U-Privorot uluphakamiso olunobundlobongela oluthandwayo, amaziko azinzileyo ezithintekayo kwixhoba. Umntu ophantsi kwefuthe lepelingi kulula ukuyisebenzisa, uyaba ngumcebisi kwaye anako ukwenza izenzo ezingenakucinga. Ngokuqhelekileyo i-psyche ihlupheka, umlingiswa ubonakalisa ubukrakra, ukukhungatheka , ukunganakwa kunye nokwesaba.
Kukho imiqondiso enokuyiqonda ukuba umntu uye waba lixhoba lentshukumo yothando. Le miqondiso ingabonakalisa ngaphandle okanye ifumaneke ngokuxilongwa.
Iimpawu zothando zitsho
Izibonakaliso zesipelingi zihluke kakhulu, zingabonakalisa ngokuzimela, kwaye zonke zinokuthi zenzeke kanyekanye.
- Umtsalane onomdla wexhoba kwintando yinto ebalulekileyo, uphawu olubonakalayo. Umntu akayiqondi into ebangela ukuba akhangwe, okokuqala ezama ukulwa nomntu onothando, kodwa akakwazi ukumelana naye;
- ukungabi nantando, ukungakwazi ukwenza izigqibo ngokuzimeleyo, ukuthobela;
- ukulahleka kokuzithemba. Umntu uhlaziswa kwaye unako ukwenza nayiphi na inyathelo, nje ukulahlekelwa yinto yokunqula kwakhe;
- ukuvakalelwa nokuphelelwa yithemba;
- Uloyiko olunzulu lokwenyulwa yinto yokunqula;
- ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kuyo yonke into engaxhunyiwe nothando lwakhe, yonke into ayithandayo umntu ngaphambi kokuba isigwebo, ilahlekelwe intsingiselo yayo, kukho ukukhanga komlingo kuphela;
- ubuthongo obubi, ukukhathala, impilo embi kunye nezinye iimpawu zomzimba zesipelo;
- ukuzithemba , ukuvakalelwa;
- ukukhanyela inzondo ngento yothando, umda wecala, ukungakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwayo;
- uchungechunge lokungaphumeleli olulandela ixhoba: ukuxothwa emsebenzini, izingozi zendlela, njl njl
Izibonakaliso zothando ngopelo kubasetyhini zifana nezibonakaliso zomntu, kodwa zingongezwa kwinkolelo kuyo nayiphi na into engekho yonqulo kunye nesisu, ukwesaba komlilo okanye amanzi kunye nokunye ukuphulwa. Ukuba isiphelo sichaphazela ibhinqa ixesha elide, linokukhuphaza iintlobo zeengxaki zengqondo, iinzame zokuzibulala kunye nokufa ngokukhawuleza.
Ukongeza kuzo zonke iimpawu ezingentla apha, ixhoba lesipelingi linokuphuhlisa utywala. Oku kungenxa yokukhathazeka ngokomoya kwexhoba, xa umntu engakwazi ukumkela ukuthambekela kwakhe kwaye akakwazi ukuphuma kwisicupho. Kule meko, uzama ukugubha intlungu yakhe kwiziyobisi.
Ungazi njani ukuba kukho ukupaka ngothando, ukuba iimpawu ezingentla zichazwe kakuhle? Ngenxa yoko, iindlela zokuxilonga zikhona. Enye yale ndlela ifuna iqanda. Ixhoba elinokuthi le s spell lilibambe ezandleni zakhe, lifudumala ngokufudumala kwaye lihambisa ulwazi oluyimfuneko. Emva koko, iqanda liphukile kwaye lathelelwa kwisitya semanzi. Ukuba i-yolk ixutywe kunye neprotheni, kukho naziphi na izibonda okanye imivumba, i-clots kunye ne-mucus, mhlawumbi umntu unikwe umphumo wemilingo. Ungakwazi kwakhona ukubonakalisa ezinjalo iimpawu zokuthandana ngothando njengokungahambelani kwezixhobo zonqulo: iminqamlezo, imifanekiso, imithandazo. Kuzo zonke
Ngokumalunga nokuphulwa kohlobo lwexhoba, ubudlelwane bakhe nezihlobo kunye nabahlobo behla. Izihlobo ziyayeka ukuyiqonda, kwaye akayidingi ukuqonda kwayo, kuba unomdla kuphela ekukhanukeni kwayo. Kubalulekile ukuba izalamane zingaphuli zonke iintlobo, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo zama ukukhulula umntu ekuthinjweni kokuthandwa. Abafundi ngokwabo bangajika kwiingcali zokuphazamisa ukuthanda ukupaka kwisithombe okanye uzame ukuphilisa umntu ngokwabo ngokuthandaza. Kubalulekile ukunyamekela ukuba luphi uhlobo lopelo olusebenzayo, ukuba iimpawu ezibonakalisiwe kungekudala, ngoko unokuzama ukuzitshintsha wena ngokwakho, kwaye ukuba umntu useli lizwe iminyaka emininzi, ngoko ke uncedo lwezakhono luyimfuneko.