Ngamnye wethu, ekubeni kwindawo ethile kunye nesikhathi, kwindawo ethile yengqondo, ngenxa yoko, kwiindawo ezifanayo, abantu ababini bahlalutye ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo.
Okunye okanye ukunciphisa?
Ngamanye amagama, umntu omnye iglasi ingabi nxalenye engenanto, kwaye enye iya kuvuyisa ukuba iyazaliswa phakathi kunye namanzi kwaye kukho into yokucima ukoma lwakho. Enyanisweni, kulo mzekelo olula, inkcazo ebalulekileyo yesimo sesimo sengqondo somntu sipheliswa: sivuyiswa okanye akunjalo. Nangona le ndlela ihambelana nombandela ngokugqithiseleyo kwaye imida yokwaneliseka ngolu hlobo kunye nemeko yezemicimbi ngeli xesha ngezinye iinkcukacha ziphazamiseka ukuba kunzima ukucacisa umlinganiselo wezinto ezintle kwiimvakalelo zabo. Into ekhoyo kwimeko yangoku iyakuthandeka, kodwa ngelo xesha, icala eliphambene naloo ngcamango linokusinceda kakhulu kwaye sitsho ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba kule meko kukho enye eqhubekayo kunye okanye, ngokulandelelana, singenakuze. Umzekelo, unomsebenzi ohloniphekileyo, ohlawuleka kakuhle kunye nombolo kwinkokhelo yakho yokuhlawula ngaphezu kokufanelana nawe, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi kufuneka usebenze iiyure ezili-10-12 ngosuku, ngaphandle kokushiya ithuba kwindawo yobomi obuqhelekileyo, ngoko ke, sele usuziva ukhululekile.
Uphi umgca?
Kukho ezininzi iindidi zengqondo: ukwesaba, ukunyamezela, ukukhungatheka, ukunyanzeliswa, ukunyanzeliswa (unokubhala ngonaphakade kwaye uzama ukuhlukanisa amadidedi awo ahlukeneyo), kodwa phantse njalo, ngandlela-thile, ngandlela-thile, bhekisana nabo "oogxa" babo, ngamanye amaxesha ukuba akunakwenzeka ukuhlukanisa omnye kwenye. Umzekelo, umntu ufumana imeko yoxinzelelo olujulile, okokuthi, ukuze "ungaboni" wedwa, ngokukhawuleza umema "kwiqela", ukusila, ukukhathala nokuntuleka kwesondlo, kwaye oku kuyingqondo kunye nokukholelwa, ngokukhawuleza ukuba ubomi bakho buza , zonke ezo "ndwendwe" njengomoya ophelile.
Unokukunceda njani?
Ukwangoku, kukho iindlela ezininzi, ubuchule kunye neengcebiso eziphendula umbuzo wendlela yokuphucula imeko yengqondo yomntu. Uncedo olugqwesileyo lokujongana nomoya oxinezelekileyo wokucamngca okanye i-yoga. Iiveki ezimbalwa zentsuku zobugcisa bokugubha nge-asanas elula kwaye uya kukhangeleka ngefilosofi kwihlabathi elihlaselayo elikujikelezayo, kunye noxolo lwaseBuddha. Inketho ebalulekileyo kukuba utshintshe imeko, kwaye kuyinqweneleka ukukhetha indawo apho ungakaze ube khona. Ingqondo yakho iya kutshintshela kumsebenzi wokulungelelanisa indawo entsha kwaye ifundise "i-anesthetic yesikhashana" kumaziko anembopheleleko yokunikezela iimvakalelo ezimbi. Unokuzama ukhenketho olukhulu.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, izinto ezininzi zichaphazela imeko yengqondo yomntu, kodwa sinikwe isizathu sokukwazi ukwahlula imbewu kumququ kwaye sinike uvavanyo oluqikelelwa kwimeko ukuze siqonde ukuba ingafanelekile iiseli zethu ezinamanzi okanye cha. Kusuka naziphi na imeko kukho ikhona indlela yokuphuma, yinto yokuba ihlala ihluke ngokupheleleyo kwindawo esizama ukuyifumana ngayo. Khangela ingxaki kwi-angle ehlukile kwaye, mhlawumbi, uya kumangaliswa ukubona ukuba amanzi eglasi yakho akwanele ukuba adakwe.