Isithuba sengqondo malunga nokuzalwa kwonyana wakhe uZadin, uNicki Smith wabhala kwi-Facebook nje ezimbalwa iintsuku ezidlulileyo, ezixhaswa ngeefoto ezingekho ngaphantsi kweemvakalelo, kwaye namhlanje ngokuqinisekileyo waba yinto exoxwa ngayo kwiwebhu!
Ngethuba ezikolweni zethu zesizwe, senza izifundo zokusasaza ngesondo kunye nobuhlobo obusondeleyo phakathi kwendoda kunye nomfazi, ukudala ukuguqulela yonke into ibe yi-pistils kunye ne-stamens, uJasey oneminyaka eli-12 ubudala waseMississippi (USA) sele sele wakwazi ukuzala umama wakhe waza wanceda umntakwabo ukuba avele ekukhanyeni!
UJacey ulungiselela ukuzalwa komntakwabo omncinci
"U-Jessie wathi ufuna ukubona ukuzalwa komntakwabo iinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlule, kodwa ndacinga ukuba uncinci kakhulu," uNikki Smith wabhala. "Emva koko, saxoxa ngale ndaba ngendoda yam kwaye safika kwisigqibo sokuba elo thuba liza kumnika amava okufunda. Intombi yam yaza kunye nobawo esibhedlele sam malunga nobusuku, xa ndenziwe i-anesthesia ye-epidural. Emva kweeyure eziyi-8 zokunyathela kwayo, ndaqala ukuva ubuhlungu, kodwa umntwana akazange abonakale nonke ... UJacey wayecaphuke kakhulu, ebona oko kwakwenzeka kude nebhedi. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza ugqirha wamxelela ukuba eze kwaye eme eduze kwakhe. Ndothuka, kodwa ndaqonda ukuba intombi yam ilungele oku. Uyazi, ukunyuka kunye nokuzama kwam ndizisa ukuhlushwa okungenakunzima, kodwa kugxininise ubuso bukaYaycee, ndakwazi ukuqhubeka. Ndazama ngokusemandleni am, kwaye intombi yam, ngakolunye uhlangothi, yayibamba uZadina kunye neziphatho zayo. Kwakungekho nje imizwa engaqinisekanga! Hayi yonke imihla intombi yakho eneminyaka engu-12 inceda ukuba unomntwana! "
Qalisa inkqubo
Okwangoku, ubukho beqabane elikwinkonzo yokunikezela liqhelekileyo, kodwa uyavuma - kungekhona wonke umntu, owona onothando kakhulu, uyavuma "ukuphumeza lo vavanyo", leyo intombazana inokunyamezela.
UJacey unceda abazalwana ukuba bazalwe
Kodwa enyanisweni, uninzi lwabavakalisi abakuthandi nento ababeyibonile baze bafunde ...
Iifoto ngaphandle kokucima!
Intombazana ikhala xa ibona indlela umntakwabo azalwe ngayo!
UJacey usika intambo
Hayi, kwiifoto zengqondo, abantu babona uphawu oluphazamisayo, banomfanekiso wokuba le nto iya kuba yintombazana engayifundanga, kodwa iimeko ezibuhlungu zengqondo zabantwana:
"Ndiyicinga into engaqhelekanga. Andiyi kumvumela umntwana wam ukuba abukeke okanye asebenze kumfazi wam xa selekile. Ukuba umama wandenza ukuba ndiyenze oku, kuya kundikhathaza ... "
"Kukho ezinye iindlela ezininzi zokudala uxhamlwano olungenakulinganiswa phakathi komzalwana nodade, ngaphandle kokucamngca nokuthatha inxaxheba ekuzalweni komntwana."
"Ndinokumva xa uthetha kumntakwabo xa ekhula:" Musa ukuthetha nam ngathi, ndakunceda ukuba uzalwe! "
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