Ngokuza kubantwana, ubomi buya kuba yi-kaleidoscope engapheliyo yeziganeko: zivuya kwaye zingenakulinganiswa. Kwaye ngamnye umzali ozayo, ukulungiselela ukuzalisa intsapho, unikeza izithembiso ezikhawuleza xa kuvela umntwana.
Ukuba ungumzali, okanye uceba ukwenza enye, leqoqo iya kuphucula kakhulu imvakalelo yakho kwaye ilungiselele ubunzima obulindele kuwe! Into ephambili kukuba, unganiki naziphi izithembiso, ezinokuthi, unganakuzibamba.
1. Ungasebenzisi "i-leash's leash".
Inokwenzeka ukuba, awukwazi ukucinga ukuba abantwana banokukhokelwa kwi-leash. Kwaye akunandaba nokuba wenze le leash kwiimali eziphuculweyo okanye kuthengwa kwisitokisi sezilwanyana. Kodwa umntwana wakho uya kuhlala ebonakala. Ngako oko, akukho nto ekuthiwa i-leash ayikho kuwe.
2. Ungalokothi ukhononda ngokukhathala.
Nkosi, kufuneka ndilale ngokukhawuleza!
Uninzi lwabazali bexesha elizayo bengazi ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukukhulisa abantwana. Ngoko ke, akukho mntu unokucinga ngokukhathala komlinganiselo xa umntwana ebonakala. Kodwa awukwazi ukuphulaphula izithembiso?
3. Musa ukufumana ubunzima.
Ewe, ngabazali abangenamandla kuphela bafumana ubunzima emva kokuvela komntwana. Kodwa eqinisweni ngaphambi kokuba bazalwe ba thembisa ukuba bangayenza naziphi na izinto. Bathembisa ukutyelela i-gym yansuku zonke, ukudlala imidlalo kunye nokuphila ngendlela enempilo. Kodwa zonke ezi zizithembiso ezingavinjelwe.
4. Ungalokothi ufike.
Ewe, ndisekho imoto sele ikhona. Ndiza kuba khona emizuzu emi-5.
Ngokuza kubantwana, abazali balahlekelwa ixesha lokuhamba. Ngaphezu koko, bayaqonda ukuba, ngaphezu kwabo, akukho mntu ucinga ngemisebenzi yasendlini. Ngoko ke, ngamnye umzali ozayo kufuneka enze isithembiso kuye kwaye angalokothi afike. Kodwa, njengokuba kukho ukubonisa, lesi sithembiso asihlali sigqibe!
5. Musa ukuya kwizentlalo zentlalo kunye nabantwana.
Unomntwana ... kwibha.
Iintlanganiso kunye nabahlobo okanye iintlanganiso zobubele kwi-cafe kunye nokufika kwabantwana ziba nzima kakhulu. Kunzima kakhulu ukuhlawula i-nanny rhoqo. Ngoko ke, abazali abaninzi "badonsa" abantwana nabo. Nangona bathembisa ukuba akaze enze oku.
6. Musa ukuvumela ukuba ubukele iTV.
Abantwana kunye nabamama bathi banokuhlala bebandakanyeka nezingane ezizayo, ukudlala imidlalo yokuphucula nokufundisa izakhono ezifanelekileyo, ukunciphisa ukubukela iTV. Kodwa, siyavuma ngokunyanisekileyo-esi sisithembiso esingenakwenzeka!
7. Ungalokothi usebenzise kakubi izixhobo ezikhoyo.
Kuya kuba kuhle ukuba abantwana bababonge ngabazali babo ngenxa yokungabikho kwezixhobo eziphathekayo. Kodwa oku kuchaneke ngokoqobo.
8. Musa ukubhabha nomntwana kwinqwelo.
Akukho nto ebi ngaphezu komntwana okhalayo e-moya. Ngako oko, abazali bathembisa ukuba bangabhendi kunye nomntwana ade aneminyaka engama-5 ubudala. Kodwa sonke siyazi ukuba kuvela njani.
