Uthando luvakalelo oluvuthayo kunye nolunobulumko. Uthando lokwenene alunakufuneka lube yinto efanayo, into eyona nto ephawulekayo ngumnqweno wolonwabo kumntu omthandayo, nangaphandle kwakho, kodwa kunye nomntu oza kuba ngcono.
Ingaba iingcinga ezinjalo zikhokelela abo baphatha ama-lapels kwaye bathanda izihlunu?
Xa sithandana (kodwa singathandwanga), izigqibo zenziwe ngokuthanda. "Ndiyifunayo" yikho ekhokelela kwizinto ezinobulumko kwiPlanethi yomhlaba. Iimvumi kunye nabathakathi, ukuphulaphula iimfuno zabathengi, bazama ukuxhathisa nokuchaza imiphumo yeepelli kunye neyodwa, ukuba ngumbuzo wendoda ethembekileyo, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo into yonke ayinanto.
Vumela umlingo ngesifiso sakho ukuba ube kunye-uya kuba yinyathelo lokugqibela. Uthando luya kuqina kwaye lube lukhulu ngakumbi (oko, kungabalulekanga) ukuba uyifumana ngokunyanisekileyo. Ewe, kwaye ukuba uzimisele, ukuba ufumane "intanda" nayiphi na indleko, thobela le ntengo - imiphumo ye-lapel kumfazi okanye intombi yakhe, enxulumene nabo abaneemvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo.
Iziphumo kwixhoba
Naliphi na i-lapel okanye upelo lwe-spell kukunciphisa intando yomntu, kwaye oku kufana nokwenza umonakalo wokufa. Ukukhuselwa kwamandla, i-aura, ekhusela umzimba wethu, iyatshatyalaliswa.
Ngamanye amazwi, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umphumo we-lapel kumntu othandekayo uya kuba nomonakalo ekufeni, kunye nezinye izinto ezintle:
- kwisigaba sokuqala se-lapel okanye upelo, ixhoba liziva lifuna imvakalelo enzima, i-adrenaline-yonke into ngenxa yokubhujiswa okubangelwa kukutshabalalisa umlingo;
- Kwiimigangatho ezisekupheleni akukho ukunganakwa , ukungabi namandla, ukunyaniseka - amandla aphelile, i-adrenaline ayinakunceda, izandla zishiywe;
- amaxesha amaninzi amaxhoba awela emanzini okuphuza, atywala ukugembula, nangona abazange bacinge ngolo hlobo lokuzonwabisa;
- imeko yezemali ehlahlokayo, mhlawumbi ibhujiswe;
- umphumo wengubo yomyeni ukusuka kumfazi wakhe ukungafaneleki ngokupheleleyo kwexhoba, utshintsho oluqhelekileyo lokungathobeli kwintlanzi;
- Abantwana, onomdla, kunye nomntu othabathayo, ababa yizona zibopheleleko zendalo yonke, emva koko, ngokwemithetho kamarmarm, bahlawulela izono zabazali babo - izifo ezihlala zihlala njalo, ukungafuni ukufunda, ukukhathala kunye neengozi ezibulalayo.
Imiphumo yokususa i-lapel iya kuba ngumdlali. Ukuba ixhoba lifumana umonakalo wobuhlanga, umthengi "wothando" ufumana isiqalekiso esizukulwaneni sayo yonke inzala yakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba, "uthenge" uthando, kubalulekile ukuba uqhelane ne "uluhlu lwamanani".