Njengomthetho, kuyinto yesiko ukuthetha ngomntu, ukuziphatha kakuhle, ukuba unomntwana.
Iingcali zengqondo zichaza i-infantilism njengobungqina bempawu zobuntwana ekuziphatheni komntu omdala obonakaliswe ukuziphatha kwentlalo. Ubudlelwane nomntu omncinci kunzima ukwakha, kuba ayizimeleyo.
Iimpawu ze-infantilism kumadoda
- Akayithandi umsebenzi wakhe, akafumani ukwaneliseka kokuziphatha okanye izinto eziphathekayo kuye, kodwa iminyaka edityanisa le "ngxube", ehlala ekhononda kwaye ethembisa ukuba athole omnye umsebenzi, ngaphandle kokuthatha nantoni na.
- Abasetyhini abaninzi abaqondi indlela yokuziphatha nomntu omncinci, ukuba unokukwazi ukuthetha kunye nokuthembisa ngokuthe tye, kodwa ngokuphantse akazalisekanga isithembiso. Indoda enjalo inokumisela , kodwa ingabi phantsi kwayo phantsi kwee-pretexts ezahlukeneyo, ezininzi okanye ezincinci.
- Uqhagamshelwano olunonaphakade kunye nomama (iifowuni, iincwadi, ukutyelela rhoqo, ukubonisana okungapheli naye nanini na, nokuba umbuzo omncinane, njl.
- Uninzi lwabasetyhini aluqondi indlela yokuhlala nomntu omncinci, ukuba akanakuzithengisa ukubonisa ukungancedi kwakhe nokungakwazi ukuqonda imiba yemihla ngemihla.
- Ukuba akakho umama osondeleyo, kwaye usenqume ukwakha ubudlelwane nomfazi, ukhangele iqabane lobomi ngokusekelwe kubudlelwane "nonina," enethemba lokuba uya kuthatha yonke ingxaki kunye neengxaki, njengoko unina, kwaye uya kuba ngumyeni othobelayo.
Infantile indoda: iimpawu zakhe ziyabonakala ngokucacileyo. Njengomthetho, lo ngumntu olungele ukuhlala bonke ubomi bakhe kwiholide ethile yokuthobela, eyake yenziwe ngaye ngumama onamandla anamandla kunye noxinzelelo lweengxaki. "Uyazi kakuhle" into yokuba unyana wakhe uyadinga kwaye uyalela ukuba bakhe ubomi bonke, ingakumbi kuba unyana engavumiyo uyavuma ukukhuselwa "ngonaphakade". Ngokuqhelekileyo oomama abanokuzimela ngokuzimela bafuna abafazi nabafazi babo - "abafana".
Ungacingi ukuba umntu osweleyo ulula kumnxibelelwano: kunzima kakhulu kuye, ngoko, ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba le ndoda idonsa umfazi ngento ethile, unemibuzo yokulungisa indlela yokugwenxa ngayo umama onqineleyo kwaye uqale ukuhlala ngokuqhelekileyo naye.
Lo msebenzi unzima kwaye awusoloko ulungelelaniswa, ukuba umntu ngokwakhe akayiva le mfuneko kwaye akaqondi ukuba ubomi kufuneka buguquke ngokubanzi.