Yonke into esenzayo ebomini, enye indlela okanye enye - ukukhetha kwethu. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi abacingi ukuba yonke into esingayenziyo yinto esiyikhethayo. Nsuku zonke sikhetha iiklasi kunye neenjongo - kwaye sichasa ezinye izinto kunye neenjongo.
Ngamanye amaxesha "ukungenzi nto" kukukhethileyo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho umehluko omkhulu phakathi "ukungenzi nto" kwaye "ungenzi nto". Musa ukwenza nantoni na ngexesha elifanayo uphupha malunga nezinto ezingekho - isiqalekiso sabantu abaninzi. Indlela yokuphila yomntu onjalo inokuthelekiswa nokuhlelwa kwindlela kunye neengqungquthela emva kweemoto ezidlulayo.
Imeko yethu yokuphila yangoku ihambelana nesiqingatha sezinto esizikhethile kwixesha elidlulileyo. Ukuba asiyithandi inyaniso ejikelezileyo-okanye ukubonakaliswa kwayo ngabanye - sinokuyitshintsha ngokwenene. Mhlawumbi kungekho ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokukhawuleza njengoko sifuna. Kodwa utshintsho luhlala lunokwenzeka.
Ingcamango ebalulekileyo enokukunceda kakhulu ngokukhetha indlela yokuphila: umntu unokuzivuyisa. Akukho mntu unako. Akukho msebenzi oqaqambileyo, kungekhona umlingani ogqwesileyo okwazi ukwenza ubomi bakho buhambelane ukuba awuhlali ujabule kuwe.
Indlela yokufumana indlela yakho yobomi?
Ukuvakalelwa kukuba indlela yokuphila komntu ixhomekeke kuphela kumntu ngokwakhe ngamava anamandla kakhulu. Kwiintlobo ezininzi oku kwenza ubomi bube lula kwaye bunomdla. Ewe, izinto ezininzi azixhomekeke kuthi. Kodwa sinokulawula ngokupheleleyo kwiinkalo ezithile zobomi:
- ukusabela kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo;
- ukugcinwa kwezifo, ukunakekelwa kwempilo;
- lwethu nolwalamano nabathandekayo. Sinokuhlala siphazamisa ubudlelwane obungasifanelekanga-okanye ukutshintsha indima yethu kule nxulumano;
- Okona kubaluleke kakhulu: oko sifuna ukukwenza ebomini. Lethu shishini.
Endleleni eya empumelelweni ebomini
Ungayifumana njani umsebenzi wobomi bakho? - umbuzo onzima kwaye ungunaphakade.
Okokuqala, qonda ukuba into enye ayithathi ixesha lokuphila. Njengomthetho, umsebenzi ngamnye unamaphulo "anxulumene" kunye "namaqela", kunye neengcali eziqilileyo zinamakhono amanqanaba ayisiseko.
Ukukhangela isizathu sokuphila kufana nokungena kwiziko. Qala kunye nento ekhoyo, kwaye oko akubanga kubangelwa. Yenza ngayo ngomphefumlo wakho. Funda ngalo. Ku fe zekile. Ngokukhawuleza okanye emva koko ubomi buza kunika ithuba lokuphuhlisa kule ndlela-kunye nakwizinto ezinxulumene nayo - okanye uya "kudibana" neshishini elitsha oya kuvuya ngokwenene.
Khumbula: indlela yokuphila okhethwe ngokunyanisekileyo inokunceda umntu azibonakalise ebomini bokwenene. Into ephambili kukuba ngokwenene wenze imizamo, kwaye ungalindeli kude kube njalo into eyenzeka ngomlingo.