Nsuku zonke sidlula kwindlela yomntu, kwenzeka njalo. Kukho abantu abaxolelayo, kukho abo bacinezelayo ngokwabo. Intukuthelo enjalo iya kuba yingozi nakwezinye iintsuku zonke. Into athululela ngayo - kwiiminqweno ezithembekileyo zokufa.
Namhlanje siza kuthetha ngeentlobo zobumnyama ekufeni, malunga nokuba umntu unokukwazi ukuhla ukuya kwinqanaba elinjalo, nokuba yintoni enokuyenza xa umntu evakalelwa kukuba wayephantsi kwezinto "ezinqwenelekayo".
Kuthetha ntoni "ukufa ngokukhawuleza"?
Uye wabuzwa kaninzi kangakanani / ufunde / ubonwe ngamehlo akho, xa unokugula ngokukhawuleza, ngaba umntu uya kubuna aze adibanise phambi kwamehlo akho? Ngenxa yoko ... uyafa. Yintoni eyabangela ukuba isifo - iintsholongwane, iibhaktheriya, izifo ezange zifumaniswe ngabazinzulu? Umzimba womntu unokuzidala ngokwabo ezi zinto zingekho kwizifo zendalo, kubalulekile kuphela ukuba unike umyalelo ofanelekileyo.
Lo myalelo upelo ukufa.
Kutheni baqhutyelwa ukufa?
Imbono ephilileyo kunye nokuchanekileyo kukuba umntu akafanele abulale umntu, ngaphandle koko uwela umgca wobuntu aze ayeke, xolele ngenxa ye-tautology, ibe ngumntu. Asinakuqwalasela imfazwe-le nto yinto enye, nangona ingenasisiseko. Ubungangomlingo bokufa komntu ubalekela kunye noloyiko. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba umnqweno wokubulala nokutshatyalalisa kunene kakhulu, kutheni ungafiki uze ubulale? Iqhayiya ukuya entolongweni ngenxa yento oyenzile kwaye umemeza ukuba awuzisoli kuzo zonke, kuba u-HAPPENED!
Ngokusebenzisa umlingo ofanayo, ugwema uxanduva. Indoda yafa ngesifo esinqabileyo-kunye nomnxeba.
Awuvumi ukuba ukuba "ukunethezeka" kufuneka uhlawule ngokuphandle ubomi bakho?
Kuthiwani ngeentshaba?
Awuyiyo yokuqala / yokuqala kwaye awunakugqibela / owokugqibela, obani umntu oye waphila ngendlela ecwangcisiweyo ngokucokisekileyo. Ukuba wonk 'ubani wayesebenzisa ukutshilo ngokufa kwetshaba, ihlabathi liza kuba lidlulileyo kudala.
Ubomi bunqoba izithintelo kunye nesayensi, kubheka yonke into "ngeminwe yakho". Umhlobo ogqithiseleyo umbethe wakho umyeni / umyeni / martyr? Ingaba ucinga ukuba esi sono esibi sizuze ubomi bakhe? Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyafaneleka. Kodwa unokwazi ukujonga le nto ukusuka kwelinye icala. Mhlawumbi wakusindisa kumtshato ongonwabileyo, ezivela kwizifo ze-genetic ezingadlulisela kubantwana bakho abaqhelekileyo, ekudakaleni, ekuxabaneni kunye nabalinganiswa "abangabambisani"?
Cinga kakuhle, mhlawumbi ngelinye ilanga, ukuba awuyi kumbulala, ngokuqinisekileyo, emva kweminyaka eyi-10, uya kumbulela, kuba emva kokuphulaphula loo nto, udibana nothando lokwenene lobomi bakho.
Ngombhobho wokufa
Masithi unqwenela ukufa komnye, kodwa uyayilangazelela. Indlela yokuba yintoni, indlela yokusindiswa, xa uziva ukuba oogqirha apha abayi kunceda?
Ukuqhawula umtshato kuya kufuneka ukhawule, kodwa kufuneka ufune umlindi olungileyo. Kulungile, kuba abasindisi "abamnyama", kodwa bamhlophe. Ungathengi i-charlatans, khangela (ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle kokumemeza) phakathi kwabahlobo, mhlawumbi umntu ube nolwazi olubi kangaka. Mane ubuze kuphela abo bathemba i-90% (100% ayinakuthenjwa nakweyakho).
Umlindi olungileyo uza kunceda ukukhusela umonakalo kuwe kwaye ubeke i-spell ekhuselekileyo eya kukukhusela "ekubuyiseleni". Kwaye umsebenzi wakho kwixesha elizayo, kungekhona ukudibanisa nabantu abanokubanika izipho ezinjalo, musa ukusho kakhulu kwisijikelezo semzini kwaye uzama, kungakhathaliseki ukuba akunakwenzeka kanjani,
Ngaba izizathu zokufelwa kwezinto ezithandekayo kukuthanda?
Uthando, ewe, lunye lwezona ziqine kakhulu (ukuba akunjalo kunamandla) ukuvakalelwa kwehlabathi. Kwaye egameni luthando lokuba silungele ukuthatha izinyathelo ezininzi zobuntu. Kungenxa yoko, umzekelo ongenhla wothando.
Khumbula kwaye uqaphele oku kulandelayo: ukuthanda kuthatha ukunqwenela into enhle yothando lwakho. Ukuba le "sifundo" siphelile, nqwenela ulonwabo endleleni yakhe yokuphila kwaye ungazami ukumnyanzelisa. Kalula nje kuba akusayi kuba yintando, kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, akusayi kuba neendleko zokufa.