Isithethe samanje sokumisa umdlalo luhluke kakhulu kwizithethe zamandulo kwaye namhlanje, okokuqala, isaziso esithile sezihlobo zomtshakazi malunga nezinjongo zabantu abaselula. Izithethe ezininzi zexesha elidlulileyo zilahlekile, kodwa, ngokuqhelekileyo, kusekho amasiko amahle omdlalo wokudlala.
Umthendeleko womtshato njani?
Ngethuba lethu, lo mcimbi wokulungiselela umtshato uvame ukuphosakela, kwaye ugalela ukutshengisa nje kubazali zabo injongo. Nangona kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuchonga izithethe ezithile apho abaninzi baqhubeka begcina.
Imikhwa yokukhangela umdla ngomyeni:
- Naliphina ilungu lentsapho linokuba ngumdlali womdlalo, kodwa kuphela otshatileyo.
- Umyeni kufanele alungiselele izimbali ezijoliswe kumtshakazi nonina. Kungcono ukwazi izibonakaliso zezityalo ezikhethiweyo.
- Abathengi kufuneka babe ngabokuqala ukuthetha nabazali bomtshakazi kunye nazo zonke iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokubongoza izandla zabo.
Kunokwenzeka ukuqhuba ukudibanisa kwimeko ethile, eya kwenza inkqubo ibe mnandi kwaye ijabulise.
Imikhwa yokumakisha ngomtshakazi:
- Umda wokufanisa kufuneka ulungiselelwe, umzekelo, unokuba ishati okanye itileni eyenziwe ngezandla zomntu.
- Isibaluleka esibalulekileyo yimiqungu, eyanikezwa ngabadlali abafana nabazali beentombazana abazange bathande umyeni.
- Umtshakazi wexesha elizayo kufuneka agqoke ngokuhambelana nesimo sakhe, kodwa angabi nxamnye nefuthe. Kucetyiswa ukuba ugqoke ezinye izipho .
- Emva kokuba abadlali beemidlalo bafike, incoko yaqhutywa, apho izalamane ziza kufumana yonke imibuzo enomdla. Ngendlela, abatsha abasanda kutshata badla ngoxolo ngokuhlwa.
Abathengisi banokuzijonga umfazi ozayo kwaye umcele ukuba enze into ethile, umzekelo, sitshitshise phantsi okanye upheke isitya esithile. Ukuba ngaba abazali bomtshakazi baphela ngokuvuma umyeni, bafanele bafake isidlo esikhulu kwitafile, umzekelo, ikhekhe.