Umbuzo wendlela yokuba ngumfazi oyinyani ufanelekile kuwo wonke umntu. Emva koko, njengoko ibinzana elidumileyo lithi - umfazi akazalwanga, kuba. Ukuze uqonde ukuba kunjalo, kwanele nje ukucinga kwakhona ngobuntu bakho ngendlela olwasemantwini ngayo. Yingakho iincwadi ezinjenge-"Indlela yokuba yintonga" - ayinzuzo kubafazi boqobo.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumfazi wokwenene?
Umfazi oyinyani ngokukodwa ngumfazi obhinqa, kwaye kungekhona inkohliso, ibhinqa lorhwebo okanye intombazana enomdla. Ibonakalisa kuyo yonke into - kunye nemikhwa, kunye neempahla, kunye neminqweno, nokuziphatha, kunye nokubonakala. Igqirha kuwo onke amabini. Ukuze uqonde indlela yokuba ngumfazi onyanisekileyo, kufuneka ulahlekelwe ngokusondeza ubukhulu bendoda kwaye uphenduke kwiingcambu.
Imfihlelo yowesifazane oyinyaniso - ukubukeka
Into yokuqala esiza kuyiqwalasela yindlela yokuba ngumfazi, ngokuqala ngaphandle, kuba, njengoko uyazi, badibana neengubo.
- Kuba umfazi akakho umbuzo nokuba yintoni ukugqoka - iingubo okanye ingubo. Kakade, ingubo! Ibhinqa ligweba iimpahla kunye nezicathulo zabantu.
- Ukuba ibhinqa ligqoke ibhulukwe, ngoko ngaphezu kwesiqhwazo sineqhwaba elinesifazana.
- Ibhinqa likhetha izicathulo ngezithende, nangona zingekho phezulu.
- Ibhinqa ayiboni njengento engcolileyo - inhle kwaye inomtsalane.
- Ibhinqa ihlala ilungile!
- Ukwenza okulula kulula kakubi nabani na - kwaye umfazi uyazi malunga nalo.
- Akukho mntu umele abone umfazi eengubo ezimbi, kunye "nesidleke se-crow" ekhanda lakhe okanye nge-make-up.
- Ibhinqa libukela ifashini, kodwa alizange lilandele.
- Ibhinqa libukela umzobo, i-makeup, i-manicure, i-pedicure kunye neengubo kunye nenkathalo efanayo.
- Eli bhinqa libukeka elungileyo nokuba xa ehamba ukufumana isonka kwivenkile elisondeleyo.
Yonke imithetho yalo mfazi kukuba kufanele ibe yinto efanelekileyo, ilungele kakuhle, iguqulwe rhoqo ngamaxesha kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - ukuba ihlale isetyhini. Sekunjalo, kulula ukuhlala yintombi egqeni, kunokuba i-trance-afghani.
Yintoni umfazi okwenene angayenza?
Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba indoda yangempela kufuneka yakha indlu, vusa unyana kwaye utyala umthi. Kodwa yintoni umfazi wokwenene okufanele ayenze kusenjalo imfihlakalo. Mhlawumbi nje ngokuba ibhinqa alifanele lihlawulwe nantoni nabani na, njengokuba kunjalo ngoku festile ukuthetha. Ukuba sithetha ngokuziphatha komfazi oyinyaniso, ungabhekisela kwezi zilandelayo:
- Hlala luhle. Amadoda asheshayo akhulile kuphela abo bavumela ukuba benze.
- Akazange ahlaziswe phambi komntu kwaye akazami ukulungisa iingxaki zakhe.
- Unemicimbi yakhe, izinto ezithandwayo kunye nomdla.
- Abasetyhini bafanele bakwazi ukulawula imali: ukuba bazi ntoni ukuba basindise, kwaye akunjalo - kungekhona.
- Ibhinqa, ngokungafani nendoda, iyakwazi ukufumana iifom.
- Ibhinqa ayinakuhlala ilondoloza ilizwi layo-kodwa kungcono ukuyigcina.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lijikelezwe ngqalelo yendoda-ngakumbi abalandeli, bhetele!
- Ibhinqa alihlali kunye nobusuku bokulala, akunandaba nokuba uyishiya ivenkile okanye indlu yakhe yomkhonto-kufuneka uyiqhube.
- Ibhinqa lilila kuphela kwiimeko ezigqithiseleyo kunye ezinqabileyo. Ngaloo ndlela ke iinyembezi zakhe zinempembelelo yangempela. Umfazi omhlophe uyacaphuka.
- Ibhinqa kufuneka lifundwe kwaye lifunde kakuhle. Esikhundleni seempawu ezixhatshazayo, funda iiklasikhi - ziya kuhlakulela ingqondo yakho, ingayi kucima.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuba umfazi wangempela uyazi ukuba kulula kangakanani ukubopha indoda kuye. Ukuba xa esithandana nawe, uya kuchitha phezu kwakho zonke iindlela zakhe kunye nexesha, uya kukuncoma. Amadoda ahlala exabisa oko anikayo, ngaphezu koko awamkeleyo. Umfazi uyazi ukusebenzisa izibonelelo zakhe - kwaye akathandabuzeki ukwenza oku!