Naliphi na umntwana uthanda ukubukela iibhotole. Kodwa wonke umntu uyazi ukuba kulolu thando kunokuba yingozi, ngoko abazali banokucinga ngokucwangcisa ixesha elingakanani ukuba uvumele umntwana ukuba ahlale phambi kweTV kunye nento efanelekileyo yokuvumela umntwana ukuba abone.
Ngokuphathelele ixesha lokubukela, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela ukuba kwamehlo ombukeli omncinci lo mthwalo onzima kakhulu. Ukongezelela, iintsana azikavelwanga ngokwaneleyo inkqubo ye-nervous, ngenxa yokuba kunzima ukuba umntwana ahlale ixesha elide kwindawo enye aze agxininise ingqwalasela. Ewe, inkwenkwe inokubukela iipatto ezinomdla ngokulandelanayo, kodwa ungayenzi - ngenxa yoko, umntwana uya kuqala ukuba ngumntu ongenasiphelo ngenxa yesizathu esicacileyo aze aphazamise abazali ngokulala. Yingakho akufanele uvumele umntwana ongeke aphendule iminyaka emi-2 ubudala, jonga iikhathuni ngaphezu kwemizuzu elishumi elinesihlanu ngosuku. Kwaye ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-3 eli xesha linokunyuka ukuya kwiminyaka engamashumi amane.
Ngokubhekiselele ekukhethweni kweetekethi eziphathekayo zezingane, kulukhulu kakhulu.
Ngokomzekelo, kukho ukuveliswa kweetekisi eziluncedo kubantwana kwaye zinceda ukuphuhlisa ingqalelo, imemori, ukucinga kunye nokuba luncedo kubazali. Phinda uhlakulele iimpawu zeemculo. Kwabantwana ukuya kunyaka, oku kubaluleke ngakumbi, njengoko bephuhlisa indlebe yefowuni ngokukhawuleza, ngoko bafunda ukuthetha ngaphambili, ekubeni iingoma zeetoto zineemvakalelo ezinzulu kwaye zihlala zidala umdla kwaye zitsalane ingqalelo.
Ukufundisa iikhathuni kunokuxelela umntwana malunga nento entsha, mfundise into ethile. Ngendlela, iibhotole ezijoliswe kubantwana ukuya kunyaka, ngokuqhelekileyo zibhekisela kulo, ukufundisa, udidi kunye nokunceda umntwana ukuba afunde ngokukhawuleza ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kuyaziwa ukuba nabantwana abancinane banokukhumbula ngeencwadi, ukuba oku kufundiswa kwimo yomdlalo. Kulo msebenzi, akunakwenzeka, ngendlela, i -alfabhethi-alfabhethi yabantwana ifanelekile. Imifanekiso yamagama iya kuhlala isenkumbulo yakhe, kwaye umntwana uya kuluqonda lula loo nto inzima ngokubonga ngendlela enomdla ukuba anikezele loo nto. Kuyafana nokufundisa iilwimi zangaphandle - kulula ukufumana iibhotole zezingane ngesiNgesi. Oku kuya kunceda xa umzali engathethi olu lwimi.
Ukulungiswa kuyakunceda ukuxoxa nomntwana obonwayo. Unokwenza ingqwalasela, kokubili kumxholo wesalathiso ngokwawo kunye nokuziphatha kwabalinganiswa, ukufunda ukuhlukanisa phakathi kokulungileyo nokubi. Siyabulela oku, nangona umntwana ebona ukuziphatha okungalunganga kubalinganiswa bekhathuni eyintandokazi, yena uya kuba nako ukuqonda ukuba akufanele axelise abalinganiswa.
Ngokumalunga nokufundisa imimiselo yokuziphatha kubalulekile ukubonisa iifoto ze-Soviet ze-Soviet - zizinto ezintle kwaye zifikelelekayo kubantwana zizona zinto zixabisekileyo, kwaye ngokwenene bonke abantwana bazama ukuxelisa amaqhawe abo abathandayo. Ngaloo nto, iidokrasi zaseRashiya zezingane ezixhamla kakhulu kumazwe angaphandle, apho abaqhankqalazi bahlala bebonisa ukuzingca nobuqhetseba nokubonisa ukuziphatha ngokwesini kumntwana.
Ukuze ukhethe iibhotole ezingcono kumntwana wakho, abazali mabaqale bahlolisise ngokucokisekileyo oko baceba ukukubonisa. Okokuqala, kufuneka uqaphele ukubonakaliswa kobukrakra, yiziphi iimpawu abalinganiswa abasemgangathweni abanalo, kunye nokucinga ukuba yintoni umntwana onokuyifunda kulaba bantu. Ingqwalasela ekhethekileyo kufuneka ihlawulwe kwiimifanekiso ezidakisayo zezingane- oko kukuthi bahleka. Ngelishwa, kwiimifanekiso zanamhlanje zihlala zibizwa ngokuba yi-black humor - umntu washaywa, umntu wawa phantsi, umntu wabeka i-bandwagon, njl njl. Kungaba ngumhleko, kodwa umntwana uya kuthatha isigqibo sokuba kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko, kwaye kuya kuba nzima kunzima ukususa kuyo.
Kubalulekile ukubeka isiseko sokuziphatha komntwana nangaphambi kokuba aqale ukuvusa ukuzimela, yingako kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhambele ngokuthe ngqo umba wokukhetha iikhathuni kwintsana yakho.