Bambalwa abantu abakwazi ukujonga izigulane ngaphandle kokuzihlambalaza, oku kusebenza kumaphupha kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwabo, okushiye emva kokuvalelwa okungathandekiyo ixesha elide. Ngokuqhelekileyo amaphupha aphikisayo, ngokuchaseneyo, aphilileyo. Ukuze uqondisise oku kwaye ufunde ukutolika okuthe ngqo, kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha eziphambili, umzekelo, apho kwakuphi iintsha, indlela abajonga ngayo, njl. Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela ukuba ngokuphindaphindiweyo enye iphupha elifanayo liguqulelwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, kungenxa yoko kubalulekile ukubonisa ukufana phakathi kolwazi olufunyenweyo kunye neemeko zobomi bokwenene.
Zibukeka njani izilwanyana?
Enye yeencwadi zephupha ibonisa ukuba ezi zibungu ziyimpawu ezilungileyo, ngakumbi ukuba uzisebenzise ukuloba. Kubantu abanobudlelwane, oku kuthetha ulonwabo kunye nokuqonda okufanayo, kunye nabasemagqatsheni abodwa . Kukho nembono yokuba iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba kulufanelekile ukuqonda kakuhle iingcamango zakho, kuba kwiingxaki ezikhoyo kuphela iphoso lakho. Ukubona kwimibala yokuphupha nokuwachaphazela, ngokobomi bokwenene ekuxazululeni iingxaki, lo mphupha usoloko usebenzisa iindlela zokungathembeki. Khumbula ukuba ebomini umthetho we "boomerang" usebenza kwaye yonke imbi iya kubuya.
Umbono wobusuku, apho ubeka khona isiponji kwintambo yeglasi, uxwayisa ukuba ngenxa yokungahambi kwakho ungawela emgibeni wabantu abakhohlisayo. Ukuba wenze oku ukuze uloba, ke umthendeleko ozayo uya kudlula ngaphandle kweengxaki. Kwincwadi enye yamaphupha adumeleyo, ezinjalo iinambuzane zithetha ukuba kwimeko enzima, uncedo lwabahlobo abasondeleyo aluyi kuza okanye bafanele balindele ukunyanzelwa kwabo. Ukubona ephupheni izilwanyana zokutya, ngoko kukho umntu ozayo kuwe owakhiwa izicwangciso ezimbi malunga nawe. Ukuba umphuphi wayesidla ukutya ngeemvumba - esi si lumkiso malunga neengxaki zempilo ezizayo. Iphupha, apho kwakudingeka ukutyala isiponji kwinqanawa, isebenza njengesilumkiso sokuba iintshaba zilungiselele izicupho ezininzi. Ukuba, ekugqibeleni, sikwazi ukubamba inhlanzi enkulu, ngoko umphuphi uya kukwazi ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki aze aphumelele.
Imbono yasebusuku, apho izihluthu zinyuka ebomini, ziprofeta isivuno esihle. Ukuba ubone ezininzi izibungu phambi kwakho, kodwa akazange aziqwalasele kwaye waziwela, kuthetha ukuba kwixesha elizayo kuya kubakho ukuhlangabezana nazo zonke iingxaki. Iphupha apho kwakukho iintlanzi ezincinci, zithembisa ukudumazeka okukhulu. Ukuba bekuninzi, ke ulungiselele iingxaki ezinkulu ongazikwazi ukuzijamelana nazo. Umbono wobusuku, apho safuneka sibulale khona izibungu, kubonisa ukuba umbulelo kumsebenzi wethu siza kukwazi ukusombulula zonke iingxaki.
Kutheni sibona umbala omhlophe?
Izibhunqa ezimhlophe kwiziqhamo okanye amajikijolo zifukisela into yokuba ubudlelwane bobulili obuhlukile kufanele balindele iingxaki. Kubantu ababini babini, oku kuwuphawu olucacileyo lokukhohlisa. Iphupha apho kukho ezininzi iimbongolo ezimhlophe kunye nezigubha ezikujikelezayo zibonisa ukuba okwangoku unesimo esinzima kwaye unokungabaza. Kwesinye se-bookies, iimbumba ezimhlophe zithembisa intlanzi ezincinci kunye neengxaki, kodwa ungakhathazeki, kuba yonke into iya kuphela.
Yintoni iphupha lamagosa neempethu kumntu?
I-Larvae emzimbeni isebenza njengombonakalo wokuthi lowo uphuphayo ngumntu ongenamdla kwaye akunakwenzeka ukutshintsha le naluphi na indlela. Ubomi kuwe kwindawo yokuqala kukuxabisa izinto, kwaye oku kunokukhokelela ekubeni bonke abantu bajika umqolo. Iiponji eziqhawulayo zixwayisa ngokungabi nabulungisa kunye nentlungu kwizihlobo ezihlobo kunye nabahlobo.