Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba ixesha lesidlo kuba ngabazali kunye nabantwana ukuhlushwa ngokwenene: abazali ngokuzimela bazama ukunyusa umntwana wabo, kunye nomntwana ngokulinganayo ngokuchasene. Amama achitha iiyure ekhitshini, ephazamisa ingxaki yendlela yokwenza umntwana adle.
Ngaba ixabiso?
Ngaba kuyimfuneko ukuphoqa umntwana nonke? Mhlawumbi kulungele "ukucotha" kwaye uqale ukuthembela iimfuno zomntwana wakho? Kwindalo, akukho mnye ubomi ophilileyo oya kufa ngenxa yendlala, esondelene nomthombo wokutya. Ngokufanayo, umntwana ophilileyo akayi kuba nexhala xa kukho umama onothando, eselungele ukumondla ngokufunwa. Ngokona nxalenye, iingxaki zokutya zivela ngenxa yokuba abazali balinganisa ukutya komntwana ngokwemigangatho yabo, ngokuqinisekileyo bengacingi ngokubaluleka kwentsana yabo. Mhlawumbi umntwana ekuseni akanakudla, kuba umzimba wakhe awukavuli ngokwaneleyo.
Ngako oko, indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokwenza umntwana adle akuyikunyanzelisa. Ingane ayifuni ukufumana isidlo sakusasa - ngaphandle kwamazwi angenangqiqo, ukunyaniseka, nangakumbi oko kusongelwa simthume etafuleni ngaphambi kokuhlwa. Kodwa, imeko ebaluleke kakhulu impumelelo kule meko ayiyikushiya umntwana ngethuba elincinci lokunyuselwa ukutya kuze kube yinto elandelayo. Ukuba unxininisa kakhulu, unokumnika i-apple, kodwa nakunoma ikuphi, musa ukuphazamisa ukuthanda kwakhe ngeepes, ii-yummies. Ungacingi ukuba umntwana akathandi izitya kunye nokutya ngenxa yokuba luncedo. Ngokomzekelo, ngoko kungathandwa ngabantwana abaninzi i-cottage cheese, unokuthatha indawo yoshizi, i-yogurt okanye ezinye iimveliso ezine calcium. Indlela yokufumana umntwana ukuba adle iindlebe - amaxesha omama abancinci banomdla. Impendulo ifanayo - akukho bulwaphulo. Ukuzisa ukutya okuncedisayo , ukugxininisa kwiinqwenelelo zentsana, kungekhona kwimigqaliselo encwadi. Mnike umntwana umkhwa, kodwa ungammxinyi, makhe afune ukuvalelwa kwintsha. Kwaye ukuba ixesha lokusondeza isondlo selufikile - umbuzo othi "ukunyanzelisa" awusayi kuvela.