"Kutheni amahhashi elele ukuma?" Kutheni iipeaches zitshatileyo? Kutheni, xa uhlala kwindawo yokuhlambela ixesha elide, iminwe yakho ibhidlizwe? "Ubomi bomntwana oneminyaka engama-3-5 buzele ngamawaka kunye namawaka" kutheni? ". Esi sisiphumo sentshisekelo, inzala kwihlabathi elibajikelezile, kunye nomnqweno wolwazi. Kwaye umsebenzi wethu, ngabazali, ukuxhasa le nzala, ukuyihlakulela, kungekhona ukugxotha imibuzo engabonakaliyo, nokuba iphindaphindiwe ngamanye amaxesha ngosuku, zama ukunyamekela yonke into ethi "kutheni" kubaluleke kakhulu kumntwana okwangoku.
Ngoko, ezandleni zethu (mna, umama, kunye nendodana eneminyaka engama-4 ubudala) sinencwadi emangalisayo ngendlu yokupapasha "Mann, Ivanov kunye neFerber" ngesihloko esilula esithi "Kutheni?" Umbhali uKatherine Ripley, enzelwe abantwana ukusuka ekuzalweni. Le ncwadi yaqala ukuguqulelwa kwisiRashiya, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo iyafaneleka.
Malunga nokupapashwa
Okokuqala, ndingathanda ukuphawula umgangatho wokupapashwa. Ngomhla wobuninzi beencwadi ngabavakalisi abahlukeneyo, ukufumana ikopi elungileyo kunokuba nzima. Kodwa "inkolelo" kunye nomsebenzi wakhe omhle. Le ncwadi ifomati ye-A4 efanelekileyo, ekubophezelweni kwekhwalithi ephezulu, ngokushicilela kakuhle, ukuprinta okukhulu, amaphepha angabonakaliyo kunye nemifanekiso emihle ngokumangalisayo nguScott Richie. Ukulungelelaniswa kokusetyenziswa kwincwadi kukho ibhukumaka.
Malunga nomxholo
Isakhiwo sencwadi sifanele siphendule kakuhle: ingcaciso ayinikwe ekuqaleni, njengakwezinye iincwadi zezifundo ezifanayo, kodwa zihlukaniswe ngokucacileyo zibe ngamacandelo:
- imiba kwindawo yokuhlambela;
- imibuzo kwivenkile;
- imibuzo ngaphambi kokulala;
- imibuzo yokuhamba;
- imibuzo ekhitshini;
- imibuzo kwilali.
Kwinqanaba ngalinye kunemibuzo engama-12 okanye ngaphezulu kunye nezimpendulo kubo, okwaneleyo ukunelisa umdla kubantu abaninzi "kutheni". Konke oku kuncediswa yimifanekiso emihle yobomi benkwenkwana nabazali bakhe kunye nezicwangciso ezilula neziqondakalayo.
Inkcazo epheleleyo
Ndiyithande le ncwadi, kwaye, ngokubaluleke kakhulu, umntwana, obuyela ngokuphindaphindiweyo kuwo, ngamanye amaxesha ngokwakhe, ekhupha iphepha kunye nokujonga imifanekiso. Isicatshulwa sifundeka kakuhle, nganye "kutheni?" Ukusabalalisa okwehlukeneyo kugqityiweyo, kwaye imibuzo ngokwabo ngokwenene yona leyo umntwana ayayibuza yona xa eqala ukuthetha. Apha awuyi kufumana ingqiqo ecacileyo malunga nezobugcisa zobuxhobo, indawo okanye, yithi, imbali. Kodwa, uyabona, ihlabathi lomntwana liphela nje indlu yakhe, uhamba nabazali bakhe, baya evenkile kwaye bahamba nogogo wakhe kwidolophana, apho kukho ezininzi ezahlukeneyo "kutheni?" Kuzo iincwadi eziphendulayo, ngokucacileyo nangokuqondakalayo, , into eyenziwa ngumntwana ngokuzonwabisa. Ukongezelela, kukukhuthaza ukuba ubuze enye imibuzo, ukuba unomdla kwizinto ezizungezile kunye neziganeko, kwaye ufunde ngokwakho, ukucinga, ukufuna iimpendulo kubo.
Kuba abantu abanomdla ekupheleni kwencwadi kukho iphepha elingenanto abazali nabazali abanokuzizalisa.
Ngaba ndingayincoma incwadi yokufunda? Ngokuqinisekileyo, ewe! Incwadi enjalo inokuba yongezwa kakhulu kwilayibrari yabantwana okanye isipho kubathandekayo.
UTatyana, mama, kutheni, umphathi wezinto.