Ukuxoka, njengokuba sonke siyazi, akunakulungile. Kodwa ndivumele, kodwa kuthekani "ngamanga okulungileyo"? Akumangalisi ukuba kukho into enjalo? Ukuze ungakhubekisi umntu, phuma kwiimeko ezingenakwenzeka, ulungelelanise ulindeleke komntu. Ngamanye amaxesha, njengoko bethetha, awukwazi ukuthetha amanga - awuyi kuhlala. Yaye ukuba uthe walala, musa ukugwinya. Ngaphandle koko, wena ubuxoki bakho uze uhlulwe.
Into ephambili kukukholelwa
Ukuxoka ngokuchanekileyo? Oku, ngelishwa, akukho mntu usifundisa. Eli lizwi "elixabisekileyo" esizihlakulela lona. Njengokuba kukho nawuphi na ishishini, kuyafuneka kwakhona ukuba "uhlaziye" ubuchule. Yintoni esinokuyenza ukuba imeko iphosakele ukuba sisebenzise ukuxhoma kunye nokudibanisa? Ukuze ufunde ukulala kakuhle, kubalulekile ukukholelwa kuwe oko utshoyo. Umnxibelelwano wakho uyavuma ngokuqinisekileyo ukungaqiniseki nokungafani, ngoko kholelwa ekukhohliseni kwakho. Ukuba uthetha umhlobo wakho ngomntu ocebileyo kunye neholide edibeneyo eMaldives - ufanele ufumane ingqondo kunye neenkcukacha ngokule mfanekiso. Ekubeni bathetha "ukuphonsa uthuli kwiso," kuya kufuneka sitshintshe ukukhumbula okuphumla kwi-cottage kunye nommelwane Kolka ngento engaphezulu.
Ukulumkisa - kuqala
Ungakulibali loo nto kwaye waxolela kuye. Ngokukodwa ukuba abantu abahlukeneyo kwimiba efanayo banika ulwazi oluphikisanayo. Awufuni ukuba aba bantu baphoswe ithuba lokuxoxa ngokuziphatha kakubi xa behlangana? .. Ukuba izinto zibuhlungu ngeememori, qalisa incwadana uze ubhale zonke zakho "ubungqina bobuxoki".
Abantu abakholelwa ukuba ubuxoki babo bungozi bungozi bokuhlaziywa kwezinto zokuguqulwa kwezinto eziguquguquka kuba ngabaxoki. Yiya kumabonakaliso akho, amabali afunyanwe kakhulu kwaye, ngenxa yoko, wenza ubomi-bulula kwaye bunobungozi. Ungayisebenzisi kakubi ubuxoki, phila ubomi boqobo. Esikhundleni sokuzama ukuphazamisa malunga nendlela yokuthetha ngokuchanekileyo nangokungaqondakali, cinga bhetele malunga nendlela yokwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi ngakumbi, ukuze ungabi nokulala.
Akuphezu kokugwetywa
Ukuba umntu uthembele, oku akuthethi ukuba akafanelanga nto ngaphandle kokugwetywa. Asazi iinjongo zokuziphatha kwakhe kwaye
Nantsi ke, ubuhlobo bokwenene kunye "buxoki". Ungakulibali nje ukubhalisa kunye nentombi yakho ekuzivocavokeni xa umntwana wakhe ekhula kwaye ungashiya kunye noyihlo. Yaye yintoni na? Makhe athathe inxaxheba ekukhuliseni, ukuze yena ngokwakhe akaze axoke.