Bathi wonke umntu unayo "iindiza entloko yakhe", oko kuthetha ukuba bonke abantu bayancinci kwaye bayaphambukela kwi-psyche. Nangona kunjalo, izifo zengqondo zisoloko zifuna ukulungiswa kunye nonyango, ekubeni umntu akanako ukuhlangabezana neemfuno ezibonelelwa ngumntu kunye nokulungisa iingxaki zakhe zobomi.
Izizathu zengqondo zezifo
Iingcali zithi izifo zengqondo zibangelwa zizibini ezibini kunye nezingapheliyo. Kwimeko yokuqala, zonke iimpembelelo zangaphandle ebuchosheni obubangelwa yizinto ezinobuthi, ukulimala, izifo zangaphakathi. Izizathu ezingapheliyo azihambelani neemeko zangaphandle kwaye zixhalabele ngokuyinzala. Kodwa nangayiphi na imeko kukho imibuzo eninzi kwiingxaki zengqondo zeengxaki kunezimpendulo. Omnye akanakuze athi ngokuqinisekileyo oko kubangele le nto okanye loo ngxaki yesifo sengqondo, kwaye ukuba kukho ukuxhomekeka kwangaphakathi kunye nokuvuselela kwangaphandle, umntu ngaphandle kokufa kwakhe kungaba yintlungu yokuphazamiseka kwengqondo emzimbeni.
Ulwahlulo lwezifo kunye neengxaki zengqondo ziye zafundiswa kwaye zafundwa yingcali ezininzi. Akusiyo into abayithethayo yokuba zonke izifo zivela kwiisiphako. Ngaphandle kolwazi lwezokwelapha, kulula ukuphawula ukuba abantu abanentshiseko, abanomdla kunye neengqondo ezingakhawuleziyo banokudla ngezidumbu zezifo ezithintekayo. Eyaziwayo kulo lonke ihlabathi, uLouise Hay, owathi, nangona engekho ugqirha, kodwa umsekeli wenkxaso yokuzinceda, unike abantu abaninzi ithuba lokunceda kunye nokulahla iingxaki ezininzi zeengqondo. Nguye owakhula uluhlu lweengqondo ezifanayo nezifo. Ngokunceda unokuqonda ukuba zeziphi izizathu zangaphakathi eziye zakhupha izifo eziphazamisayo kwaye zilahla.
Isifo ngasinye kuloluhlu sinobaluleka ngokwengqondo. Umbhali ngokwakhe uthi uyakwazi ukunqoba umhlaza ngaphandle kokungenelela kwezokwelapha, ukuyeka nje ukuhlambalaza nokuxolela abo babenomcaphukisa.
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