Inkqubo yamaxabiso angunaphakade yinto enjengeengqungquthela ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa kukunceda uhambe ngexesha lokuzikhethela okanye isigqibo. Iimilinganiselo - yilokho ibeka indlela yethu yobomi , iinjongo zethu kwaye isisondeza kwiimeko ezinzima.
Umthombo
Ziziphi iimpawu zokomoya zomntu awabhekisela kuye ngokuthi "ngonaphakade"?
Kukho izinto ezinamandla ezinamandla. Siseko:
- Ngokwakhiwa kweenkcubeko kunye neendawo zendawo.
- Ubume bentlalo apho lo mntu othile wazalwa khona.
- Isimo sengqondo kunye neengcamango zabazali, kunye nezihlobo eziseduze ezihlala nomntwana okhulayo.
- Ukukhethwa komntu kunye nenkcubeko yomntu.
Kodwa, nangona ukuba zonke ezi zinto zinokuhluka kakhulu, zininzi iinkalo zentsapho ezingunaphakade ezenza iintsapho ezivuyoleyo ziyabona.
Imilinganiselo yosapho engunaphakade
- Uxanduva lokuthatha izigqibo.
- Ithuba lokuthetha ngokuvulekileyo kwaye uxoxe ngezinto ezithandayo wonke amalungu entsapho.
- Ithuba elingagcini nje lokuchitha ixesha kunye nosapho, kodwa nenkululeko yelungu ngalinye liba neenjongo zabo, zixhomekeke ekuxhaseni kwabanye.
- Hlonipha indawo yomntu ngamnye.
- Ukudala intsapho akuyona injongo, kodwa kuphela ukuqala kohambo olude.
- Umnqweno wokubonakalisa uthando lwenu nomnye imihla ngemihla, nakwizinto ezincinci.
Kukho neemeko zokuziphatha ezingapheliyo eziqhelekileyo kubo bonke. Umzekelo:
- uthembeke kwiinjongo zakho;
- ube ngumntu onokuthembela kuye;
- ube nesibindi;
- kuba nomonde nokuqonda;
- lungele ukuphendula malunga nezenzo zakho namazwi.
Ezinye "ixabiso elingunaphakade" libhekisela emsebenzini. Nantsi uluhlu olungumzekelo, apho abaninzi abafilosofi kunye nootitshala baqamba:
- yenza yonke imizamo yokwenza umsebenzi kakuhle;
- phuhlise emsebenzini wabo, qho ninokufuna iindlela zokwenza ngcono;
- ukuphazamiseka nokucinga ngekamva;
- ukuthetha ngobuchule yonke into;
- baziqhenye ngeempumelelo zabo;
- kuqwalasela imfundo kunye nemfundo eqhubekayo njengeyona nto ephambili;
- ukusebenzela njengomsebenzi kwiindawo zoluntu;
- bancedise ootitshala kunye nabaqeqeshi, banakekele, bobabini malunga nabo.
Ukwakhiwa kobomi
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, "amaxabiso angunaphakade" axhalabisa ubomi ngokubanzi:
- kuthanda;
- ukunyamezela nokuzimisela ukwamkela omnye umntu, kungakhathaliseki ubuhlanga, ubuhlanga, unqulo, ukuxhatshazwa ngokwesini;
- zivulekele ezitsha, zihlale zihlola umhlaba;
- landela imithetho kwaye bahlonele abo babadala;
- Ukunyamekela abo ababuthathaka kwaye bayayidinga;
- ukwenza kwabanye njengoko ufuna ukuba bakwenze kuwe;
- ukuphuhlisa ngokomoya nangengqondo kulo lonke ubomi.
Indlela yokujonga ukuba imilinganiselo "engunaphakade" yobomi ibaluleke kakhulu kuwe? Bhala phantsi imigaqo elishumi ebalulekileyo ekukholelwa kuyo kwaye inokuchaphazela impilo yakho ephambili. Nguwuphi kubo ochaphazela izigqibo zakho? Yintoni oyikhumbulayo kwimisebenzi yakho yemihla ngemihla?
Bhala, nangona ezi nkcazo zibonakala zicacile okanye zilula kuwe. Olu luhlu alufanele luchukumise nabani na; Uyabizwa ukuba akuxhase kwaye akuvumele ukuba uphinde uqhagamshelane neziseko ezinzulu zobomi bakho. Kwaye unokubeka olu luhlu kwincwadi uze uyifunde kwiminyaka elishumi.