Ngamnye wethu uye wabuza umbuzo onjalo, umzekelo: "Yintoni endiyikhethayo, yintoni endiyenzayo, ukuba ndiyenze ntoni na?". Isizathu sokuba loo ngcamango ibe yinto engqiqweni, okanye ukwesaba ukwenza impazamo, okanye ukwesaba nje. Yeka indlela ephazamisayo ngayo, xa ngenxa yokugqibela, abantu balahlekelwa ngamathuba okuphucula ubomi babo kwaye ngezandla zabo zikhupha ithuba! Ngako oko, ukuze ungenzi iphutha ngenxa yokungasebenzi, kwaye kungekudala, siya kuzama ukufumanisa indlela yokuhlakulela isibindi nokusisigxina ukwesaba kuluhlu lweengxaki zakho.
Ukuphuhlisa isibindi
- Funda ukuzisola ngezenzo zakho, kwaye uyazisola ngenxa yokuba awuzange uzame ukuzenza. Kakade, unelungelo lokwenza iphutha! Unako ukufumana inzuzo kwinto ongayenzi kakuhle. Ngoku, uyazi indlela yokusebenza ngexesha elizayo, kwaye kuphela! Ukunqoba, kwaye uqhube phambili! .. Kubi kakhulu xa uyika into ethile, kwaye ezinye iziganeko ezibalulekileyo zobomi bakho zidlula. Awufumani nantoni na kubo, akukho nto, akukho namava, okanye iimvakalelo. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyayiqonda le nto, kuba, kubaluleke kakhulu, oku kuyisiseko sezinto zonke.
- Kukho uluvo lokuba isibindi asiyikwesaba. Kodwa akunjalo njalo! Ngokuqhelekileyo, isibindi asikho ukungabi nokwesaba. Inkalipho yamukelwa isigqibo esicacileyo, apho uyamkela umngeni wexesha elibi kungakhathaliseki ukuba! Kuvela ukuba unokwesaba, nokuba uyothuswa, kodwa wenza ngokuchanekileyo kwaye ukwenze. Ngoko, ukuba uyika, oko akusiyo isizathu sokwenqaba nokungahambi. Mhlawumbi uxelelwa ukwesaba, kodwa ababomi bakho! ... inyaniso?
- Ngamanye amaxesha kukho ukwesaba "ukuthatha isibindi noxanduva." Oku kubonisa ukuba awuqinisekanga wena kunye nekhono lakho. Qala ukusombulula ingxaki ngale nto, wandise ukuzithemba kwakho . Yazi nje: uya kwenza okulungileyo!
- Abaninzi abanesibindi kuba baxabisa kakhulu ukuvavanya kwabanye abantu. Ngokufanayo, kubo
Ngokunyamekela oko bakucinga ngako, yiyiphi indlela abacinga ngayo ngabangaphandle. Oku akuchanekanga. Emva kwakho konke, oku kubomi bakho, wena kwaye nguwe kuphela onokuyenza ibe yityebi kwaye inomdla! Makungabikho ukungabaza! - Ubunzima, kunye neengxaki zesibindi, kukuba ukwesaba kunye nenkalipho ngokuqinisekileyo kuyachaneka, oko kukuthi, amagama aphikisanayo nentsingiselo. Kwaye kunzima ngathi ukuba sikwazi ukwahlula ukwesaba inkwenkwezi ngamanye amaxesha. Into ephambili kukuqonda into oyifunayo. Emva koko, ukuba ndithi: "Ndiyakwazi konke, ndiya kwenza konke ukuze ndifezekise injongo yam kwaye ndiyamkele umngeni wexesha okanye iimeko!".