Izicwangciso kwiKrisimesi yomtshato

Abantu abaninzi baphupha ukufumana umlingane wabo womtshato ngokukhawuleza kunye nokutshata. Ukuze inqwenela ukuzaliseka, kunokwenzeka ukusebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo, umzekelo, ukusebenzisa izakhelo ezikhethekileyo zomtshato, ongayisebenzisa kwiKrisimesi . Akusiyo imfihlelo yokuba imilingo inokukunceda ukuzalisekisa iphupha, kufuneka nje ukwazi indlela yokwenza umkhosi.

Izicwangciso kunye nemibhiyozo yomtshato ngomhla weKrisimesi

Zonke izinto ezinjalo zingabelana ngezigaba ezintathu eziphambili:

1. Yenzelwe abantu abangatshatanga abangazange badibane ne "babini" babo.
2. Ukukhawuleza kukunceda ukufezekisa isipho somtshato esivela kumntu othile.
3. Iingxowa-mali zokomeleza uthando kulabo bantu abasele umtshato osemthethweni.

Ngoko, ukuba awufumananga nomntu wakho umlingane, ngoko ulandelelwano olulandelayo lothando nomtshato, olugcinwe iKrismesi, lunokunceda. Ngentsasa yolu suku, vuka ngokukhawuleza kwaye uhambe echibini elisondeleyo, umlambo okanye omnye umzimba wamanzi ngamanzi amanzi. Ngentwasahlobo, umlambo okanye i-echibi, uqoke amanzi kwaye msinyane uye ekhaya. Ukubuya, funda amaxesha amathathu ngamazwi alandelayo: "Ndimboze intloko yam ngempilo, inwabe kunye nenjabulo evuyokileyo," uhlambe ubuso ngokuphindwe kathathu ngamanzi uze uyifake ngexesha elifanayo. Xa isalathiso sichazwa, kufuneka uhambe esontweni uze ufake ikhandlela kwi icon yeNtombikazi, uze ubonge amabutho aphezulu uze uye ekhaya.

Kwimeko apho sele udibene nomlingane wakho, kodwa akuzange kubekho isiluleko somtshato okwangoku, unokwenza icebo lokutshata iKrismesi. Fumana izinto ezilandelayo kusengaphambili - umshanelo kunye ne-scoop, ngoko, ngokukhawuleza ebusuku, xa wonke umntu sele esele elele, utshaye phantsi aze athi kathathu: "Ndiyakhangela indlu ngokwam (Igama), ngoko ndishiya indlu yam kum, ukuze afune ukutshata nam , ukuze ubomi bube yimpumelelo kwaye buvuyiswe. Amen. " Emva koko, gxotha udoti kwibhakethi, kunye ne-broom kunye nokuzifihla umgca kugcina uze ufumane isigwebo somtshato. Kuphela emva kwesi siganeko, izinto zingabonakaliswa kwabanye abantu kwaye zisetyenziselwe injongo yazo.

Eyona nto, ukuba ubomi obatshatileyo buvuyiswe, unokwenza njalo - thabatha isigqubuthelo owawuhlala kuyo ngosuku lomtshato, phakathi kobusuku ubonakalise itafile yetyuwa eqhelekileyo, esithi: "I-fate ndiyityhala ityuwa, inhlanhla yedwa kunye nomyeni wam. Ukuphila ngokuzonwabisa, ukuba nokuchuma, ukuthandana. Amen. " Qinisekisa ukuba wenze isithethe kuphela xa uwedwa, ngaphandle koko, akunakusebenza.