Ngaba uyazi ukuba ikhefu lokubeleka eSweden lililo lide kunazo zonke ehlabathini? Ngoko, ukuhlala kunye nosana olusandula kuzalwa lunokuba luninzi lweentsuku ezingama-480, "ukuthatha" kwiindawo ezithile - ngeenyanga, iiveki, iintsuku kunye neyure.
Kwaye abaphathi baya kulihlawula ngokumalunga ne-80% yomvuzo, kwaye ukuba unomsebenzi wabasebenzi, uza kufumana i-100% yezinto zonke. Kodwa lungele ufunde inyaniso enomdla kakhulu - ukusuka kwiintsuku ezingama-480 kanye kanye 60 kunye nomntwana kufuneka ahlale edide, kwaye ukuba uyavuma, ukuba le mihla iyancitshiswa kwaye ayihlawulwa!
Kwakucingelwa ukuba lo mqathango unyanzelekile unokubanceda abazali baqonde kakuhle, bafunde ukusabalalisa iimbopheleleko kwaye bacinge ngeentsapho zabo kunye nemisebenzi kwinqanaba elilinganayo.
Kodwa, hayi, eqinisweni kwathiwa kuphela ukuba i-12% yabapapa abatsha bakulungele ukuxhamla amabhonasi avela kurhulumente kwaye banike iinyanga ezimbini ukunyamekela nokukhuliswa kwengane yabo. Kwaye umfaki-zithombe uJohn Bävman ungomnye wabo:
"Ndaqalisa le projekthi xa ndahlala ekhaya kunye nendodana yam eselula. Kwaye kwabonakala ngathi kwile shishini ndiyodwa kwaye ndingenayo inkxaso. Kwaye ndenyuka ngcamango yokufotoza nokuqokelela amabali abapapa abanjengam, abazange balahle isabelo sabo sekhefu lomzali, bafumane isizathu sokuba bathathe le nyathelo kwaye bafunde ntoni isifundo ... "
Makhe sibone ukuba kwenze ntoni kule nto?
1. UJohn Ekengård, oneminyaka engama-38, umphuhlisi wemveliso eSandvik noPapa Ebby (oneminyaka eli-7 ubudala), uSayra (iminyaka emihlanu) kunye noSteen oneminyaka elilodwa:
"Ndanyanzeliswa ukuba ndilahlekelwe yimali kwiholide, kodwa ngenxa yoko ndanqoba kabini - ndiqinisekile ukuba ndenze njengotata kwaye ndaqala ukuqonda kakuhle iqabane lam. Kwaye ukuxhamla kwethu olunzulu nabantwana kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo ... "
2. Umntla waseNyakatho, 32, umcebisi weziseko kunye noHolger oneminyaka eyi-10 ubudala.
Ubomi bemihla ngemihla mna nomkami sizama ukulingana ngokulinganayo. Kwiinyanga zokuqala kwakunzima kuthi, kodwa namhlanje ndiqhayisa ngeli xesha. Umntwana wethu wayenqabile iidampu kwiinyanga ezine! Kwaye umhla wam namhlanje uqulethe ukuba kufuneka ndipheke ukutya kukaHolger kwaye ndidlale naye. "
3. U-Loui Kuhlau, oneminyaka engama-28 ubudala, umlingisi kunye noyise ka-Elling unyana:
"Kwintsapho yethu ayizange ibe nengxoxo - ngubani oza kuhlala kunye nomntwana. Kubonakala ukuba bobabini abazali kufuneka bathathe inxaxheba! Kodwa ukuba andizange ndibe nelithuba lokuba ne-Elling for the year, andizange ndiqikelele into awayeyithandayo kunye neemfuno zakhe. Yimangalisa, kuba emthethweni bayayikhokha usuku olusebenzayo, ngoko kutheni abantu bengabakho ekhaya kunye nomntwana wabo? "
4. USamad Kohigoltapeh, oneminyaka engama-32, injini yonjiniyela kunye namawele e-Paris kunye noLeia:
"Wanikela ihlabathi elitsha lamadoda kwaye kunomsebenzi wakho wokuziphathisa ubomi bakho! Kodwa ndade ndiphikisana nomfazi wam, ukuze ndiphumelele "iinyanga" zam! "
5. U-Ola Larsson, 41, umthengisi kunye noyise kaGustav:
"Lesi sipho sangempela-ukuba sikwazi ukusondela kumntwana kwaye senze uxhamano olunzulu lwamavakalelo! Abantwana abazi nokuba balahlekelwa phi xa bekhetha umsebenzi esikhundleni seholide. "
6. UTjeerd van Waijenburg, 34, umphuhlisi wemveliso e-Ikea kunye noyise kaTim:
