Indlela yokukhulisa umntwana wokuqala njengokuba sele esesithathu.
Abazali abatsha abatyiweyo, ngentsingiselo, bengazi. Bafunda uninzi lweencwadi, baqhagamshelane nezihlobo kunye nabanye abazali, kwaye ngokubanzi, xhalabise ngezinto ezincinane. Ngomntwana wesibini, oomama abanamava kunye nootata bafunde ukugqithisa iingqungquthela ukuze ubomi kunye namasela amabini amancinci aphendukele esihogweni. Kodwa kumntwana wesithathu nowesine, ulawulo luba luchaneke kakhulu kwaye lunempumelelo kakhulu.
Buza nawuphi na umzali ngabantwana abaninzi-ebomini babo ngabakho ibali elingasethusa umntu ongenalwazi. Ngokomzekelo, ngolunye usuku umhlobo wam, ukuthabatha abantwana abadala kwi-kindergarten, ushiye umntwana kwitafile ekhitshini. Ngenhlanhla, xa utata othukile ebalekela etafileni, umntwana ovalwe ngokuqinileyo wayehlala kwindawo enye. Ngoko, ngokwemibare, abantwana besithathu nabesine kwintsapho bafaneleke kakhulu kwiimeko ezibuhlungu zobomi.
Masiqaphele indlela isimo sengqondo sabazali besengxaki efanayo sitshintsha ngayo nokubonakala kubantwana abatsha.
Iphupha
Iipervenets: Fumana zonke iindlela zokubeka umntwana kwimeko. Nxibelelana nodokotela wezingane. Ukugcina ngokupheleleyo ugunyaziso kunye nokusebenzisa unesi-nonyango.
Umntwana wesibini: Akunandaba nokuba, kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuphazamisa ubuthongo obukhulu bomdala.
Umntwana # 3: Uya kulala xa ekhathele.
Ngomnye
Ozalwe kuqala: > Geza ngokuzenzekelayo ama-pacifiers ngamanzi afudumele kunye nesepha xa liwela phantsi.
Umntwana wesibini: Lick i-pacifier ewiweyo yokungafihlisi. Njengomtsha!
Umntwana # 3: Ukungcola kwakha i-immunity, akunene?
Ixesha lokulala
Iipervenets: Ngo-7 : 00 kusihlwa.
Umntwana wesibini: imizuzu engama-30 emva komdala.
Umntwana # 3: Xa ekulungele ukulala (funda: xa ufanelekile).
Ukunikezelwa kwamandla
Ozalwe kuqala: Sebenzisa kuphela iimveliso ezenziwe ekhaya ezithengwa kubahlobo abathembekileyo okanye ezilethwe zizihlobo ezivela kwi-dacha. Hlanganisa kakuhle kwaye uhlambulule ngaphambi kokupheka. Ayikho i-puree kwiimbiza!
Umntwana wesibini: ukutya okwenziwe ngumntwana kwisitoreji.
Inombolo yomntwana wesi-3: Ngokuthakazelisayo, kwiinyanga ezimbini ungasondla umntwana wakho kunye nee-cookie ze-Oreo?
Izambatho
Iipervenets: Yizona kuphela iimpahla ezingcono kunye nezicathulo ezenziwe ngezinto eziphathekayo.
Umntwana wesibini: Izambatho apho umntwana osekhulile akhula khona.
Umntwana # 3: Uthanda ukuhamba ngeepjama!
Amathoyizi
Iipervenets: Ukuphuhlisa iithayi ezenziwe ngemithi yemvelo.
Umntwana wesibini: Amathoyizi aseplastiki awayimbi njengoko athetha ngayo!
Inombolo yomntwana 3: Into ephambili kukuba akukho mntu ukhubazekile.
Iincwadi
Iipervenets: Iqoqo elipheleleyo lechungechunge "Iincwadi zokuqala zentsana."
Umntwana wesibini: Iincwadi ezifanayo eziseleyo kumdala ziya kufumana.
Umntwana # 3: Uhlonishwe esikolweni!
Umculo
Iipervenets: I- Classical, isesiswini.
Umntwana wesibini: iingoma ezikhethekileyo zabantwana.
Inombolo yomntwana 3: Uyayithanda uBeyonce!
Ukukhetha isikolo
Iipervenets: Isikolo sokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba afunde ngaphambili kunokuhamba. I-Kindergarten neqela lakwaMontessori. Ukusuka esikolweni esiphakeme, kunyanzelekile ukuba uye kwi-gymnasium okanye i-lyceum.
Umntwana wesibini: Isikolo kwindawo yokuhlala akuyona into embi kunabo bonke abanye.
Inombolo yesithathu yomntwana: Ukukhokela umntwana ngomzobo wesinwe kuyinkunkuma yemali.
Umsebenzi wasekhaya
Iipervenets: Sidinga ibhalansi efanelekileyo phakathi "ekuncedeni" kunye "nokwenza umsebenzi wakhe."
Umntwana wesibini: "Cela udade wakho omdala."
Umntwana # 3: Ukuba awufuni ukufunda, zezi ngxaki zakho.