Umnqophiso ngumfazi ohlala kwiindleko zomntu, kwaye akanakho enye imvelaphi yengeniso. Ngokungafani nomfazi oqhelekileyo, uhlala phantsi kwegunya lomxhasi kwaye akanalo imeko esemthethweni. Ukuba intombazana ngulo hlobo lomsebenzi apho umqeshi ngumxhasi okhethiweyo.
Umxhasi unokukhululeka kwaye mhlawumbi utshatile. Ubume bezentlalo, kunye nokukhuseleko lwezinto ezingabalulekanga. Umgcini-wesifazane unokuba nomqhubi we-minibus, izipho kunye nokugcinwa kwayo kuya kuba yincinane kwinqanaba elingu-oligarch.
Izizathu zokuba amantombazana abe ngabagcini abaneleyo. Ezizona ziqhelekileyo zi:
- Ladies abafuni ukusebenza kwaye bafuna ubomi obukhuselekileyo nabunamdla. Okanye bafuna ukufezekisa izinga eliphezulu loluntu ngale ndlela;
- Injongo kukufumana inkunzi;
- ithuba lokuhlala kwisixeko esikhulu;
- imeko enzima yemali;
- abanye, ukuzingela amadoda yinto yokuzonwabisa;
- i-infantilism;
- ukunganeliseki ngobomi bentsapho. Eli bhinqa ngale ndlela uzama ukusombulula iingxaki ezimbini: fumana umthandi kwaye ufumane iimpahla eziphathekayo.
Amantombazana amaninzi kunye nabasetyhini bakholelwa ukuba bakhululekile kwaye banomona. Kwiindawo zobomi babo - iholide ehlala phantsi, kodwa kuphela abo baziyo umqolo walo, baqonde ukuba oku akuyiyo yonke into eya kuphila.
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- IsiXhosa asikwazi ukuzivumela ukuba sithandane. Ngokukhawuleza xa ethanda omnye umntu, umxhasi we zarevnuet aze amxoshe.
- Akakwazi ukuba nabantwana.
- Umnqweno, othanda umxhasi wakhe, uyazitshutshisa. Emva koko, ke uya kuphazamisa umthandi ngemibuzo malunga nomtshato nabantwana. Kodwa wayeqeshwe ngeminye imisebenzi. Iimeko xa umxhasayo eshada nomfazi onjalo. Kwisangqa sabo, isenzo esinjalo sithathwa njengefomu elibi. Yaye ngaphandle koluthando akukho nto inokuthi ibe nolonwabo lokwenene.
- Ubomi bakhe abukho ezandleni zakhe, ulahlwa ngumntu ohlawulelwayo. Indoda ingamnika umhlobo iintsuku ezimbalwa popolzovatsya. Okanye kwenzeka ukuba ukutshintshisana kwamantombazana kuqhutyelwa kumaqela.
- Akukho mntu uya kukunyamezela ukuziphatha kwakhe kakubi kunye nesimo sengqondo, ngoko kufuneka akhuphe iimvakalelo zakhe.
Ukuba wena, nangona konke oku ngasentla, ushilo kuwe: "Ndiya kuba ngumbanjwa!", Emva koko mamela ezinye iingcebiso.
Indlela yokuba ngumgcini, iingcebiso:
- Injongo yakho kufuneka ibe yimali, qwalasela oko kwenzekayo njengohlobo lokuhamba ukuya emsebenzini. Musa ukuxelela umninikhaya wakho ngeenjongo zakho kunye nezicwangciso ezizayo. Ukuvakalelwa kukuba uyisinyathelo esiphezulu kwimeko yakho, kwenza indoda ibe nefuthe kakhulu kwaye igxininiswe, kunye nosapho.
- Cacisa ngokucacileyo ixesha lokuphila.
- Ngokukhawuleza kuyimfuneko ukukhetha uluphi uhlobo lwamadoda enomdla onalo, gcinani engqondweni ukuba ubomi bomgcini-bhinqa obuphezulu bukhuselekile ngakumbi, kodwa kukho imfuno yamantombazana kunye nokukhuphisana kakhulu. Amakhulu amantombazana anomzimba kunye nokubukeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo wabuyisela kwakhona ugqirha we-plastiki kwizinto ezithandwa ngumntu ocebileyo, kunye nokwazi ngentliziyo yonke yakhe imikhwa kunye nemilinganiselo iminyaka ekhulayo ukuba abe yinkosikazi kunye nomlondolozi womntu ophezulu. Kodwa kukho ithuba elilodwa kuphela. Eminye, kubalulekile ukuba unelisekile encinci okanye ukuhlala umviwa okhethiweyo.
- Ubudala bomnini kubalulekile. Ngaphezulu, bhetele. Kodwa ungahambi kummandla ogqithiseleyo-umahluko kuminyaka kufuneka ungabi ngaphezu kweminyaka engama-25. Ngomntu okhululekileyo, unokuxelisa inveli kwaye ucinge
ubuhlobo bomtshato, kodwa ubudlelwane bomntu kunye noqoqosho buzinzileyo. Utshatile - unombulelo kwaye uzinzile, kodwa ebubudlelwaneni bukhona umona, ukungathembeki nokulawula. - Iingxaki kufuneka zikwazi ukudala izinto ezifunekayo ukwenzela ukuba ufumane ubutyebi bexesha lonke.
- Imali kufuneka ithunyelwe ngokukhawuleza kwi-capital, engasayikhoyo kumnini.
- Musa ukubuza malunga nemali yemali kunye nokulondoloza.
Lowo ukhetha ukuba yinkosikazi, umgcini okanye umfazi ukhetha ngamnye ngokuzimeleyo kwaye kuphela ukukhetha okulungileyo kuya kukuvuyisa.