Ulwaphulo kunye nesiso elibi lizinto ezingathandekiyo, ezithe, ngenhlanhla, zinokwenzeka malunga phantse wonke umntu. Eninzi, mhlawumbi, engathandeki kubo kukuba iyakwenzeka nokuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba uyayikholelwa okanye cha. Kuphela nje ukuba abantu bebehlala benjalo, kangangokuthi ngamanye amaxesha babenomona, babheka ukubuza, bagwetyelwe, okanye ezintliziyweni abazithumele okanye (Mhlawumbi uThixo!) Uqalekisiwe. Ngokungahambi kakuhle, kodwa zonke i-Babu-Yaga kunoma yimuphi umxholo wefestile unomntu ontle. Ngoko kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokukhusela kweso elibi kunye nokuhlaselwa.
Yintoni le?
Ngokucacileyo, urhwaphilizo kunye neliso elibi lingamandla ambi (iingcinga, iimvakalelo) ezibhekiswe kumntu omnye ukuya kwenye. Isizathu kubo sinokukhonza nantoni na: impumelelo, ubuhle, ubukho babantwana okanye abafazi abahle / umyeni, imali kunye nokuchuma, ubuchule, njl njl. Kukholelwa ukuba unokuba no-jinx ngokwakho ngokuziqhatha okanye ukuziqhelanisa ngokwakho ngokwakho (ngokuqhelekileyo ukunyaniseka, ukuba kungenakho ukukhohlisa!) Ukungaphumeleli, ukungaphumeleli kunye nokungaphumeleli. Nangona kunjalo, kule meko, ukukhuselwa kwendabuko kwisiso elibi akuyi kunceda - kufuneka uxoxisane kwaye ufunde ukuzithandayo nokuhlonipha.
Ukukhuselwa kweso elibi kunye nokuhlaselwa
Indlela yokuzikhusela kwisiso elibi konke, okwenyani, ubuncinci, kodwa benza. Le nto iphothile ephaketheni le-cuckoo, kwaye igxotha phezu kwegxala elingasekhohlo, kunye ne-"pah-pah-pah" ebalulekileyo, kunye nepini, inqamle ikhanda ukuya kwiingubo. Ukukhuselwa okunjalo kwisiso esibi kunye nomona kwagqitywa yinkcubeko yabantu kwisizukulwana kwisizukulwana. Kodwa ke kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba le miba encinane inako ukususa kuwe inkunkuma encinci.
Izindlela zeNdabuko indlela yokuzikhusela kwiso elibi:
- ipini ekhonkxiweyo kwiingubo ezisuka entliziyweni yintloko;
- intambo ebomvu eboshwe kwisandla esinene;
- Isiqongo (esisiseko) segalikhi, efakwe kwi-pocket yangaphakathi yesibhenge okanye isikhwama;
- ilitye-ityala okanye iliso lehlosi;
Ukukhusela indlu kwiso elibi kuya kunceda, oko kuthiwa "uNazzar bonsuk" okanye "iso kwiso elibi." Lo ngumlindi, oqukethe idiski eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, kuwo-omhlophe, ngaphakathi-omnyama. Ngokuqhelekileyo ixhoma phambi komnyango. Olu khuselo ludume kakhulu phakathi kwezizwe zaseMeditera (iTurkey, iGrisi, eKyprus, njl.).
KwiSlav, indlela ekhethekileyo yokukhusela indlu kwiso elibi kukuxhoma ukulungiselela izilwanyana ezahlukeneyo phezu kwayo:
- umhlonyane okanye intambo yaseSt. John phantsi kwephepheni emnyango;
- isiqwenga sesinti okanye isitrato sikaSt. John ngaphaya komnyango okanye nje kwindibano;
- umxube weentlanzi ekhaya;
- yarrow phezu komda.
Indlela yokukhusela umntwana kwiso elibi?
Kuyaziwa ukuba abantwana banentlonelo kwaye banamatheliso kweso elibi - kuba basensimini engakhuselekanga. Enye yezona zixhobo ezikhuselekileyo kweso leso elibi lomntwana ngumnqamlezo womthi entanyeni. Intsimi yamandla yale mizila elula yomeleleyo kangangokuthi iyakwazi ukumelana "nomoya" onzima.
Izindlela ezinjalo zokukhusela kweso elibi kunye nokuhlaselwa ziyakunceda, kodwa, ngelanga,
Unokubhenela ekuncedeni izifo zengqondo, ugogo kunye noogqirha, nangona kunjalo, iindlela zabo zisekelwe kwinjongo, imilingo, ngokuqhelekileyo "balala" kwintsimi yamandla yomntu, kwaye nangona kunjalo umntwana.
Ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokubhenela ekukhuselweni okungavumelekanga kwamehlo ambi nokuphanga, kungcono ukhethe i-reiki. Olu hlobo lonyango olongezelelweyo lucindezelekanga ngaphaya kwamandla omntu, kwaye ukufumana isinyathelo sokuqala kufumaneka phantse kuwo wonke umama. Olu khetho luyakwazi ukukhusela kuphela lona wesifazane ngokwabo, kodwa nokugcina nokukhusela kwimpembelelo engalunganga yokulahleka kunye nesiso elibi labo bonke abathandayo.