Abameli abaninzi abanesiqingatha esihle sabantu baphupha iingubo ezimhlophe kunye nomtshato. Ukuba umntu ngenxa yesiphina isizathu sihlala nesiphakamiso, kukho indlela yokuyifumana - isicwangciso sokutshata. Ngeendlela ezilula wonke umntu uya kukwazi ukujamelana nayo. Kubalulekile ukukholelwa kwimiphumo emihle kunye nentshukumo yomlingo, ngaphandle koko awukwazi ukuzama ukuqhuba umkhosi.
Iqhinga lokutshata ngokukhawuleza
Ukuba akukho siqingatha sesibini, ke le masiko ayiyi kukhangela kuphela uthando, kodwa iya kunceda ekwakheni intsapho eqinile. Ukuze ukwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, kufuneka ube neetayiti zomtshato, ipokethi, ipenethi yokuzivocavoca kunye nebhebhoni ebomvu. Thenga zonke izinto ozidingayo ngosuku lokuqala lwenyanga. Endaweni apho kuya kubakho umkhosi, yenza indawo ephumayo, umzekelo, vula umculo wakho owuthandayo okanye ikhandlela ezikhanyisayo. Thatha iphepha elincinci kwaye ubhale iimpawu ezilungileyo ukuba umthandayo kufuneka abe nazo. Kubalulekile ukuba ungasebenzisi amagama nge-particle "kungekhona", umzekelo, ukubhema, kodwa ngaphandle kwemikhwa emibi, njl. Thatha amasongo uze uwabophe ngebhebhoni ebomvu, esithi la magama:
"Isiqingatha sam, ndikulindele!"
Emva koko phawula isahluko sephepha eneempawu ezibhaliweyo, kwi-tube. Ukubophelela umqulu obangelwayo kunye nebhebhoni kunye namaconsi uze uyifake kwi-casket. Kucetyiswa kwakhona ukubeka umfanekiso wakho kunye nomfanekiso obonisa uthando , umzekelo, iintliziyo, amajuba, njl. Ibhokisi kufuneka ifakwe kwigumbi lokulala endaweni engafinyeleleki kwabanye abantu. Musa ukuxelela nabani malunga nesiko, kwaye emva kwexeshana isiqingatha sesibini siya kuvela endleleni.
Uqhinga lomama ukutshata nentombi yakhe
Thatha ubusi kwaye, ngakumbi, bhetele kwaye ufunde kuye icebo lomtshato ophumelelayo:
"Zingaphi iinyosi zahamba zaqokelela ubusi,
Kuninzi kunye nomkhonzi kaThixo (intombi ebizwa ngokuba yintombi) kule ndlu ukuza
Akwazi ukuba ukhathala.
Hlanza, tshuka.
Indlu ifuna ukudibanisa.
Indlela iinyosi ezisebenza ngayo.
Ngoko indoda yomkhonzi kaThixo (intombi egama layo) isebenza.
Ngoko ke indlu yayigcwele imali. Ngoko ukuba umkhonzi kaThixo (obizwa ngokuba yintombi) wayethanda kakhulu.
Njengobusi obuhle,
Ukuhlala kwintleko yentsapho yayiyiyo
Kwisicaka sikaThixo (esabizwa ngentombi yakhe).
Ehle kwaye epholileyo.
Kusela iMedoc.
Yavuya kuba!
Ilizwi lam linamandla.
Umkhwa awuyikusika.
Ungayinqumanga isakhe
Njengoko ndithethile, makube njalo. Amen. "
Emva koko, mema intombi ukusela itiye kwaye ubeke ubusi kwindebe yakhe. Olunye utywala lunokusikwa ngesonka.
Kufanelekile ukukhankanya ngemiphumo yelenqe lokutshata. Ukuba kusetyenziswa imilingo emilingo emhlophe kwaye yonke into eyenziwa entliziyweni, akukho nto inokutshiswayo.