Ukuguqulelwa kwegama elithi gerontophilia kwisiGrike lithetha uthando kubadala. Olu hlobo lwesisu, xa umnqweno wesondo ungekelwe kumntu othize, kodwa uneminyaka yobufazi / indoda. Inokuthi ibe yintando yabasetyhini badala, edibene ne-sadism. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphambuka okunjalo kunqabile kakhulu.
Izizathu zegerontophilia
Kwi-psychotherapy kunye ne-sexology, i-gerontophilia ithathwa njengengxaki yesondo. Esi sifo senziwa kukukhwabanisa ngokwesini esingasempilo kubantu abadala. Kuyabonakala kubantu abaneengqondo (ubungozi bomntu), i-schizophrenia kunye nabantu abalahlwa ngengqondo. Izizathu zegerontophilia:
- umphumo wobundlobongela kwabantwana, ukukhwabanisa abantwana kunye nentsha kunye nabantu abadala;
- Amava okuqala ngokwesini ehambelana nomntu omdala, kwixesha elizayo linokuchaphazela impawu yesifiso sesini;
- ukungaqiniseki malunga nezakhono zabo zesondo. Indoda isaba "ukunganeliseki" kwentombazana encinci. Uloyiko lwakhe luya kubakho xa ejongene nabalingani abasweleyo abangaphantsi;
- nangeminyaka yobudala, umntu uzama ukufumana induduzo, ahlawule ukungabikho kokuziqwalasela kuye kubantu abadala ekubuntwaneni. Oku kuchazwa ngumbono womntwana kumntu omdala njengomzekelo wokumxelisa, ukulungelelanisa;
- iingxaki zobuntwaba, imfundo engafanelekanga yezesondo ingaba yimbangela yesifo;
- intsholongwane, inqweno yesini ephosakeleyo, ngakumbi kwimantombazana;
- lusizi. Ukuthandana nemvelaphi yokudabuka kubantu abadala, abangakwazi ukuzimela, banobuthathaka kwaye banokukhuseleka;
- umnqweno wamantombazana aphethwe yi-masochism, ukuthobela amadoda asebudala;
- Ukukhanga kwamantombazana kumadoda amadala kuchazwa ngumnqweno wokufumana amava.
Kwiminyaka yesikolo, amantombazana amaninzi ayathandana notitshala, abaculi kunye nabadlali abadala. Amantombazana asemasontweni athathwe ngamadoda amakhulu. Akukho nto ngaphandle komnqweno wokudibana nomntu onokukhusela nje ngoyise. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kule ntombazana eyakhulela ngaphandle koyise. Ngoko ke bazama ukuhlawulela into abangayifumanayo ebuntwaneni babo - uthando nothando lukayise.
Unyango lwe gerontophilia
Ukuguquka kwezesondo kuyitshintsho enzulu kwimvelo kunye neempawu zesifiso sesini. Naluphi na ukuphambukisa kunceda umnqweno wokulala ngesimo esingavamile, ngendlela engaqhelekanga, kunye neqabane elingafanelekanga ngokwesini.
I-Psychotherapy kunye nokusetyenziswa kweziyobisi zengqondo zinganceda ukulahla eso sifo sesondo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, unyango luphumelele. Nangona kunjalo, unyango lweziyobisi ngenxa yokuphambuka kwezesondo alukwazi ukusombulula ngokupheleleyo ingxaki. Ukwamkelwa kwama-hormone kucebise kuphela ngeengxaki ze-endocrine ezicacileyo. Ukuba kubuhlungu ukuba umntu alwe nempembelelo yecala ngokukhawuleza, ayiyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba athathe i-neuroleptics.
Iiseshoni zeengqondo kunye neengcali ezinamava zifanelekileyo. Apha, loo mntu uya kuba nethuba lokuziqonda yena kunye, kunye ne-psychologist, uzame ukusombulula ingxaki.
Ukuthintela iintlobo ezahlukahlukeneyo zobugqwetha ngokwesini kusekelwe kwimfundo efanelekileyo yabantwana. Khuthaza umntwana ukuba abe neempawu eziphezulu zokuziphatha, iimfuno ezahlukahlukeneyo kunye neenqweno, zenze isidima sesimo. Ezi zinto zinciphisa umngcipheko wokuthambekela ngokwesondo. Kwakhona khumbula ukuba awukwazi ukunciphisa indima yabalingani bezesondo obunamava ebomini bakho. Akunakwenzeka ukuba uya kuba nako ukukhusela umntwana wakho kubo, kodwa ukuba ngumhlobo oyinyaniso kuye ngumsebenzi oyintloko. Ebudaleni, ukuthembela phakathi kwabantwana nabazali kubalulekile. Umzekelo ofanelekileyo wokugqibela uza kuba negalelo kumgaqo wokuphindaphinda ngumntwana.