kuyimfuneko ukumela ubudlelwane obudibeneyo kunye nenjongo yokudumisa kunye nokwenza ngokusemandleni. Ngaphambi nangemva kokupheka, kufuneka kuthiwa maxesha amathathu alandelayo:
"Njengolu kutya, ndiya kuba mnandi kuwe. Amen. "
Kunconywa ukukhonza iwayini elibomvu kwisitya esilungisiwe. Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa uza kubona umphumo.
Indlela yokutshiza umntu othanda ukusebenzisa isibuko?
Izibilini zokuthandwa kwendoda yomntu ababeyithandayo yayisetyenziswa kumaxesha amandulo. Isithethe kufuneka sichithwe phakathi kobusuku bonke. Izibuko zibekwa ngokubhekiselelana, kudala i-corridor engapheliyo. Thatha ikhandlela lebandla, ulikhanyise kwaye uhlale phambi kwezibuko. Igumbi kufuneka libe mnyama. Phinda ucebe olulandelayo uze ukhanyise ikhandlela:
"(Igama lomthandekayo) Cher Cher Cherry Procher."
Ngelo xesha, imifanekiso eyahlukeneyo ingabonakala kwizibuko kunye nezandi ezothusayo zingavakala, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba ungaphazanyiswa. Emva koko, gubungela izibuko ngengubo kwaye ungazivuli iintsuku eziliqela.
Ungamnceda njani umntu ode ukude?
Ukuze wenze isiko, kufuneka ulungiselele ikhandlela elibomvu. Ukukuchitha kwinyanga entsha. Kwiphepha lephepha bhala igama elipheleleyo lokhethiweyo kunye naye. Yibani ikhandlela ngemingcele kwaye usethe umlilo kwiphepha, kwaye ngelixa livutha, funda le njongo:
"Njengokuba umlilo uvutha ikhandlela, intliziyo yakho (igama lomfana) iya kutsho kum (igama layo), nothando olubomvu, ngesimo esinomdla. Nditshisa iphepha, ndikulindele. Ndiyichitha umlotha, ndiyakusondela, ntanda wam. "
I-ash eseleyo yahlakaza emoyeni.