Nangona kunjalo ngoku abaninzi abanokungabaza malunga nomlingo kunye no-esotericism, imigca yamagosa ahlukahlukeneyo, izikhokelo kunye nabathakathi abayekanga. Into yokuba xa iimvakalelo zigqithiseleyo amehlo, abaninzi banokulungela isenzo esichukumisayo kodwa esicatshangelwayo esineempembelelo emininzi: i-spell eqinile kumyeni.
Iyintoni isiphelo kumyeni?
Njengomthetho, abafazi basebenzisa intsimbi yokuthanda ukubuyisela umyeni wakhe. Nangona kunjalo, kukho neemeko xa ibhinqa lingaqinisekanga ngokwabo, liloyiko loloyolo lwabesifazana kwaye ligqiba ukuba indlela yodwa yokuyigcina kukudala ukubophelela kwamandla.
Ngoko, ziphi izipho:
- ukupelwa kwendoda ekudleni - kule meko kuyadingeka ukuba uhlabezele emanzini, iimveliso okanye izinto ezithile zenzelwa udidi olukhethekileyo kwaye uyondla indoda;
- ukuphala kwendoda phezu kweenwele luhlobo olunzima kakhulu lwepelenti eyenziwa ngokusebenzisa iinwele ezisandul 'ikhanda ezisuka entloko okanye nayiphi na inxalenye yomzimba;
- ukupasa ngothando ngenye yezinto ezinzima kakhulu, ezingenakuzingcipheko kunye nexesha elifanayo lokuxhatshazwa, okubandakanya ukongeza igazi lakho lokuya esikhathini ekudleni komyeni.
Kukho ininzi yamathando othando kumyeni, kodwa nangona inkcazo yeminye imicimbi ibonakala ilula, kungcono ukuba ungathathi i-dilettante kubo-qha ga mshelana nochwepheshe. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuba wenze isigqibo esinjalo, kungcono ukuba uqhelane nemiphumo yeentsimbi.
Iziphumo zokuthanda ukuphalaza kumyeni wakhe
Umzekeliso uthi - "awuyi kuzinyanzela". Isenzo sopelo senzelwe ukutshabalalisa isimo sengqondo somntu, ukucima intando yakhe nokumphoqa ukuba enze oko umthengi wesenzo somlingo esiya kugqiba. Nangona kunjalo, le nto ayinayo nayiphi imvakalelo. U-Privorot akayi kudala uthando lobuchule, lenza umntu ahlupheke xa engekho nawe. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba xa efika kuwe, uyayeka ukuva ubunzima.
Ngoko, imiphumo yothando lokupasa umthengi kunye "nexhoba":
- kaninzi kukho ukungakwazi
unabantwana, okanye abantwana bazalwa begula; - Ixhoba lidla ngokuphelisa ubomi bakhe ngokuzibulala, lingakwazi ukunyanzelisa ukuthanda;
- ukufihla kwisiphumo sopelo, amaxhoba ngokuqhelekileyo abe yizilwelisi zamachiza kunye notywala;
- akukho nandiphayo kwimbini, kuba yayingenokholo olulungileyo.
Ngaphambi kokuba wenze isithethe, qwa lasela zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Ukuba ucinga ukuba umyeni wakho uthatyathwe kwintsapho ngokusweleka, akufuneki ukuba wenze enye enye, kwaye uphendule lowo obekwe kuye. Kunzima ukwenza oku ngokwakho, kwiimeko ezinjalo kukulungele ukukhangela umntu onokukwenza.