Asinakuze sicinge ukuba iingcinga kunye namazwi ethu achaphazela njani isimo sethu sengqondo, impilo, isimo sethu sengqondo. Ngamazwi asitshoyo kwaye siwabale. Kodwa zonke izinto ezithethwa kwaye ziqwalaselwe ngumyalelo we-subconscious, oya kuthi usondle kuthi, uqala ukugxininisa kwiindawo "ezizothe" ezahlukahlukeneyo ezichazwe ngokukhawuleza-iimfazwe, ezopolitiko, iintlekele ... ukuba awukwazi ukunceda nokukhusela ezi ziganeko, uyeke ukuthetha ngazo ukuba ungathethi nto, ngaphandle koko amandla ocinga kunye namagama akho aya kusebenza nawe.
Amacebo okucoca
Ulungele ukusebenza emsebenzini, kwaye uthi "dama, ndihlala ndihamba!". Esikhundleni sokugqithisa, sebenzisa "Ndiyaxolisa, ndiphelile" okanye ndixelele "kulungile, ngexesha elizayo ndiza phambili." Kulawulo lokulawula amandla. Okokuthi, ukuba kukubi kuwe, akufanele ugxilise iingcamango zakho namagama ngesihloko esithi "kutheni kubi", "yintoni embi", "kukubi kangakanani", kufuneka uthi "Ndilungile" ngamaxesha amaninzi ngaphandle komoya. Oku kukufakela kwakho.
Iingcamango
Amandla okucinga kunye nokucinga okulungileyo kuthetha ukuba kufuneka ufunde ukudala iingcinga ezifanelekileyo kunye eziyimfuneko kwingqondo yakho, kunye nokucoca umdaka. Ukuba ufuna into ethile, kufuneka uyibeke kuyo yonke imibala - umfanekiso weendlela ezibukeka ngayo, iimvakalelo eziza kuvela xa uzalisekisa okufunayo. Le ndlela ingenziwa ngokwengqondo - imihla ngemihla ngaphambi kokulala, unike imizuzu emihlanu. Kodwa kwabanye, kulula ukuqonda amandla okucinga kunye nomthetho wokukhanga, ukujonga iimfuno zomntu. Kule meko, kufuneka ukuba kwiphepha eliphambili, njengelanga, cwangcisa ifoto yakho, kuyo, njengemitha, kufuneka ivela kumboniso weminqweno yakho. Ingaba ukukhangela kwiimagazini, iilwimi, iifoto, ukuprinta.
Ubuninzi kwihlabathi
Kwilizwe eliphathekayo, yonke into iyanelisa ukwanelisa iimfuno zethu. Ihlabathi lihlulwe ngabo bafumana yonke into (abanenhlanhla), kwaye ngubani othungayo ngokukrakra kwicala (elilahlekileyo). Amandla aqakathekileyo okucinga kukuba asebenzisa iinhlanhla, nokuba bayayibona okanye ayikho, ngokukholelwa nje kwisiganeko esithandayo.
Yintoni omele uyenze:
- Siqala ubomi "ukususela ekuqaleni" size senze into esiyidingayo.
- Umzekelo: umatshini omtsha.
- Ukuze senze oku, kufuneka sigqibe isigqibo sokuba kuya kuba yintoni inkcukacha - umzekelo, umbala, isivinini, umthamo we-tank, njl njl.
- Musa ukucinga malunga nokuba ungayifumana phi, i-subconscious ngokwayo iyakukhangela. Umsebenzi wakho kukucinga malunga nokuba kuya kuba yintoni kunye nayo yonke.
Zinike iindlela ezinjalo ukuya kwemizuzu emihlanu ngosuku malunga neenyanga ezimbalwa kwaye ubomi bakho buya kutshintsha ngokuphawulekayo.