9. Ungalokothi uthumele imifanekiso yabantwana kwi-intanethi.
Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngezithombe zomntwana wakho othunyelwe kwiintanethi zentlalo. Zincinci, ezininzi izithembiso zokungabonakali iimvumba zabo kubo bonke abazungezile. Kodwa, i-intanethi inamandla ngakumbi kunezithembiso.
10. Musa ukuya kwimibutho kaninzi.
Ndikulungele iphathi.
Kunzima kangakanani ukuyeka indlela yokuphila yobomi. Kodwa abantwana bangcwele, ngoko ii-discos kunye nemivalo esele emva kokuba umntwana ebonakalayo. Ubuncinci kwizithembiso, kunjalo.
11. Ungalokothi ushiye indlu.
Njengamaxesha onke, abazali, balungiselela ukuzaliswa, bafunga ukugcina indlu yabo ihlambulukile kwaye ihlambulukile, inike ukucoca iiyure ezimbalwa imihla ngemihla. Kodwa ukukhathala ukungahambi kunye nokuntula kokulala kuthatha isigqibo sokuba uhlambulule okanye awuyi kucoca. Ngokuchanekileyo, kungekudala.
12. Musa ukuqonda inkcubeko yanamhlanje.
Ukuba unokucinga nje ukuba bangaphi abazali ababethembisa ukuba bangazicaluli iinkcukacha zobomi bomntu base-Hollywood abadlali bexesha lethu okanye iinkqubo zokuqhawula ngokuqhelekileyo iinkwenkwezi ezidumileyo. Kodwa abantwana bayatshintsha le ngongoma. Ukuba ufuna ukuba nabantwana kwiqondo elifanayo, kufuneka ufunde.
13. Ungaze ujezise abantwana.
Abazali abaninzi banenkohlakalo kubantwana babo kangangokuba ayihambisani nentloko. Kodwa, umele wazi ukuba ngaba ngaba bazali abathembisa ukuphatha umntwana wakho ngokuqonda, ukuchaza oko unokukwenza noko ungenakukwenza.
14. Musa ukuvumela ukungabikho kwezingane kwiindawo zoluntu.
Kodwa, ke, oku akuze kwenzeke kubantwana bakho, ngenxa yokuba uthembisa. Kodwa abanye abazali abazange banenhlanhla. Izithembiso zabo zachithwa.
15. Ungalokothi uncelise ukutya okungenampilo kubantwana.
Abazali phantse bonke abantwana baphupha ukuba umntwana wabo uya kudla ukutya okuncedo kakhulu. Kodwa wonke umntu uyazi ukuba ukutya okuyingozi kukukhanga kakhulu.
16. Ungadli nabantwana.
Ukutya kwentsapho kuyintsikelelo enhle. Ewe, oku kuphela emva kokuqala "ukuhlanganisana" okunjalo, abazali bafungela ukuba bangaze batyelele ivenkile kunye nabantwana. Kutheni! Ngenxa yokuba banentloni.
17. Ungaze uvumele abantwana ukuba baphumelele emsebenzini.
Akunanto yinto abayithethayo yokuba umsebenzi kunye nosapho kunzima ukudibanisa iingcinga. Ngako oko, abazali abazayo bathembisa ukuba bangatshintshi imikhwa yabo kunye neshedyuli yomsebenzi. Kodwa, njengaxa onke, into ehamba kakuhle.
18. Ungalandeli urhulumente welo suku.
Ishedyuli sinceda ukusabalalisa ixesha ngokufanelekileyo ngemini. Kodwa ngokwenene phantse bonke abazali bangabalulekanga kwaye bangenangqiqo. Yaye yile ngongoma: xa uzama ukulandela ishedyuli, ibuhlungu ngakumbi.
19. Musa ukuphuma endlwini yokugqoka.
Bonke abaMama ngaphambi kokuba abantwana bafunga ukuba abayi kuphinda bahambe kwindlu ngeebhulukhwe ezilula kunye neT-shirt endala. Ngaba ukholelwa ngokuthe Xa ufuna ngokukhawuleza ukuya kwidolo yokutya okanye i-diapers, kwaye akusekho amandla, ngoko yonke into enomfusa obomvu apho iingubo zokugibela esitolo esiseduze.