Ukuba umntu ubeke ixhoba ebuhlotsheni bakho, uya kuvakalelwa ngokuqinisekileyo. Uya kuba nombono wokutshatyalaliswa, kungekhona yonke into "ecocekileyo" apha. Kodwa ekubeni i-spoilage iyakuphazamisa ukujonga kwakho iqabane, awuyi kuba nomsindo kakhulu ngenxa yeengcamango malunga nokuhlukana kwexesha elizayo, ukususela ngoku, yonke into edibene nayo inesiqalo "akukho."
Ukhohlakala kunye nobomi boluntu
Imiphumo yokuhlaselwa kwezobudlelwane iya kwandisa kuzo zonke iindawo zobomi. Ukubonakala kwakho kushintshela ukuqonda komntu wonke. Uza kulahleka ukuzithemba emsebenzini, ubudlelwane bakho kunye noogxa bakho buya kuba bubi kakhulu, kunye nawe kuya kuba neengxabano kunye nama-scandals, nabantu abangaqhelekanga.
Inyaniso kukuba umonakalo olwahlukileyo lwentsebenziswano luguqula ngokubonakala kwakho kwimeko yabanye abantu, kunye nokubonakala komlingani wakho emehlweni akho. Nina nonke ningabikho ngaphandle, kodwa ningenakuvuyisa. Ngoko ke, qiniseka ukuba ngoku ugqityiwe ngala "ubudlelwane" obunobungakanani kwaye uya kufumana umntu ongenalo. Kuba uya kutsala kwisiqalekiso sesiqalekiso.
Iimpawu
Isibonakaliso sokuqala sokutshatyalaliswa kwintsebenziswano yintlukwano engazelelwe, engenazo izizathu ezifanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, wena kunye nomlingane wakho engqondweni yakho soloko ufumanisa isizathu, kungekhona nje ingqiqo, kodwa ukukhohlisa.
Phakathi kwakho, uxhumano lwamandla lulahlekile. Uhlala usondele, ungathandeki, uyothuswa kwaye ungakhathazeki. Ngaphantsi kweyiphi na ingcamango uya kushiya indlu, ulale uze udle ngokwahlukileyo.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufaka iqela elithi "hayi" kumlingane wakho. Awufuni ukuba nabantwana abaqhelekileyo,
Ulwaphulo-mthetho ukungahambisani nobudlelwane alusebenzi kuphela kwiingqondo, kodwa nakwi-physiology yeebhondi zakho. Uza kulahlwa yinto yesondo omnye komnye. Indoda ingaba namandla (kungakhathaliseki ubudala), kwaye umfazi uya kuba neentlungu ezisezantsi esiswini.
Wena, njengalowo nawuphi na uhlobo lomonakalo, uya kuhlushwa yizinto zokulala . Yona kuphela "i-villain" ephambili yamaphupha akho aya kuba yintanda yakho entsha. Uya kukuhlambalaza, ukuxosha, ukubulala ubusuku bonke.