Zama ukufumana umntu onokuphila ngaphandle kokunxibelelana. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuphumelela, udibanise ukufumana ithuba lokusebenzisana nehlabathi langaphandle. Kwaye incoko nganye yakhiwa ngokwemigaqo yayo, ehambelana nemimiselo yokuziphatha kunye nemigaqo yokunxibelelana . Okumangalisayo kukuba, asisoloko siqaphela ukunamathela kule miqathango, isekwe.
Imigaqo yokuziphatha nokuziphatha
Abanye banokucinga ukuba bakhululekile ngokupheleleyo kwimithetho ebekwe yintlalo, kubandakanywa ngexesha loqhagamshelwano. Kodwa kungekudala okanye kamva kuyacaca ukuba ekugqityiweni kwempompo, kwaye nje ukuzonwabisa kwencoko, ezinye iinkqubo kufuneka ziqwalaselwe. Kwaye umgaqo ophambili wokunxibelelana ukugcinwa kobuhlanga, oko kukuthi, ukuqonda ukulingana kwamaqabane, ukugcina umoya ohloniphekileyo ngexesha le ncoko. Nangona kunjalo, njengoko sele kukhankanywe ngasentla, ukuqonda imfuneko yokulandela lo mgaqo awufi msinya, umntu ufumana olu lwazi kwinkqubo yemfundo, kwaye umntu ufanele afinyelele konke ngengqondo yakhe. Kukho nawuphi na, imilinganiselo yokuziphatha neyokuziphatha iyazimisela ekuziphatheni komntu. Banoxanduva lweendlela zokuthetha, isimo sengqondo kumnxibelelwano kunye nemfuno yokuba umntu enze izenzo ezithile.
Ekubunjweni kwemigaqo-siseko yoqhagamshelwano, umsebenzi ophezulu wokulawula usebenza ngamacandelo ezempilo zokuziphatha-imfundiso, imikhwa, iimpawu, izenzo kunye nobuchule. Ngoko ke, ngezinga eliphakamileyo lenkcubeko, umntu unako ukulungelelanisa iimpawu ezimbi zobuntu bakhe, ukwenza ukusebenzisana nabanye abantu banomdla kumacala omabini. Oko kukuthi, ukuthobela imigaqo-nkqubo yokuziphatha yonxibelelwano ivumela umntu ukuba asebenze nabanye ukuze abonise ubuntu - uvelwano, uvelwano, ubonise ububele, ukuhlonipha kunye nenceba. Le ndlela ikuvumela ukuba ubonise umntu ukuba luxabiseke kangakanani kuye nakwabanye abathintana nabo.
Imigaqo esemqoka yokunxibelelana yile:
- ukuzithemba nokuhlonipha abadibaniselwano;
- ukunyamezela kunye nobulungisa boluntu;
- ukuhlengahlengiswa kunye nentando yesininzi;
- isimo sengqondo sokungabi namkhethe kubalingane;
- ukuqaphela ukungahambi kakuhle kwesidima somntu ngamnye;
- nya niseka;
- ukuqonda iminqweno yabadibaniselwano.
Inzuzo yokusebenzisa loo migaqo yokunxibelelana ayikho kuphela ukuphuculwa komgangatho wokusebenzisana, kodwa kwakhona ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba kwenziwe isifundo sokuqala kwimeko yokunxibelelana yokufumana iindawo ezihamba phambili.