Ukuba inkcazo yokungcatsha ibonakaliswe kwaye kunomnqweno wokuziphindezela kumlingane, ke ungagcini umkhuhlane kwaye ungcono ukwenza isicwangciso esicwangcisiweyo senkqubo. Ukuqala oko kuyimfuneko ukuba ichazwe ngento ofuna ngayo kwizalamano ezizayo, oko kukuthi, kuya kubakho umtshato okanye awunayo. Kwimeko apho kunomnqweno wokugcina intsapho, kubalulekile ukuba wenze ngokuqaphela okukhulu. Ukucinga malunga nendlela yokuphindezela umyeni wakho ngenxa yokunyaniseka nokungcatsha, khumbula ukuba injongo ephambili kukuvumela ukuba iqabane likwazi ukuba lingalahlekelwa yintoni na intlungu ayenzayo. Iingcali zengqondo azicebisi ukuba zenze imizwa, kuba unokwenza izinto ozozisola ngazo kwikamva.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo zendlela yokuziphindezela kumyeni wakhe ngenxa yokunyelisa
Ndifuna nje ukuthetha ukuba asiyi kuba neendlela ezingakhokelela kwiinkqubo zomthetho.
Iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokuziphindezela kumyeni wakhe ngenxa yokunyanzela:
- Indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu eya kwenza umlingane azisole ngokukhohlisa - abe ngowona mnandi kwaye uyonwabile. Yiya kwi-salon enobuhle, hambisa ukutya, fumana umdlalo kwaye uhlakulele. Zama ukuzonwabisa imihla ngemihla, kwaye umrhwebi acinge ukuba yintoni imbangela yovuyo lwakho kunye nendlela yokuphumelela umfazi onjalo.
- Ukuziphindiselela ngokunyaniseka, unokuhamba ngendlela efanayo, oko kukuthi, uzenze ube ngumqhubi, kwaye ungcono kunamanani amaninzi. Iintlanganiso zamadoda aziyi kuphakamisa ukuzithemba kwazo , kodwa zenze ukuba iqabane licinge ngento yokuba umfazi angasuswa.
- Ukuba ucinga malunga nendlela yokuziphindezela kumyeni wakho ngokukopela ngokuziphatha, uze ulahleke ebomini bakhe ixesha elide. Ngokomzekelo, unokuya eholide okanye kubazali bakho. Ukuba akukho nhlobo, ke uzama ukubonakala ungaphantsi kancinci ekhaya, ubuyele ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kuya kwenza ukuba umlingani abe nexhala.
- Yeka ukuba yinkosikazi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, amadoda akayikuqonda into abafazi babo abayenza ngayo imihla ngemihla, ngoko keyeka ukuhlamba izinto, ulungiselele ukutya okumnandi, njl njl.