"Okwangoku, xa iintsuku ezingama-60 ziphelile, ndifuna ukunciphisa iveki esebenzayo ukuba ndichithe ixesha elininzi kunye nendodana yam. Ihlazo kulabo babantu abangaboni nayiphi na inzuzo kwinkqubo yokulinganisa! "
7. U-Andreas Bergström, 39, umkhonzi wabasebenzi kunye noyise onyana ababini:
"Emva kokuzalwa kwonyana wam omncinci, umfazi wam unenkathazo. Ndathatha isabelo seengonyama kwimfundo yentsana ekhulile kwaye ndandifumana umnxeba wobawo ngokusondeza okusemthethweni komntwana omncinci. Ngoku abantwana bam bathemba njengamama, kwaye oku kubaluleke kakhulu kum! "
8. UMarcus Bergqvist, oneminyaka engama-33, injini yonjiniyela kunye noyise oonyana bakaTed no-Sigge:
"Abasetyhini balungiselela umama ukususela kwiintsuku zokuqala zokukhulelwa, kunye nabapapa baphawuleza, emva kokuzala. Kodwa ndicinga ukuba ukuba andizange ndihlangabezane nemisebenzi yam eholide, i-bar of self-esteem yayiza kukhishwa! "
9. UMarcus Pranter, oneminyaka engama-29 ubudala, umthengisi wewayini kunye nendodana eneminyaka eyi-8 ubudala:
"Le miyalelo yobuwula! Abagadi bafanele baye kummiselo, ukuba bafuna, kungekhona kwinqununu. Kwaye ixesha elide liba lixesha leeholide, kulukhuni ngakumbi ukuqhagamshelana nomntwana. Kwintsapho yethu, mna nomkami sasiba nomthwalo wokubafundisa ngokulinganayo. "
10. UGöran Sevelin, 27, umfundi kunye noyise kaTib intombi:
"Nangona ulahlekelwa yimali, ukuba nomntwana kubaluleke kakhulu! AmaMama adibanisa ngexesha lokuncelisa, ngoko ke ootata kufuneka banakekele ubudlelwane babo bomntwana kunye neli xesha ngeli xesha. "
11. UJonas Feldt, oneminyaka engama-31, umlawuli kwiziko lokuqeshwa kunye noyise weentombi zaseSiriya (1 unyaka) kunye noLovis (iminyaka emithathu):
"Umqondiso kum ndiyi-poll kumaphephancwadi omtsha. Kwabonakala ukuba uninzi lwabantwana, xa begula okanye bengakhululeki, bafune ukukhuselwa kumama wabo. Kwaye ndifuna ukuba amantombazana ahlale ekwazi ukuthembela kum! "
12. Ingemar Olsen, 37, umcebisi we-IT kunye noyise oonyana bakaLinus noJoel:
"Kwaye kwakuyisigqibo esinzima, kuba kumashishini endiyisebenzelayo, amadoda alawula. Kodwa umqeshi wam wayeyindoda enhle kakhulu, eyandivuselela. Namhlanje ndivuyiswa kukuba ndichitha ixesha kunye nabantwana kwaye ndiziqonda kakuhle iimfuno zabo. "
13. UMartin Gagner, 35, umlawuli weYunivesithi yaseMalmo kunye noPapa Matilda (iminyaka emine) kunye noValdemara (1 unyaka):
"Ngentombi yam, ndangekho eholide, kwaye ndiziva ndetyala. Ndicinga ukuba ndilahlekile kakhulu, kwaye ngokusondeleyo njengokuba andinako kunye nendodana yam ... "
14. UJan Cardenal, oneminyaka engama-34, umfundi kunye nobaba Ivo (1 unyaka) kunye no-Alma (iminyaka emine):
"Ukushiya abazali kwatshintsha ngokupheleleyo ubomi bam - ndibe nexesha lokucinga ngezinto eziphambili, ndakwazi ukuguqula ngokubanzi umsebenzi wam, kwaye ndafumana ithuba lokubona amanyathelo okuqala ebantwaneni!"
15. UMichael Winblad, oneminyaka engama-35, uyise ongasebenziyo uMatisse (iminyaka emi-2) kunye noVivian (iinyanga ezi-5):
"Ndenenhlanhla nomfazi wam. Ngezihlandlo ezinzima, ingeniso yakhe ingayifumana iindleko zentsapho yethu. Kwaye, mna, ndazama ukuba nguyena mhle kunabo bonke ootata "!
Kuze kube namhlanje, amaqhawe omfoto wezithombe uJohn Bävman sele sele ehamba ngeepapa ezingama-30 kwikhefu lokubeleka, kodwa injongo kukuqokelela amabali angama-60 (ngokubhekiselele kwinani leentsuku), ukuze-ke uqhubeke ...