Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unothuke kangakanani, iifelli ziyakwazi ukuhluka. Kukho i-lapel esetyenziswa kumlingo omnyama . Leli nqanaba lokuqala lopelo. Oko kukuthi, okokuqala, yenza i-lapel ye "lixhoba" elivela kumntu oyintanda, oyintanda, kwaye sele sele uthabathele kumthengi okanye umenzi we-rite. Olu hlobo lwe-lapel luyingozi kakhulu kumbini kunye nexhoba, kuba isenzo sonakalisa yonke insime yamandla.
Kukho i-lapel emhlophe. Oku kuthetha ukuba, umzekelo, umfazi waqonda ukuba umyeni wakhe, owayenayo idyll epheleleyo, waba yintlanzi yesipelo. Wayenenkosikazi.
Kule meko, i-lapel yenziwa kumntu othabathayo. Oku kuxolelwe kwimilingo, kuba amandla okuba nenkonzo anomgangatho wokubuyisela. Oko kukuthi, "silungisa" into eyenziwa ngumntu. Uhlobo olunjalo, nakuba lufuna utyalo-mali olukhulu, kodwa kunjalo, aluyi kubangelwa nayiphi na inxaxheba.
Ukuba ukuzama ukuqonda uthando kwakungeze nto, lixesha lokufumanisa indlela yokwenza i-lapel. Siza kuhlalutya imizekelo kwi "bells" ezahlukeneyo.
Lapel ngokwayo
Umzekelo wokuqala ngowendlela yokwenza i-lapel ukuba uyayiliswa.
Iimpawu zeempawu zolu meko zi:
- Awukwazi ukucinga ngomntu, kwaye akukho nto, kuba entloko yakho yonke into ihlala "ngumqambi";
- ufuna ubukho balo mntu;
- Unomdla obuhlungu phambi kwentlanganiso;
- Unentlonelo kakhulu kwiqela elincinane;
- nazo zonke ezi, uqaphela ngokucacileyo ukuba oku akusilo uthando (!).
Ngaloo ndlela, yinyani ngokwenene ukuba ucinge ngendlela yokwenza i-lapel yothando. Sinika i-lapel emanzini. Ngenxa yokubulawa kwayo, kuya kufuneka ukuba uhlale uphapheme ubusuku obulandelayo kumqolo.
Ukuqokelela amanzi entwasahlobo kwi-jug ebonakalayo. Ebusuku bebeke phantsi kweenyanga zenyanga. Ngentsasa, thabatha apho kungekho mkhanya wokukhanya efike kwijug. Phinda ubusuku obuthile obuninzi, kwaye ngobusuku lwesithathu, uphuze yonke into ukuya ngasezantsi, ubhengeze isicatshulwa sesalathiso kwaye ucinge umfanekiso ococekileyo "othandekayo." Emva koko funda amaxesha angama-9 "uBawo wethu".
Lapel evela kwikosikazi
Umzekelo wesibini ngowendlela yokwenza i-lapel yendoda kwikosikazi yakhe. Yiyo imeko xa kuthethwa kumlingo omhlophe. Uvuselela iintsapho (ukuba unentsapho inothando kwaye iphumelela). Okokuqala, qiniseka ukuba umyeni ushiye ngenxa yesipelo, kwaye kungekhona ngenxa yokuba uyamondla ngamaqanda iminyaka eyi-10 sele sele ikhona.
Ukuze uphawule, udinga umfanekiso womyeni wakho kunye nomlingani obhubhisa intsapho. Ngenhlanhla, namhlanje ufumana iifoto kwiintanethi zentlalo aziyi kuba nzima.
Isithethe sisetyenzisiwe kwinyanga ekhulayo. Kufuneka udibanise isithombe seselanga ngokuqingatha, uhlula umyeni wakho kunye nomlingani. Ngelo xesha, kufuneka unqwenele, kwaye uthetha ezi zinto, ukwenjenjalo ukuba bashiye omnye nomnye kwaye bangaze bakhumbule. Beka esi siko esilula yonke into engalunganga, yonke intukuthelo nomsindo, ngenxa yolwalamano oluchithisiweyo.
Ukunciphisa iifoto kufuneka zingcwatyelwe kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo zesixeko.
Lapel kumfazi
Kwaye umzekelo wokugqibela, ungohloniphekanga kakhulu, kuba ukuba awukwazi ukuzuza uthando, kukufanelekile ukunyuka kobudlelwane babantu. Masithethe ngeendlela zokwenza i-lapel ekuthandeni kwesi sibini.
Umvuzo olandelayo uchithe ngenyanga. Kufuneka ukhanyise ikhandlela elibomvu, ulibambe ezandleni zakho, uye kwifestile uze ufunde isicatshulwa sesiqendu. Phinda ubusuku obuthathu ngokulandelana.
Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba ii-lapels zokuphula ulwalamano lwabafazi azenzile kuphela ngeendoda ezikhohlakeleyo, kodwa kunye namadoda / abafazi. Umzekelo, umfazi ufuna ukuqhawula umtshato, kodwa indoda nayiphi na ingxoxo kule ngxaki iqhubekile. Ukuba akukho mandla, ngokuzimeleyo ukuyiqonda nokuyicombulula umbuzo, umfazi (okanye kwimeko efanayo, indoda) inqumla konke ukunxibelelana kumgangatho wamandla. Emva kwe-lapel, indoda iya kufaka umtshato umtshato.
Iqonga emanzini, i-lapel ngokwayo
"Amanzi acacile, amanzi ahlambulukile, amanzi azinzileyo, inyanga iyahlanjululwa,
awuphuthelwa nabani na, awuyazi intlungu,
Thatha intlungu yam, uthathe nawe ngokwakho, ukuba andiyi kuqonda ngenxa yam okanye ukudabuka okanye usizi,
Isibalulekileyo sisesibhakabhakeni. Inqaba elwandle. Amen. "
Lapel kumfazi
Uthando lwethu alupheli, njengendandatho yokubambisana. Intshontsho yanyathelisa ingca, inja yatshisa inja, ikati yagijima ikati, umkhonzi kaThixo (igama lomyeni) kunye nomkhonzi kaThixo (igama) waphikisana. Musa ukudibana nathi, musa ukubekezela, siya kuphepha omnye ubomi bethu bonke. Ilizwi lam linamandla, njengelitye, njengetyelo ngokuqinisekileyo. Oko kuthethwa kuya kwenzeka, Amen. "