Ngaloo suku ungalala?

Kunzima ukufumana umgangatho ophakathi kwimibuzo yosuku olala ngalo. Emva kwakho konke, awufuni ukubheka intombazana yepatitan "ngaphambi kokuba umtshato ungenaye", kodwa kunye nentombazana enengqondo enomoya entloko, naye, ayifuni ukuba.

Ngoko, uyayazi njani le golide exabisekileyo? Inkolelo yokuba intuition, ingqondo engacatshulwayo iyakwazi ukuxelela ngamnye kuthi le mpendulo. Enyanisweni, akubona wonke umntu onokuva ilizwi labo langaphakathi, kwaye ke ngoko kubo abaphathi beengqondo ezikhokelayo kwintsibano yobudlelwane banqume ukwabelana ngolwazi lwabo.

Ngaloo suku ungaphila nomntu?

Inzululwazi yoluntu phakathi kwabameli be-half half strong of humanity ibonise ukuba akubalulekanga kubafana, emva kokubakho ukuhanjelwa komntu onokulala. Ngaphezu koko, abaninzi abantu beza kwenzeka ukuba umfokazi, oye wachitha ubusuku obuhle, emva kweminyaka embalwa waba ngumfazi othandekayo. Akuyi kuba yinto engathandabuzekiyo ukukhankanya ukuba incinci ifike kwisigqibo: isondo ngosuku lokuqala lithetha ngegama lentombazana elibi. Ngaphezu koko, eli candelo lamadoda likholelwa ukuba liyakwazi kwaye lifanele lihluthe, kwaye ngenxa yoko ukushiya kakade kumanyathelo okuqala olwalamano - kungenangqiqo nangenanto.

Uphando lwengqondo alugqitywanga. Iingcali zanquma "ukumba" ngokubanzi kwaye zifumanise ukuba bangaphi abantu abahamba phambili bekulungele ukujongwa ngokwesini eside. I ziphumo zi phawula. Ngomhla wokuqala abalungele ukulala. Ngokombono wabo, ibhinqa lifuna isondo kwiintlanganiso yesithathu kwaye zicinga ukuba zivakalelwa. Emva koko, le nto igolide yegolide emva kokuya kuma-movie, ii-cafes, njl. Yintoni eya kwenzeka xa ungaqhubeki ukuba usondelane? Kuvela ukuba le ndoda "iyatshisa." Ulahlekelwe nantoni na umnqweno wokunxibelelana nentombazana. Ukongezelela, akukhangekanga ukuba wayenomfanekiso wakhe njengomntu onenkxalabo okanye nje ngomntu osele esenomlingane wesondo.

Ukuphikisana malunga nomhla onokulala ngawo, kufuneke ukukhankanya ukuba ukuba iintlanganiso zothando zintlanganiso enye ngenyanga, amadoda alungele ukulinda iiveki, iinyanga. Kwimeko apho umntu kunye nentombazana ibonwa imihla ngemihla, akukho nethuba lokuba ubudlelwane obunjalo buza kuhlala ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintandathu.

Into ebangel 'umdla kukuba xa ekugqibeleni wagqiba ngesondo, kodwa umnqweno womlingane wale nto ulahlekile, kukholelwa ukuba kukuzama kwakhona ukuvuselela umonde phakathi kwababini. Ngelishwa, akwanele ukuba yeyiphi ibini inalo ithuba lesibini.